Intimate scars

LegacyUser

Inspired by yeesterdays tread bout scars I like to put this out there. I have very noticible scars about 3 iches up from my ding dong the scars are shaped like this \ /. I had a op at about seven. I not sure what it was for but I think it was to drop my testes.. I'am very very concious of these scars and have never never talked to anyone about them. They are very noticable and the hair down there does not hide em I have found it very hard to trust someone enough to becom intimate with them. Has anyone outhere had a similar procedure and if so have you had a similar exseriance to myself

dudara

I have a 1 foot long scar on my chest from having open heart surgery as a kid. BTW, I'm female, so this runs right down between my breasts. As well as that there are two smaller scars at an angle on either side from the bypass machine.

They don't bother me. It's funny to see men dropping their eyes to look at my chest and then see them clicking the scar. The scar means that I'm healthy now. I don't even realise that I have it most of the time.

No one is going to be critical of a scar from an operation. Only very superficial people would feel that it was a negative aspect to you.

Victor

Yong_frank wrote:

I had a op at about seven. I not sure what it was for but I think it was to drop my testes..

Ask you parents or if you don't feel comfortable, next time you at the doctor, mention them. I imagine if you still have the same family GP since childhood, then he would know. If its a different doctor he can probably give you a good idea.

I don't think anyone will have a problem with a few scars.

dudara

dudara wrote:

No one is going to be critical of a scar from an operation. Only very superficial people would feel that it was a negative aspect to you.

Agreed.
Actually scars can be sexy tbh.
I've two that are very noticeable and I've often showed them to friends when out.Ones from when I burst my spleen as a kid and had to get it out-that one is right down my chest-pretty much like your open heart one and the other is from when I had my apendix out also as a kid ( I have to almost drop my trousers to show that one )

So to the OP, its a thing of nothing really.
This fear of what people think is just something you let build up in your head.
Dont fret over it and carry on regardless

irlirishkev

Yong_frank wrote:

Inspired by yeesterdays tread bout scars I like to put this out there. I have very noticible scars about 3 iches up from my ding dong the scars are shaped like this \ /. I had a op at about seven. I not sure what it was for but I think it was to drop my testes.. I'am very very concious of these scars and have never never talked to anyone about them. They are very noticable and the hair down there does not hide em I have found it very hard to trust someone enough to becom intimate with them. Has anyone outhere had a similar procedure and if so have you had a similar exseriance to myself

I've a similar scar from the same op.. Don't think it's as noticable as yours from the sound of it, but I've never felt concious of it.. you shouldn't either. It's no big deal, and besides, if you're getting 'intimate' with someone, it's unlikely they'll care..

the_syco

As stated above, scars are sexy, or they're cool:cool:

Find out whet the op was, look up the gory details of said op, and become proud of the scars.

ravenhead

dudara wrote:

I have a 1 foot long scar on my chest from having open heart surgery as a kid. BTW, I'm female, so this runs right down between my breasts. As well as that there are two smaller scars at an angle on either side from the bypass machine.

They don't bother me. It's funny to see men dropping their eyes to look at my chest and then see them clicking the scar. The scar means that I'm healthy now. I don't even realise that I have it most of the time.

No one is going to be critical of a scar from an operation. Only very superficial people would feel that it was a negative aspect to you.

Just on this dudara, do you wear low cut tops etc going out? I'm going for open heart in about 2 months time & the thoughts of my scar is really bothering me, I know it shouldn't I mean as you said it means you're healthy but i guess being a girl it plays on my mind

MicraBoy

Penises are so different from person to person. With all sorts of 'features' that make them unique to each bloke. I can't see this realy being an issue with any one. In fact its a pretty cool talking point, with a lover.

I'd be more worried that you don't seem sure what the cause is. You should definitely find out from your parents what happened and why. You are all grown ups you can talk about it maturely. (Hint: Don't use the words "ding" or "dong").

joejoem

Yong_frank wrote:

Inspired by yeesterdays tread bout scars I like to put this out there. I have very noticible scars about 3 iches up from my ding dong the scars are shaped like this \ /. I had a op at about seven. I not sure what it was for but I think it was to drop my testes.. I'am very very concious of these scars and have never never talked to anyone about them. They are very noticable and the hair down there does not hide em I have found it very hard to trust someone enough to becom intimate with them. Has anyone outhere had a similar procedure and if so have you had a similar exseriance to myself

Not taking the piss now, but I would like to have them!(touch wood nothing happens to me for saying that) Scars look cool on guys, especially like that. Milk it for all its worth!

