Anyones elses partner do this....

dbnavan

My wife wakes up some mornings and tells me blow by blow what happened in her dream before she woke up, usually has something to do with her having the baby or me dying!!!

Me being a loving husband sits there nods my head and listens even though some are so vivid i get a 5 minute blow by blow account, she remembers her dreams better then i remember real life!, I dont want to offend her, but part of me wants to say "Oh come on it was only a dream, why do I need to listen to all this. I want my coffee." But I dont I sit there smile and nod my head.

Scoops

Maybe you should be saying this to her.

Do you have to say "blow" in that paragraph so many times?

Between "partner" and "blow" I'm getting odd images...

Ruu_Old

Yeah a bit confusing for me also Best talk to your wife about it though.

ST*

dbnavan wrote:

My wife wakes up some mornings and tells me blow by blow what happened in her dream before she woke up, usually has something to do with her having the baby or me dying!!!

Me being a loving husband sits there nods my head and listens even though some are so vivid i get a 5 minute blow by blow account, she remembers her dreams better then i remember real life!, I dont want to offend her, but part of me wants to say "Oh come on it was only a dream, why do I need to listen to all this. I want my coffee." But I dont I sit there smile and nod my head.

Tell your wife not to worry
It is not uncommon in pregnancy to have very vivid, and sometimes upsetting dreams. The body is going through alot of changes, and hormones are flying!

If you are one to believe dreams have meanings, dreams of death don't nessesarily mean someone will die - but can signify new beginnings.

OMcGovern

Buy her one of those dream dictionary books.... so she can get an idea how crazy she is....

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

Make up your own dreams. You were playign international cricket for Ireland and give her a blow by blow account...

Dun laoire

dbnavan wrote:

My wife wakes up some mornings and tells me blow by blow what happened in her dream before she woke up, usually has something to do with her having the baby or me dying!!!

Me being a loving husband sits there nods my head and listens even though some are so vivid i get a 5 minute blow by blow account, she remembers her dreams better then i remember real life!, I dont want to offend her, but part of me wants to say "Oh come on it was only a dream, why do I need to listen to all this. I want my coffee." But I dont I sit there smile and nod my head.

I hear ya fella. I have to listen to the same sh1te sometimes myself. Altough i did ramble on to her about the sharkdog dream i had not so long ago. Now that was a dream worth sharing.

faceman

yeah i do it. me missus loves it tho cos she rarely dreams. she reads to much into my dreams. one time i dreamt she was givin me a... never mind.

tman

sock her in the jaw next time it happens
the bitch should be up making you breakfast, not flapping her gums about this kind of crap!

Gandhi

Dun laoire wrote:

I hear ya fella. I have to listen to the same sh1te sometimes myself. Altough i did ramble on to her about the sharkdog dream i had not so long ago. Now that was a dream worth sharing.

Sharkdog?????

Don't keep us hanging, dude. Spill the beans!!!

0utshined

If Sharkdog is the kind of awesomeness I'm imagining then you need to start a new thread with details right now buddy!

@OP, it's a tough break but maybe phase out and remember your own dream while she's talking. You scored the wining goal in the FA cup, remember?

zuma

tman wrote:

sock her in the jaw next time it happens
the bitch should be up making you breakfast, not flapping her gums about this kind of crap!

Arrgh!!!

Thats REAL man talk!!!

The_Minister

faceman wrote:

yeah i do it. me missus loves it tho cos she rarely dreams. she reads to much into my dreams. one time i dreamt she was givin me a... never mind.

Tell her to write the dreams down and see if they make any kind of pattern, - write them down fast or the details will fade. That way you can listen to them over breakfast when you can eat and read the paper while muttering "uh huh"

Dun laoire

Firespinner wrote:

Tell her to write the dreams down and see if they make any kind of pattern, - write them down fast or the details will fade. That way you can listen to them over breakfast when you can eat and read the paper while muttering "uh huh"

Dont know about you my friend but the only thing i have beside my bed is a box of tissues to sort ye old morning glory:D

dbnavan

tman wrote:

sock her in the jaw next time it happens
the bitch should be up making you breakfast, not flapping her gums about this kind of crap!

gobshi*e:rolleyes:

Chucky the tree

dbnavan wrote:

gobshi*e:rolleyes:

Did she have a dream a few weeks ago about you losing your sense of humour?



it seems to of come true..

The_Minister

Dun laoire wrote:

Dont know about you my friend but the only thing i have beside my bed is a box of tissues to sort ye old morning glory:D

Ah, the mating call of the single coffee boy....





Have you never heard of a dream diary?

From my sig you can see that I think about this alot

Dun laoire

Firespinner wrote:

Ah, the mating call of the single coffee boy....





Have you never heard of a dream diary?

From my sig you can see that I think about this alot

I would love to have kept diary's of my dreams to be fair but you know how it is nowadays, alarm rings and your up and out. No time fella. Mind you it would make some fascinating reading.

Question.
Is it's possible to dream about something that you've never seen before?

Mimikyu

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Procrastinator

Sounds like an anxiety dream.
If she's really anxious, telling you about the dream could be just be an excuse to get some reassurance from you. Is she constantly looking for reassurance then?
If yes sounds like she's in a pattern of it. Poor girl.

Best way to handle stuff, i think, Is to get her at a quiet moment during the day...when nothing else is on and you won't be interrupted. then sit down and say that you have something to discuss with her. Tell her you've been noticing that she's aving lots of vividdreams, that they all seem frightening and ask is there something wrong.

Give her some space to say whats going on and then say that it's making you a bit annoyed (that'll be a hard one to say)
Anyway good luck

delly

Make with the sharkdog story already!

branners69

yeah what about the sharkdog??

Does it have a shark head with hind legs or is it a dogs head with a tail fin??

jaggeh

why are you reading this its a spoiler ffs

delly

jaggeh wrote:

why are you reading this its a spoiler ffs

Unless your spoiler is about sharkdog, keep out of it.

Back on topic and I'm picturing a bulldog with the head of a shark.

The_Minister

Dun laoire wrote:

Question.
Is it's possible to dream about something that you've never seen before?

Your mind can throw different factors together in various ways so that it seems new.

dbnavan

Chucky the tree wrote:

Did she have a dream a few weeks ago about you losing your sense of humour?



it seems to of come true..

Fail the see the humor in suggesting one hits the partner, even in a joke sorry maybe just my morals are too high, I would regard myself as having a great sense of humor, but the main ingredient here was missing, it wasnt funny.

Dun laoire

Yeah the sharkdog!!!

I was down the beech (Sandycove) and out of nowhere a big fcuk off shark came right for me, you now that thing when a shark nears the surface with its fin up out of the water about 3 feet and you can see the water parting over it's massive body as it raced to me with great speed. Now dont ask how but i swam to the shore without it catching me and i ran away as quick as i could but i looked behind and the fcukin thing was chasing me. It had The sharks body (About 20ft long with big fin) but had a dogs head and legs but everything else was like the shark. Now i dont remember much after that except i was cowering under a rock but could hear it screaming????

Other things: 1) It was that really dark grey weather but not nightime if you know what i mean and the sea was so calm.

2) I was the only person on the beech for some reason.

I'm sure i'm missing stuff because it was a good few weeks ago but it kind of stuck with me like no other dream before. I felt weird all day in work too like that anxious feeling you get???