Please help, advice needed

happy.pi.day

Ok I'm like, 15 and never been kissed. It sounds stupid but, am I completly wierd? All my friends have been going to discos and been meeting guys for a couple of years now but I'm the (youngest by a few months) baby of the group and have like, no experience in that sort of field.
I don't want to get left behind but....I dunno. Can anyone help?

Heyes

Firstly dont be letting this bother you too much, everyone has things like this happen to them at different stages in there life. A friend of mine had her first kiss in college, another not until sixth year in school. So dont be letting it bother you, thing is if you do.. you will come across as uptight and unaproachable so you just need to relax and be yourself and before you know it you ll have someone on your side.

happy.pi.day

yeh i didnt want to worry bout it too much, just i dunno theres been loadsa talk about this sorta stuff in my group recently and i kinda feel isolated. Everyone has a love interest

Fanny Cradock

i was a lot older than you by the first time i had a real kiss. like you, i spent an inordinate amount of time worrying if there was there something wrong with me etc. etc.

it's really only now, many years later, that i look back and think what hell was i worried about. don't stress yourself. as condescending as it sounds, you are only 15. it will all happen for you soon enough. besides, a kiss is really best enjoyed with someone you care for.

relax. it will happen

happy.pi.day

yeh cause the problem with me is im a romantic. i dont want to be off with three different guys at some disco.*shudder* but yeh, so its fairly normal right?

Heyes

happy.pi.day wrote:

yeh i didnt want to worry bout it too much, just i dunno theres been loadsa talk about this sorta stuff in my group recently and i kinda feel isolated. Everyone has a love interest

Ah i know most of us have all been there at some stage or another, there s always someone that will experience things before you. Its just part of life. There s nothing wrong with you joining in on there conversations and having a natter with them about it, and learning from there experiences. Just enjoy the fun , the banter, the laugh, and soon you ll be sharing your experiences with them if you want to

Heyes

happy.pi.day wrote:

yeh cause the problem with me is im a romantic. i dont want to be off with three different guys at some disco.*shudder* but yeh, so its fairly normal right?

It is perfectly normal

happy.pi.day

thanks. i feel better. i was just gettin a bit stressed over nothing for a while there

Heyes

happy.pi.day wrote:

thanks. i feel better. i was just gettin a bit stressed over nothing for a while there

we ve all been there girlie, just see it as one of the irratating things in life but it will happen soon, just let it happen in its own time

Fanny Cradock

what's true for kissing is, to an extent, true for sex. some people wait a few years..others do it asap. it's really a question of what you are comfortable with. don't let anyone tell you different.

the only time it's right is when you feel it's something you want to do. just enjoy your life.

happy.pi.day

thanks you guys. relief! yay!

Heyes

happy.pi.day wrote:

thanks you guys. relief! yay!

Was a pleasure

Eminem

happy.pi.day wrote:

Ok I'm like, 15 and never been kissed. It sounds stupid but, am I completly wierd? All my friends have been going to discos and been meeting guys for a couple of years now but I'm the (youngest by a few months) baby of the group and have like, no experience in that sort of field.
I don't want to get left behind but....I dunno. Can anyone help?

Like you said your 15 . yove never been kissed theres nothing wrong with that . Your time will come soon

happy.pi.day

i know i should take my time. 15 sounds young when written down but when everyone has already been onthe scene a couple of years...well it sets doubt in my mind.

Eminem

happy.pi.day wrote:

i know i should take my time. 15 sounds young when written down but when everyone has already been onthe scene a couple of years...well it sets doubt in my mind.

Why ? I mean so you have newver kissed someone i know of people who didnt kiss someone till they were older.