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  • 18-03-2006 11:59pm
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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok first time poster.just need advise.
    Ive been singal since i was 23,im 25 now and keep f***ing up with the women situation. I just dont know what im doing wrong.
    The most recent mess ive made is with this girl i met about 3 weeks ago.
    Ive never met a girl like her in my life and we get along better than anyone ive ever met.
    But now im conviced that ive come on to strong cause she canciled on me and havent really heard from her properly since she wants to meet up again but i dont really have fait in women anymore so i dont belive her.
    But the thing is i only came on strong because she came on really strong.
    I dont mean to come on to strong i belive im a nice guy maybe too nice some times.
    I just dont know anymore!!


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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    well i guess do u think im over reacting


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    Caryatnid
    Registered Users Posts: 555 ✭✭✭Caryatnid


    So what advice are you looking for?


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    Mutz
    Registered Users Posts: 822 ✭✭✭Mutz


    Just go with the flow. Act how you want to act. IF she doesn't like it she's not the one. You shouldn't have to put on an act. I've had that with women before. I met this girl a year ago and she liked me for me and we're still going out happy as larry.

    Best of luck dude.


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    Zombrex
    Closed Accounts Posts: 25,848 ✭✭✭✭Zombrex


    Confused guy wrote:
    Ive never met a girl like her in my life and we get along better than anyone ive ever met.

    Nope, doesn't sound too strong at all :D

    Seriously, if you are looking so badly for a relationship that will show when you meet someone. I mean how well do you actually konw this girl. It is impossible to tell if you get on better than anyone you ever meet after seeing her for a few weeks.

    The first thing I would say is don't appear to strong or head over heals, but the second (and more difficult) would be to maybe look at what is going on with your own life that you are falling head of heals (are at least think you are) in the first place.


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