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approaching my m8

  • 15-03-2006 3:26pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi guys. well this is the thing. I have fallen for my friend. we are both female and i just dot know what to do. has anyone ever approached this subject?


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  • #2
    Victor
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,652 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    Feel free to also post here: http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=255

    That sounds a little complicated.

    Do you think this makes you gay / bi / curious? Is it mroe difficult because you are friends or because you are both female?


  • #3
    Faith
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,662 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    Is she gay? Are you gay? Does she know you're gay, if you are?

    To be honest, if she's straight, then I can't see anything good coming from telling her. But that's probably not what you want to hear.

    Try sounding her out, see what she thinks about homosexuality and things. Then you'll get a clearer idea of how to proceed.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi ya. well i would class myself bi at the minute but would love to get to know her more. she says she does not be interested but i think its just hard for her as we have been friends for ages. its hard for me too as i have a bf


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    two points here:

    first point:
    There's a billboard ad out at the moment which I found very good. I think it's a vodafone ad but it shows a girl kissing a guy with a caption along the lines of "well done to her for saying she wanted to be more than friends". i think this applies to anyone of any sexuality. Always take the chance if you like a friend. If you're a good enough friend, you can fix any problems that might come between you

    Second point:
    you have a boyfriend at the moment. Do you want to cheat on him or dump him to be with the girl? do you want to get involved with both? A threesome situation might be an option, but be very careful with emotional attachments


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