Muckmagnet

...........yeah , tell girls you got gored by a bull or something !!! scars are cool.

LegacyUser

Come to terms with them - they are part of you - be glad that you are alive and well & if anybody is as thick and small-minded as to unreasonably think less of you because of your war-wounds then leave them far behind [and beneath] you.

KTRIC

Be thankfull that you have everything in the right place now and its working. Forget about the scar, when you're getting down to business the girl isn't going to be bothered about it. She might even find it interesting or a turn on.

el tel

Scars can be seen as badges of honour and you shouldn't worry about them and no one else should have cause for concern either as they were not self inflicted or particularly suspicious. I have a scar about 20cms long that I picked up in an accident and as I didn't go to hospital (too sqeamish) there are no stitch marks which makes it look all the more unsual. Initially I was very conscious of it as it took over a year to close properly but everyone who has seen it subsequently thought it rocks.

sutty

Yong_frank wrote:

Inspired by yeesterdays tread bout scars I like to put this out there. I have very noticible scars about 3 iches up from my ding dong the scars are shaped like this \ /. I had a op at about seven. I not sure what it was for but I think it was to drop my testes.. I'am very very concious of these scars and have never never talked to anyone about them. They are very noticable and the hair down there does not hide em I have found it very hard to trust someone enough to becom intimate with them. Has anyone outhere had a similar procedure and if so have you had a similar exseriance to myself

I have a scar on that "ding dong" area(from a motor bike crash), and its not bothered me. Well except for the few months it was healing
I find it funny when people start talking about scars. Bring this one up (so to speak) and everyone shuts up

Femelade

the_syco wrote:

As stated above, scars are sexy, or they're cool:cool:

thats very true, A few months ago i met this guy with a scar running from his forehead down to his cheek, and i must say he was the most gorgeous guy i have seen in all my life.

Ickle Magoo

OP,

I would think by the time anyone sees your "ding-dong" (lol!:p) then they wouldn't care less about any scars you have.....as long everything works as it should, then the rest is aesthetics - anyone put off solely by aesthetics isn't worth being with....best of luck

AnnaStezia

Never worry about surgical scars like that.

If they are a problem then it lies with the other person not you.

If they really bug you use your imagination to think up an outrageous explanation for the operation that lead to the surgical scars. e.g. you have Ireland's only nuclear powered willy and that is where the cells were installed. Turning it into a laugh can break a lot of that self conciously generated tension !!

Hurry up now and use your nuclear weapon before you get really old as at that stage in life you really will have something to worry about

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dudara

ravenhead wrote:

Just on this dudara, do you wear low cut tops etc going out? I'm going for open heart in about 2 months time & the thoughts of my scar is really bothering me, I know it shouldn't I mean as you said it means you're healthy but i guess being a girl it plays on my mind

I wear normal tops, open necked shirts, the odd occasional low cut. What I'm trying to say is that I don't hide it up. It really doesn't bother me!

daiixi

Yong_frank wrote:

I'am very very concious of these scars and have never never talked to anyone about them. They are very noticable and the hair down there does not hide em I have found it very hard to trust someone enough to becom intimate with them. Has anyone outhere had a similar procedure and if so have you had a similar exseriance to myself

My poor ex boyfriend was extremely self concious after having a testicle removed (cancer). He'd been sick and had the op and gotten better before I met him but imagine my confusion on our (not so sober) first time and I "lost" one of them .. Imagine my embaressment!!

Once he'd told me about his medical history all the confusion and embaressment(sp?) on both our sides disappeared. He also had scars but they weren't very noticable.

So yeah, don't worry about it. Find out exactly what the operation was from so you'll be able to explain the scars if/when someone asks - or offer the information up. Anyone who gets that close to you and gets turned off by your scars isn't worth your time in the first place.