Am i being stupid

LegacyUser

I met a girl a while back,we have met a few times since and i really like her we get along better than i have with anygirl ive ever been with.

She told me the other night she was mad about me but ive always been really insecure and i dont belive her. We were supposed to meet sunday night but she cant meet up this week cause of work but wants to meet up next week. So when i heard this my mind tells me ok shes not bothered with me now and i dont know what to think now!!!

justsomebloke

oh man it would suck to you, that work thing is just a lie she is probably having an affair and is just lying to your face about how much she likes you


well it is either that or yes you are being an idiot and she actually does have to work and can't see you this weekend. Have you any reason to believe that she doesn't like you.
However you will to look into why you are insecure as this could be a problem further into your relationship, as from the small paragraph you wrote, i am coming to the conclusion that you are going to be insecure any time she goes out without you and you will always be thinking the worst, which will lead to arguements and jeaousy

Dragan

If she said she likes you then she most likely does.

BaZmO*

In a word, Yes!

Or the other side of it is that she's a liar, but sure you'll know soon enough when you try to arrange to go out with her next week.

LegacyUser

Well i dont think she was lieing but to be honest i always think the worst of a situation anyway,ive just been to lied to alot in the past by women.Tho i was out about a week ago with the lads and she was sorta jealous. so im very confused.

MercMad

Dont worry, chill out !

In my experience, over the last 36 years , I've worried about more things that never happened and were all only in my mind !

Sometimes love plays tricks on the mind and you creat situations that dont exist at all !

justsomebloke

just as a matter of interest, what would it take for you to believe that she likes you, if telling you and being jealous about you going out without won't do it

LegacyUser

jsb wrote:

just as a matter of interest, what would it take for you to believe that she likes you, if telling you and being jealous about you going out without won't do it

LOL
Well when u say it like that,
ok i am being stupid thanks,

LOL

Eminem

amibnstupid wrote:

I met a girl a while back,we have met a few times since and i really like her we get along better than i have with anygirl ive ever been with.

She told me the other night she was mad about me but ive always been really insecure and i dont belive her. We were supposed to meet sunday night but she cant meet up this week cause of work but wants to meet up next week. So when i heard this my mind tells me ok shes not bothered with me now and i dont know what to think now!!!

Your not stupid for a start you just wondering where you stand . It seems that she like you. And if she said shes wants to next week well that a sign that she is into you best of luck with it

mickymg2003

Shes not gonna say she likes you and not mean it..thats just opening a can of worms for her..

tH3_UnS0cial_1

dude when a girl says she likes a guy to his face!... it means she likes u a lot.... TRUST me!... its a hard and difficult thing for a girl to do!... again TRUST me... been there recently...

so go for it!... enjoy it all!...

Best of luck with everything!.. hope u both are happy!..

Eminem

tH3_UnS0cial_1 wrote:

dude when a girl says she likes a guy to his face!... it means she likes u a lot.... TRUST me!... its a hard and difficult thing for a girl to do!... again TRUST me... been there recently...

so go for it!... enjoy it all!...

Best of luck with everything!.. hope u both are happy!..

If i like id a guy and i knew that he liked me i would tell him face to face .

Tim06

tH3_UnS0cial_1 wrote:

dude when a girl says she likes a guy to his face!... it means she likes u a lot.... TRUST me!... its a hard and difficult thing for a girl to do!... again TRUST me... been there recently...

so go for it!... enjoy it all!...

Best of luck with everything!.. hope u both are happy!..

Totally agree, when she says that she is mad about you to your face she means it. best of luck.. hope it keeps going this good for you

chrismon

dont worry about it, try and not let things worry you, chill out and enjoy life,take it as it comes,if its ment to be its ment to be so dont worry!