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  • 12-07-2006 11:42am
    #1
    Vodka&coke
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26 ✭


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  • #2
    RandomOne
    Closed Accounts Posts: 204 ✭✭RandomOne


    You tell him! For all you know he wants something exclusive with you but you've given him the impression you'd run a mile.

    Even if he only wants some fun, continuing would only be hurtful for you. There's no point starting out without knowing you're both on the same page.


  • #3
    Zombrex
    Closed Accounts Posts: 25,848 ✭✭✭✭Zombrex


    Vodka&coke wrote:
    Now I dont know what to do, do I tell him and maby screw up what I sorta have with him or continue on having fun with him and feel used??

    Tell him what exactly?

    Tell him that you are fell in love with him the second you saw him? Er, that would be no.

    Tell him you had a lot of fun on your date and would like to see him again, definately.

    Don't assume that just because you gave the impression that you are "playing the field" he is thinking this is an easy lay and it doesn't mean anything. He might be thinking that, but you will just have to see if the thing develops into a proper relationship. Most people start off playing the field until they find someone they actually like.


  • #4
    fuzzywiggle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,089 ✭✭✭fuzzywiggle


    Tell him! If it all works out well you won't feel used anymore and if it doesn't go so well you can end it and you won't feel used anymore! Go for it! Good luck!


  • #5
    Fanny Cradock
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,245 ✭✭✭✭Fanny Cradock


    i'm not exactly sure what you are so confused about. could you clarify it a bit?

    anyway, for someone who doesn't like clingy guys, falling in love and practically crying after yourt first date seems a bit much. take it easy - at this stage of the relationship you don't want to mention how you felt. if you do he'll most likely do a legger. just bide your time and see how things go.


  • #6
    Marksie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    just be honest that you are not seing anyone else. he may want the same.
    there is no need to say you fell in love right away. Wait a little until you know more before saying anything.

    Oh and tell him how wonderful it was and see if he felt the same.

    It can and does work, i know personally about the mysterious love at first sight! phenomenon


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