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  • 01-06-2006 2:39pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    If a woman likes you. It's a broad question i know. But hear me out.

    I've been out many a night. And seen lots of girls basically looking at me. (no smart comments). Like i look at them, they keep looking back and all that. For ages. And then at the end of the night if i don't say anything, theywalk out, end of story.

    It's really hard.
    Theres this girl i really like, tall'ish, dark hair, kinda of a grunger chick but quite classy and well presented. (thin jeans, converse, well spoken). Anyway, she used to be going with this other guy who was older then me, and i don't know if she still is, but i see her most days now and kinda day hello, she's been in my house before with a mutual friend. But i don't know what to do.

    Any suggestions? I don't her well enough where if i made an arse of myself i would be devestated.....


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  • #2
    chamlis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,175 ✭✭✭chamlis


    Uh, can you repeat that last sentence? You would, or you wouldn't be devasted ??

    As regards the "broad Question", that's something men have been asking themself for years. Beats the sh1t out of me, tbh...

    Hey, if you find out, let me know ;)


  • #3
    Jookie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭Jookie


    The real trick is to go up to her and say "Hey, do you like me... ya know as like more than a friend?".

    If she says yes, you'll be making out in under 5 minutes! Sweeeet


  • #4
    Mr.Nice Guy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 45,640 ✭✭✭✭Mr.Nice Guy


    Inept wrote:
    If a woman likes you. It's a broad question i know. But hear me out.

    Well from my own experiences, you won't find out through her telling you. You have to find out through your actions.
    Inept wrote:
    I've been out many a night. And seen lots of girls basically looking at me. (no smart comments). Like i look at them, they keep looking back and all that. For ages. And then at the end of the night if i don't say anything, theywalk out, end of story.

    You seem surprised. What do you expect them to do? The way this world works is that the guy makes the first move. It's a pain alright but that's the way it is. The guys who stand at a bar all night by their friends are the ones who end up going home for a date with their right hand.
    Inept wrote:
    It's really hard.

    It's not as hard as you think. If a girl keeps looking your way then there's a good chance she wants you to approach. All you have to do is say hi and introduce yourself. If you get the feeling she doesn't welcome your presence then politely excuse yourself and leave. You'll live to fight another day!
    Inept wrote:
    Theres this girl i really like, tall'ish, dark hair, kinda of a grunger chick but quite classy and well presented. (thin jeans, converse, well spoken). Anyway, she used to be going with this other guy who was older then me, and i don't know if she still is, but i see her most days now and kinda day hello, she's been in my house before with a mutual friend. But i don't know what to do.

    Any suggestions? I don't her well enough where if i made an arse of myself i would be devestated.....

    Just talk to the girl. Ask her questions and keep the conversation centred around her. If you find you are getting along well then suggest to her that the two of you hang out again some time. You don't have to pour your heart out to her. If she says yes then take it from there. If she says no then say OK and forget about it.

    Oh and as for this...
    Jookie wrote:
    The real trick is to go up to her and say "Hey, do you like me... ya know as like more than a friend?".

    If she says yes, you'll be making out in under 5 minutes! Sweeeet

    And if she says no you look like a complete loser. You'd never see me doing this approach.

    Just keep things simple and in a way that you can save face if things don't go the way you want. Good luck.


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