Smooching

smocher__

I'am a little inexsperianced so bare with me. If a guy dosent smoouch me or at least try and smooch me by the third date. Does that mean we have hit the friend zone. I'am a little confused

Smoocher xx

Zulu

smocher__ wrote:

I'am a little inexsperianced so bare with me. If a guy dosent smoouch me or at least try and smooch me by the third date. Does that mean we have hit the friend zone. I'am a little confused

Smoocher xx

No, it just means he's as shy as you. Make a move the next time.


As I was once told: you'll be forgiven for making a move; you won't if you don't.

smocher__

I dont know he seems preety confident to me. Mabe even a little arrogant. Maybe he just dosent like me.

Zulu

smocher__ wrote:

I dont know he seems preety confident to me. Mabe even a little arrogant. Maybe he just dosent like me.

he wouldn't be out with you 3 times if he didn't like you.

It's funny you should say that: people feel confident is certain situations, and awkard in others. He could be the most confident public speaker - but put him one on one with a girl he really fancies...
People are different.

Bottom line is - why would he go out with you if he didn't like you? ...and why would he go out with you again?? ...and again???

Exar Khun

Could he be covering up his own insecurities/shyness/whatever with bravado?

smocher__

Each time we have gone out, I asked him out and provided the tickets.Maybe he's just using me

Zulu

smocher__ wrote:

Each time we have gone out, I asked him out and provided the tickets.Maybe he's just using me

Well either sit back and wait for him to ask you out, or ask him directly.

Tobias Greeshman

Well has he done anything to suggest he's into you, such as holding your hand?

He could be totally shy (all confidence could be put on) and was too shy to ask you out or kiss you. Let him organize the next date and if it happens, then if he doesn't make a move, then grab the bull by the horns, so to speak.

Zombrex

smocher__ wrote:

I'am a little inexsperianced so bare with me. If a guy dosent smoouch me or at least try and smooch me by the third date. Does that mean we have hit the friend zone. I'am a little confused

Smoocher xx

Think of it this way, you have been out with him 3 times and you haven't tried to kiss him yet. Does that mean you don't like him?

Give him at least a good hint that you are ready to kiss him, stare into his eyes or something while not saying anything, maybe go for his hand.

He is still going out with you so it is not unreasonable to assume that he likes you. He might just be being respectfull, not wanting to force a kiss on you

chamlis

If he seems confident and you ask him out and provide tickets etc. Well, darling I'm afraid he probably is using you. I'm assuming you're quite young(ish whatever) so it's probably no big deal for him. Just tells all his mates after. We are pr*cks. Don't give him the time day. You will feel more confident in yourself then, I promise. You're probably getting the vibes too, that's why you don't go for it yourself.

Sony

I have a friend whos 30 odd - hes grand talking to women and everyone else for that matter but when it comes to going on dates he's confided in me that he just cant build himself up to going in for the kiss ...

Anyway He ends up doing exaclty what you've done- going out for 3/4 dates before doing anything more than a kiss on the cheek - this has happend twice recently enough but to be honest he finally went for it with each of the girls...

My point being , Im sure theres loads of lads out there like that - its not as if its something a normal "bloke" would find easy telling someone....he's just shy,take the initiative and kiss him first - trust me he'll be chuffed

Ruu_Old

Why leave it up to him? Make a move the next time yourself.

X-SL

haha "friend zone" the movies made that one up

Lex Luthor

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