Meeting sum1 after 7years

Kuz_3040

I have recently gotten back in touch with a female friend who i grew up with however 7years ago she moved to another town n we have never seen each other or spoken to each other since. I managed to get back in touch wid her through myspace and we have been emailing each other occassionally and i suggested that if she is ever in my town we shud meet up n have a catch up we she agreed to. Now here comes the complicated part i did find her attractive and based on pictures i have seen i still do do therefore shud i treat this thing when we meet up as a date or not and shud i take anythin e.g. flowers to impress her

KdjaCL

Be buddies as you were 7 years ago and see how it goes from there.


Did the same a while back and we still "buddies"


kdjac

Ruu_Old

Maybe leave that for the next time (if there ends up being one). Just catch up with her, see how shes being getting on and see if you still like her as a person before you go anywhere. Best of luck with it anyway.

Miss Fluff

I'd treat it as a pick up where you left off meeting. Bringing flowers etc might be a bit full on, you haven't seen her in 7 years and it might be too much too soon, she could be in a long term relationship or anything and you don't want to be left with egg on your face. Go meet her, have a lovely time and take it from there. Good luck

jonny68

Kuz_3040 wrote:

I have recently gotten back in touch with a female friend who i grew up with however 7years ago she moved to another town n we have never seen each other or spoken to each other since. I managed to get back in touch wid her through myspace and we have been emailing each other occassionally and i suggested that if she is ever in my town we shud meet up n have a catch up we she agreed to. Now here comes the complicated part i did find her attractive and based on pictures i have seen i still do do therefore shud i treat this thing when we meet up as a date or not and shud i take anythin e.g. flowers to impress her

did you ever ride her?what's her status now she could be goin out with some geezer and hasnt said anything?;)

Heyes

KdjaC wrote:

Be buddies as you were 7 years ago and see how it goes from there.

perfect

Kuz_3040

Thanks for the help and no i never slept wid her n im 90% sure she is single

the_syco

Treat her as a man, ie: don't try to f**k her after you meet her, and none of the flowers. Chill, relax, do what you do, and see how she plays it.

Vegeta

the_syco wrote:

Treat her as a man, ie: don't try to f**k her after you meet her.

honestly this works way too well. Good advice ^^

LegacyUser

Don't give her flowers...you will decrease her interest level in you if there even is one...