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  • 16-03-2006 2:58am
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    LegacyUser
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    So, I have a boy that happens to be a friend. Recently I have started to look at him differently. Thought no more after it. Until tonight he turns around and says what sexy eyes i have, so he's friends says and that i looked lovely. Theres is alot of physical contact lately too. He's always asking where i am and who im there with. And also he's ringing me before he goes to bed just to see what im at.

    am i reading into it too much?


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    LundiMardi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭LundiMardi


    no


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    Lux23
    Registered Users Posts: 7,134 ✭✭✭Lux23


    No of course not if you like him go for it.


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    BeardyGit
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,946 ✭✭✭BeardyGit


    No. Been there, didn't do anything about it. Go for it of you'll still be thinking about it years from now.


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    arbeitsscheuer
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,391 ✭✭✭arbeitsscheuer


    It's hard to see how he could make it more obvious tbh...

    Go for it, he's clearly into you.


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    Kermitt
    Closed Accounts Posts: 465 ✭✭Kermitt


    Speaking as a guy, this is definitely a big neon sign saying he's into you. Lot's of guys don't give off this level of obvious affection, If you like him, and feel the same, then maybe start by reciprocating the physical contact, even just a touch of his hand, and you'll know immediately.


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    arbeitsscheuer
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    Kermitt wrote:
    Speaking as a guy, this is definitely a big neon sign saying he's into you. Lot's of guys don't give off this level of obvious affection, If you like him, and feel the same, then maybe start by reciprocating the physical contact, even just a touch of his hand, and you'll know immediately.
    Absolutely 100% spot on. In fact, I've gotta say fair f**ks to the guy for putting himself out there to the extent he has, it's very easy to get painfully shot down when ya do that...

    @Kelly_Jane: But from the sounds of it you're into him as well so it should all turn out great, for both of ya! Yaaays


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    rainbow kirby
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    Go for it! Really, it's like he's waving around an "I LIKE YOU!" sign!


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    Nevyn
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    Well there is one way to know, next time you end up close to him, kiss him.


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    Tar.Aldarion
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    Do what Thaedydal says and I imagine he will be yours.
    He is practically shouting that he likes you, at you.


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    Dave!
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,857 ✭✭✭✭Dave!


    SebtheBum wrote:
    It's hard to see how he could make it more obvious tbh....

    Hands. Tits. Grabs.

    :p

    Yeah, sounds like he likes you, go for it!


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    illicit007
    Registered Users Posts: 371 ✭✭illicit007


    I don't know... maybe you really should wait for him to say it... get down on one knee maybe... then when he says "I've always loved you... will you marry me?"..

    ...Maybe... Just MAYBE then... you'll figure out that he's defintely probably into you.


    Anyway... what I think you should do is do that innocent flirt thing and gradually built it up to be more and more serious so this good tension between you guys builds and builds and then boom!

    Maybe setup something cool to do just you and him, and then if he doesnt kiss you at the most romantic moment, you should just go ahead and slap one on him. ;-)


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    observer
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    i just otld me friend that i thought the world of her and she was very special to me! its not always what it seems. and i would strongly advise to be fully sure about it before you do anything.


    on the positive side guys will react alot less to these sudden "i wanna be more than friends" senarios than girls.


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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thank you all for your reply. Thursday he asked me for my friends number so i think it said it all. I will keep up the gentle flirting although, just to see what happens.

    Thanks again.

    Kj xx


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