Male Enhancement Question(I swear this ain't spam!)

LegacyUser

Hi,
Mods, move this to Sex & Sexuality if you want, as its not really a PI, but please not to After Hours, TTD, or TCN. I've access to it, but there's no way in hell I'd log in to write this. Also, to stop the spammers from spamming this thread :mad:

I'm just wondering about those male enhancement drugs, as of late. I'm what you'd call a "grower", as in, my penis is 2 inches small when I'm not horny , but 6.5 inches when I am, and I think this may be affecting my self esteem/confidence, as I have difficulty pee'ing in the public urinals's (have to go into the cubicles, otherwise nothing comes out) which the doctor said is due to a "lack of confidence".

From what I've read, I think that if I used one of these enhancment drugs (I'd only want an extra half inch, tbh), my penis would stay "big" (about 5 inches, or something) when not horny, and not shrink, but I'm unsure of this. Also, I wouldn't know which one to get, and how to approach the doctor/chemist about this, due to embarresment.

Being a member (no pun intended) here, I've read the rules, and I'm not asking for medical advice, but merrily info on the above, and possibly a real website (ie: not just another Spammers website) that would be able to help me.

Beruthiel

unreg_for_this wrote:

my penis is 2 inches small when I'm not horny , but 6.5 inches when I am.

6.5 is above the average! if it works during sex, what does anyone care what size it is besides that!

chamlis

Dude what are you worried about? Like b said, 6.5 is above average. Just because other guys may have bigger lads when not aroused, it doesn't mean they get bigger than yours is when it's aroused. Doesn't work that way. Seeing as you're above average anyway, they probably don't even get as big. Something to think about.

I've heard of exercises that one can do. I wouldn't trust any kind of pills. As far as I know, those are all bull, just spammers like you said. The exercises are probably bull as well, but there seems to be a grain of truth and history involved as that is something tribes used to do in different parts of the world. Do a search for it, but don't pay for anything I say.

And, a, let me know how you get on with that......

ferdi

OP, thats a terrible idea. none of those pills work, the only definite way is surgery according to a channel 4 documentry.this is surgery that could go wrong, leaving you impotent and for what? there is nothing wrong with being a grower, most of us are growers

Canis Lupus

You're normal.

As for the toilet problem I've gotten stagefright going up to the urinals as well. I find it funny though as it's, I'm bursting, squeeze between two lads and..... and..... nothing. For me it's more a question of a strong dislike of taking my winkle out in front of other guys to take a piss, it's never been something I wanna see or have other lads look at. I only use the urinal if I totally have to.

simu

Who cares about whether you use cubicles or urinals tbh? The worst thing would be if your size was affecting your love life but it's not really a problem imho - most partners are way more concerned with what a guy's penis is like when he's turned on than when he's not and the idea of using "enhancers" is a bit gross anyway imho, I suspect others might agree.

Steoob

em... isn't the whole concept of getting an erection supposed to be going from a small unerect penis to a large erect penis?.. have i missed something here?

Moojuice

YEah Im the same. Not much when its dormant, but when its alive and kicking it trebles in size (about 7-8 inches, its been a while since i measured) To be honest why would you want a large dick swinging about when you are not using for anything? Though I have seen a picture of the Rage Against the Machine naked on stage and their dromant state is bigger than mine. They look circumcised though so maybe thats why.

6 inches and above is above average so dont worry about it. Girth is actually more important to a girl then length. Its their little secret though.

Your best bet is to use cubicles for the time being, and then build yourself up to a urinal. Generally guys don't look at each other's penises whilst peeing (unless they've got some serious problems!) so you shouldn't worry about it too much!

As for the 6.5 inches, that is a size you should be proud of! For thats when it really does matter, being totally honest with you!

DOLEMAN

One of the only problems I have with porn is that it is giving young guys seriously unreasonable expectations about penis size.

I remember reading somewhere (warning: could have been bull****) that girls can only get pleasure from the first couple of inches inside their vagina.

amazingemmet

If your looking for a bit more size un-erect get one of those vacuum pump things
check out the wiki on bmezine.com and it'll explain it all if you don't already know.

DOLEMAN

Also, I can't imagine any pills will make your penis grow. If it's some kind of growth hormone or something, then everything will grow. I don't think the penis can be targeted!

I don't really understand the being embarrassed at urinals thing. Who's looking at you???

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I hear cutting your public hair makes you look bigger...

Ickle Magoo

DOLEMAN wrote:

I remember reading somewhere (warning: could have been bull****) that girls can only get pleasure from the first couple of inches inside their vagina.

That is not true - but suffice to say men with small peni can be fantastic lovers & men with humungous dongs can be bloody awful....and I speak from experience here, lol!

Why are you wanting to impress strangers at urinals anyway? A flacid penis may need only be as long as is necessary to pee - it has no bearing on how well endowed you are when erect....the other men at the urinal will know this....if you take unprescribed drugs or herbal tablets or use some kind of devise then you could do untold damage which could leave you looking really wierd at the urinals....best of luck

Aard

If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Just be happy you don't have a micropenis. (And yes, that is a real word.)

gypsygirl

6 inches and above is above average so dont worry about it. Girth is actually more important to a girl then length. Its their little secret though
Female opionion here;
Very true; Honestly though, its not about size, its about how you use it, My guy is fairly small untill I arouse him, then the fun begins, I love that I make hm so big, this is not an issue for girls (we females have the same issues with breast size) when my man gets hard, I know its all mine, enjoy it.

Hermione*

Moojuice wrote:

6 inches and above is above average so dont worry about it. Girth is actually more important to a girl then length. Its their little secret though.

Agh, how did ye find out? :eek:

OP, he's right though ... you've nothing to worry about

Moojuice

Also dont forget that the vagina is not some infinitlly large cavern. So really big penis's (peni?) are useless as you could not fit it in. I remember reading that one of the ideas contained in the Karma Sutra is that men with certain sized penis's (peni?) should be matched with women with certain sized vaginas. An ideal fit so to speak. Too big is just as useless as being too small.

LegacyUser

Cheers for the replies, one and all

Its just one of the many issue's in my f*cked up head atm. At least my body (expect for the spare tire :rolleyes: ) ain't f*cked up, I suppose

Still shallow, tho so people say, but maybe in time I'll find a way around that. Suppose it goes to show how porn can warp ones mind Ah well. If I can find a way to get my head around the above problem, maybe there's hope for me yet