telling my g/f a turn on or fetish

LegacyUser

ok i want to tell my girlfriend a turn on i have?just i love leather gloves on a girl any other peolple feel the same, thanks

py2006

Cant say I have a fetish. I am not sure that what you say is even fetish or is it?

Tell her, it doesn't sound all that weird!

Its no differnt to be turned on my short skirts.

I quite like a girl in a suit myself. A work suit that is!

Talliesin

What's her general attitude to fetishes in general.

If she thinks anyone doing anything kinky is dangerous, damned to hell, or otherwise a Bad Thing™ you may want to go careful on it.

Otherwise get her some leather gloves. Tell her you like how they look on it. Tell her it feels nice when you hold hand when she's wearing them, and work from there.

Nalz

get her in bed
open your mouth
say what ya wanna say
next night a passion she'll be wearing those gloves (its not a big fetish)
fullstop.

Baggly

py2006 wrote:

Its no differnt to be turned on my short skirts.

really?

rsynnott

Talliesin wrote:

Otherwise get her some leather gloves.

But do check that she's not a vegan first.

magick

yeah , u shouldnt be worried really, its a small fetish, its not like ur asking her to do stuff with horses or anything :eek:

Pigman II

unreg 88 wrote:

ok i want to tell my girlfriend a turn on i have?just i love leather gloves on a girl any other peolple feel the same, thanks

You sick freak!

Just tell her. Somehow I don't think she'll mind that request as it probablys rates about a 1 on the pervometer.

LegacyUser

unreg 88 wrote:

ok i want to tell my girlfriend a turn on i have?just i love leather gloves on a girl any other peolple feel the same, thanks

pfft, think that's bad? try telling your gf you have a tickling fetish :o

Zombrex

unreg 88 wrote:

ok i want to tell my girlfriend a turn on i have?just i love leather gloves on a girl any other peolple feel the same, thanks

I love a girl in white socks (and nothing else, obviously), though this could be due to watching way too much porn (they always keep their socks on in porn, for some reason..)

I don't think your "fetish" is much different than something like that ... its not like you want a high heel crushing your nuts or anything ... i don't think your g-f should be too freaked out, though you might want to explain that that is your whole fetish, you are not testing the water before you whip out the gimp suit

py2006 wrote:

I quite like a girl in a suit myself. A work suit that is!

Don't know why, and all my friends think I am a weirdo, but a girl in a work suit, skirt and trainers (ie the girls walking to work in the morning with their good shoes in a bag) really does it for me .... am I sick? :v:

turbot

You could be all dramatic about it

Bring her into a sex shop

Point at outrageous toys

Accuse her of being a pervert

Then tell her all you are into is her wearing leather gloves
and give her some as a present.

Pigman II

Wicknight wrote:

Don't know why, and all my friends think I am a weirdo, but a girl in a work suit, skirt and trainers (ie the girls walking to work in the morning with their good shoes in a bag) really does it for me .... am I sick? :v:

Yes, yes you are. Although I do find that look quite fetching myself. Certainly much nicer than when they pop the heels back on.

Ickle Magoo

OP,

If my man told me he had a fettish I would get pictures of all sorts of wierd & wonderfuls jumping into my mind....if he said his fettish was that he liked the feel of leather gloves, I'd be relieved - lol!!!

I'd tell her how you feel, tell her to stop laughing and then hand her a pair of leather gloves and a bottle of wine....problem solved!

MojoMaker

lol..

I think what he is saying is a pair of leather gloves and bottle of lube folks.:rolleyes:

padser

Id say the point about making sure you explain to her that this is the height of your fetish is very good advice. She may get slightly worried that you are about to pull out handcuffs the next night.

Other then that i wouldnt describe it as a fetish when you are telling her. Just ask her if she would mind putting on a pair of gloves for a bit. That it really turns you on.

I just think the word fetish will bring the wrong image into her mind.

Tar.Aldarion

rsynnott wrote:

But do check that she's not a vegan first.

LOl ya, if she is a vegetarian or vegan don't go there, I suppose faux leather wouldn't do it for ya?? :P


Anyway, don't know why you are worried, it's not a fetish, just tell her.

Bluebells

How long are you together? If your open about sex there shouldnt be a prob. You cant assume she'll go along with it but theres only one way to find out. Its quite a small request.

Maybe after a few drinks you could ask her what turns her on, or if there was anything she would like to try. Just make it clear you don't want anything too crazy cause she might get scared. Hopefully she'll ask you back, if not just tell her.

The War Dept.

tell her

blondi

yeah, go on, so either she'll think you're a sick pervie or it could be brill, it's about 1 or less on the pervie scale as someone else said ..... think about it ? the sex could be unreal...........

