Bi curious

LegacyUser

hi there
im 14 and *THINK* im bi

ive been told much as though its prolly a phase/youll grow out of it or"your only bi curious"

how would one to be as to tell for sure

i had thought the only proper way would be by kissing a lad somethin i havent yet done but in saying that ive had sex with my best mate twice

lifesucks

Well if you fell attracted to both lads and girls then you are probably bi but I cant tell you that for sure and no one else can. While you can get advice off people its unfortunately something that you have to figure out mainly by yourself. Without trying to sound to patronizing you are very young and its unnecessary to label yourself at such a young age. If you 'label' yourself wrong it can be very hard to change it. Trust me i know. It is good however to see that you are trying to figure youself out and talking about it with people.

The people who tell you its just a phase etc. as frustrating as it is don't take any notice and remember that you are the only person who truly knows what you are.

Also when it comes to kissing that doesnt necessarly sort it out for everyone. For me when i first kissed a lad it wasnt a lot more special than when i kissed girls.

LegacyUser

thanks for the reply just thought i might add the day i fully realised and i told my best friend she was totally ok with it and i was a lot happier because tbh i felt veeeeery miserable as a straight person dont ask me why

LegacyUser

one final thing to add....... the lad i slept with...last night i found out he isnt no more bisex man did tht piss me off

Boston

So you're sexualy active, but you think that kissing will tell you something that having sex hasn't? Why?

You mentioned your friend not being Bi anymore, and it pissing you off. Learn from that, you too could turn around one day and decide it isn't for you. Especially if you're only experimenting. Go with what feels right for you, not what is expected, you don't have to define your sexuality at your age.

LegacyUser

I agree with what others have said. I'm straight but went through an experimentation phase between the ages of 9 to about 14 with guys..supposed to be fairly common. Most of the guys I fooled around with are straight too, one of them is gay. Either way, you're probably too young to know and I wouldn't get hung up on it...you'll know for sure in time.

county

PoSSeSSeD wrote:

Dont do it little man !

Yer 14 !!!

Once you hit 17 it's all good.... I promise you... Do you really want to be rammed in the ass ? NO ! You want to be ramming some bitch in the twat !!!

some how i think your looking to get banned:rolleyes: