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  • 04-04-2006 1:22pm
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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    went out with this girl a few time and we slept together and went out another few times also but then she says that she doesn't want a relationship........I'm confused isn't that what we have already?


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    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    if ye only went out a few times, then no, it's not a relationship


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    Tobias Greeshman
    Registered Users Posts: 2,082 ✭✭✭Tobias Greeshman


    Sorry man, sounds like she just wanted a casual thing. Well you have a casual relationship but not a commited non-casual one, which is what you're after.

    I assume she never called you her bf and never actually called what you had a relationship. She was probably just after a no-strings attached thing.


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    metrovelvet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,376 ✭✭✭metrovelvet


    1. She likes hanging out with you.

    2. She likes having sex with you.

    3. She likes keeping her options open.

    This is good. It means you have your freedom too. You have a relationship but not with the usual terms and conditions which assumingly attend that word RELATIONSHIP.


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    Kell
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭Kell


    ConfusedMan wrote:
    went out with this girl a few time and we slept together and went out another few times also but then she says that she doesn't want a relationship........I'm confused isn't that what we have already?

    Oh happy days. Tell me she's VERY cute, intelligent etc and make me even more happy for you.

    What the fúck are you confused about? She's been out with you more than once, likes to shág and doesnt want a relationship. Happy days. Welcome to contemporary Ireland.

    K-


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    groundedplane
    Closed Accounts Posts: 54 ✭✭groundedplane


    enjoy my friend, and you should keep a little distance right now, dont be clingy at all, because you could ruin what a lot of guys would kill for.

    Again, enjoy yourself.


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    Sony
    Closed Accounts Posts: 301 ✭✭Sony


    Lucky b$$$$$ :)
    bit of advice fella-make sure you dont fall for her


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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Agree with advice in last post. It's all very well and good to have a casual thing for a certain period, but what about feelings?

    If the OP is attracted to this girl beyond just the physical, I can see how her not wanting a relationship will lead to complications.

    If he's cool with just a fling then great.

    If not, it's time to call a halt now or be burned later.


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