SexeeAussie

Just tell her what you would like....at least it's not like an ex of mine who said (and he was serious) 'if you sleep with another chick in front of me I will marry you' !!!

Little did he know, and he missed out....I had already done all that stuff!!!

Leather gloves are nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck!~

turbot

While we are on the subject; what do you girls think about things fetish?

Would you like to know?
How would you take it?
Are there no nos....?

Nevyn

Turbot you can not generailse about what people feel about such maters on a bases of gender.

turbot

Thaeydal,

I agree that you can't generalise, in general, full stop.

I'd personally like here a range of female opinons on this... thats why I asked.

Nevyn

We have a forum for those types of questions and it is not Personal Issues.

Kintarō Hattori

Yup it's a very small thing, most likely she won't mind doing it for you, as long as it's not all the time. There are certain things I like and was nervous asking my GF about, but I just came out and asked her if she would mind occasionally wearing something for me........... she did and does! You'll never know, unless you ask!

Victor

I think this rates more on the preference scale than the fetish scale.

Unless the have to be polished black, tight-fit but padded, worn by an older woman on a snowy day, with a full length over-coat with nothing underneath, contempleating have sex in the open air. That might rate on the fetish scale. Probably represents your mother's friend not offering your their breasts when you were young or something.

Question, how does leather react to bodily fluid, lube, etc.

Nevyn

Victor wrote:

Question, how does leather react to bodily fluid, lube, etc.

You might get a better answer on that if you tried asking elsewhere Victor.

sarah lk

leather gloves can look great alrite sexy and classy

lazydaisy

OP- Buy her calfskin - cashmere or silk lined - preferably black.

Get her two pairs, one for you and one for her.

As my mother says -all young ladies should have a pair.

sarah lk

yeah black leather is always good.many girls i\on boards wear them??or a nice red pair

Victor

Thaedydal wrote:

You might get a better answer on that if you tried asking elsewhere Victor.

To the [strike]batmobile[/strike] Science Board!

~Rebel~

Not a lot to ask for really. Prob have the best chance if ask when slightly tipsy or if ye're both in a really turned on pre sex kinda stage.

Thaed how does one access the sex and sexuality board?

Kintarō Hattori

I presume at this stage your joking rebel, but if not you have to be a paid subscriber.

Lux23

Wicknight wrote:

I love a girl in white socks (and nothing else, obviously), though this could be due to watching way too much porn (they always keep their socks on in porn, for some reason..)

I always wondered why so many girls in porn wear white gym socks.

Oh leather gloves isn't that big of a deal, she probably has wilder fetishes then you.

Zombrex

Lux23 wrote:

I always wondered why so many girls in porn wear white gym socks.

White = innocent? Maybe?

Lux23

She is hardly innocent if she had three cocks in her at once.

Pigman II

Wicknight wrote:

White = innocent? Maybe?

Nah I think it's cos they sometimes get cold feet once the cameras start rolling.

Zombrex

Lux23 wrote:

She is hardly innocent if she had three cocks in her at once.

well I wouldn't want to comment on how innocent she is without first seeing the pictures myself, so I demand you provide links to back up your statement!! ... demand say I! :v:

Zombrex

Pigman II wrote:

Nah I think it's cos they sometimes get cold feet once the cameras start running.

*groan*

Lux23

Well here's me in my gym socks www.gullibletwat.com. lol

Pigman II

Wicknight wrote:

*groan*

Had to be done. You were getting far too analytical with that previous post.:)

if a guy/boyf asked me to wear leather gloves
I'd defintly do it
believe me honey its pale in comparison to the kinkyness some people can introduce into their relationships/sex life

the phrase you never know is always applied to this
so you never know until you ask her she could have a few requests for yourself
my suggestion is have a night in and have some fun together exploring your fantasys and fetishes

shakaman

Dude I wouldnt even quantify this as a fetish, she won't mind at all. Believe me I had a chick ask me would I be interested in living out a fetish with her and that had me gobsmacked.

This is mere child's play compared to it!

Victor

Wicknight wrote:

I love a girl in white socks (and nothing else, obviously), though this could be due to watching way too much porn (they always keep their socks on in porn, for some reason..)

Afraid of "Athletes Foot", but not X number of STIs?

Enough about socks.

turbot

Hey

Maybe you could inspire her interest with these:

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2054882987

Agent S

Want these?

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2054882987

Zita

Agree. Leather gloves are not really a fetish, in my opinion. Its not a strange request at all. Anyway, you may find that if you share this with your gf that she will have her own turn-ons that she'd like you to participate in...