Making a Move through Cyberspace

LegacyUser

Hey, i will make this short 'n sweet. im a25 year old guy, i have been in big company 6 months, scored a Spanish girl at work function before Christmas and got on well. she has been in france wid work & i just realised she's back as she walked past my desk (works in other department miles accross the building) and we smiled at each other. Have her email address. Anyone got any suggestions for sumethin' casual i could email her that will catch her attention? don't wanna ask her out face to face, company is so huge mightn't bum,p into each ohter again for ages. Thanks for reading & any help really appreciated, Cheers

py2006

Hmmmm, tricky one!

At least you got the smile, thats a good sign!

Can you ask somebody what department she is in or where her desk is at?

She may not be too impressed with an email.

WARNING! Make sure its not internal work email! you could get yourself in trouble over that! Especially if the emails are saucy! Alot of emails are monitored in the work place!

Agent Smith

start off by asking her how was France

LegacyUser

this is not a great idea but how bout u organise a few drinks for some of the crowd in work or sumthing like that n ask her along..sounds like a lot of bother n she may not come but if u really dont think u can ask her out directly its worth a shot ...not the best idea now i know

LegacyUser

py2006 wrote:

Can you ask somebody what department she is in or where her desk is at? She may not be too impressed with an email.

A lot of people saw us together, don't wanna approach her and embarrase her so email would be better.

*Oul_Doll_Cork*

Why not just send her an email saying you didn't know she was back untill you saw her.... how she got on in France etc!
If she emails back and seems keen then say something like "oh we should go for lunch together to catch up..." Or something along those lines!!!

py2006

*Oul_Doll_Cork* wrote:

Why not just send her an email saying you didn't know she was back untill you saw her.... how she got on in France etc!
If she emails back and seems keen then say something like "oh we should go for lunch together to catch up..." Or something along those lines!!!

Yea thats a good idea! I bet she walked passed you on purpose to let you know she was back!

Are you going to get her a Valentines card? :cool:

The Clown Man

Just mail her saying she's looking cute.

She'll mail back or she won't.

Keep it cheeky. Sorted.

padser

The Clown Man wrote:

Just mail her saying she's looking cute.

She'll mail back or she won't.

Keep it cheeky. Sorted.

Only works for a certain type of person (and on a certain type of girl) tbh

Lex Luthor

if its a big company, most likely you can look up her desk or pager number on the system.

Don't send her anything by internal email...one of my mates got burned BADLY doing this...thought the girl would take it with a pinch of salt, instead she reported him.

Give her a call...that'll get her attention far more than an email. Plus it breaks the ice far quicker.

dudara

She walked past your desk, even though she doesn't work anywhere nearby. That seems like a good sign.

Agreed with the above poster. Ring her instead of texting, that will stand out more and make you seem more confident.

The Clown Man

padser wrote:

Only works for a certain type of person (and on a certain type of girl) tbh

Maybe it wouldn't work for a few but I think most people (girls and guys) would take to it well. A bit of this kind of malarky can really brighten up a work day, week, whatever. I'd say anyone would be glad of the fun.

DAEDULUS

'im going to a cafe on my break/after work,you should come..

munkee

I'd mail her, as long as that's not against work policy. Just say you didn't know she was back, ask about France etc. If she replies and seems vaguely friendly/chatty with it, ask her if she wants to get lunch one day. Not hassling her, low risk for you, easy peasy cheezy peas

440Hz

py2006 wrote:

Are you going to get her a Valentines card? :cool:

Don't do this.. you *could* look like a stalker or something. V. cards after one kiss == no no