Dull??

floor

Ok i need advise on a couple of things,First off i had a girlfriend for 3 and a half years and we broke up about 2 years ago and she was my first gf,i havent had a gf since.
Anytime i meet someone new it never goes anywhere cause i just come accross as a dull tool cause i cant crack jokes and be funny im always worring about offending her and sounding stupid so what can i do to improve on this???:(

the_syco

floor wrote:

Anytime i meet someone new it never goes anywhere cause i just come accross as a dull tool cause i cant crack jokes and be funny im always worring about offending her and sounding stupid so what can i do to improve on this???:(

Try not giving a sh|t. Take a risk, and see if she laughs. If she doesn't, nothing lost. If she does, bingo. Take out one highlighted word (worry) and the other two will go as well.

Nickibaby*

She might find you funny, she might not, you wont know unless you try..

WhiteWashMan

floor wrote:

Ok i need advise on a couple of things,First off i had a girlfriend for 3 and a half years and we broke up about 2 years ago and she was my first gf,i havent had a gf since.
Anytime i meet someone new it never goes anywhere cause i just come accross as a dull tool cause i cant crack jokes and be funny im always worring about offending her and sounding stupid so what can i do to improve on this???:(

stop worrying.
you are paralysing youself.

and one tip, you have no idea what other people think, so stop making your own mind up about it.

py2006

WhiteWashMan wrote:

stop worrying.
you are paralysing youself.

and one tip, you have no idea what other people think, so stop making your own mind up about it.

Thats a good point! I think we are all guilty of that at times!

gerTheGreat

You know, I have a friend who has a great saying and I feel that it's really appropriate here. To quote the great Doyler: "Chill the **** out". By which i mean, don't worry. Be yourself. If a girl doesn't like you for that, then she's not right for you. Act yourself and you'll someone who will like you for it.

Fanny Cradock

your last girlfriend saw something attractive in you. think about that next time you chat to a girl!

out with the jive...in with the love!

Riamfada

Be yourself. If you offend her, so what . You will meet somone with the same sense of humor and get along well

floor

WhiteWashMan wrote:

stop worrying.
you are paralysing youself.

and one tip, you have no idea what other people think, so stop making your own mind up about it.

Great advise Whitewashman thanks a million.


Cheers lads i guess i just need to open my mind a bit and stop thinking the worsed of every situation with a woman.