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Sex a constant distraction?

  • 18-04-2006 3:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I was just wondering if anybody else feels the same. I spend my day fantasising and thinking of schemes to get laid. Whether or not I would go through with them is another story. I have a girlfriend for the past 8 months and she is the best thing thats ever happened to me. I think I love her. I am attracted to her. However I just find myself constantly thinking of sex with other women. How do I stop these feelings as I fear that they will cause me to break up with my girlfriend just so I can go and have more sex.


Comments

  • #2
    Oryx
    Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    Every time you think like this find a distraction. Make a cup of tea... do sudoku... eat some chocolate ;) Ok maybe not being realistic, but only you can stop yourself following these thoughts. Go home and tell your gf all about your fantasies, do them with her, and stop this headwrecking windup on yourself.


  • #3
    Ruu_Old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    Yep, go and talk with your girlfriend. Tell her of your needs but dont put too much pressure on her either. Make sure to give a little in your relationship too. Theres lots other fun stuff to do as a couple apart from the sex.


  • #4
    the Guru
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,362 ✭✭✭the Guru


    Its fairly normal , most blokes are the same and so are some of you girls,


  • #5
    Sony
    Closed Accounts Posts: 301 ✭✭Sony


    some people really need to know sour before they can appreciate the sweet

    If you really like your gf - dont act on this distraction, theres nothing wrong with thinking about it once you dont act on it


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