Seeking friendship

laluna

hi

24 year old galway girl here.

after coming out of a long-term relationship - very unhealthy relationship
i would love to try and meet new friends as i let a lot of people down in the past while in the relationship and lost many friends along the way.

if anyone would like to go out socialising that would be great - any guys or girls in the same boat as me

take care
happy christmas

forbairt

I'd guess your best bet would be to meet up at one of the social thingy's that happen on here

I know there are a fair few members here who meet up for a boards beer every so often

ARGINITE

Like this

Shinto

LaLuna.... i admire the fact you had the honesty to say you "let a lot of people down in the past while in the relationship and lost many friends along the way."

But its not on most peoples' priorities to want to meet someone who actively choose to do such a thing, or someone who let important friendships die through neglect.

Also, you said you just came out of "a long-term relationship - very unhealthy relationship". Would one want to meet someone who stayed in an unhealthy relationship for so long? If it was so unhealthy, you should have made it a short-term relationship. You are responsible for your actions. You choose to stay in it for so long.

I think your desire to meet new people "in the same boat" as you is another poor decision. You need to sort yourself out first...i can only read between the few lines you've written but i think your time would be better spent looking inwards. Then when you are a more complete person you will then see the shining light comming from the few others in our society who have reached enlightenment....(i havent reached enlightenment yet, but im still trying). Choose them to be your friends.

If you think my message is offensive and you wish to tell me off then do so. I want you to know that no offense was intended. I believe that my insight might help you heal a little bit quicker.

Robbo

Is it time for another Galway Boards Beers?

Missed the last few myself but I beter reacquaint myself with sundry internet weirdoes and sociopaths.

biko

Robbo wrote:

Is it time for another Galway Boards Beers?

Yeah, let's! There is always time for beers!

Redhairedguy

Woot.. beers... c'mon chaps.. and chapettes.. lets go KRAZY!

DRakE

How hot are you on a scale of one-to-the sun ?

DRakE

Wait a minute, wtf happy xmas?

Redhairedguy

DRakE wrote:

Wait a minute, wtf happy xmas?

Hahahaha.. bluff!

po0k

Tekkit A

Redhairedguy

SyxPak wrote:

Tekkit A

???

Banana Hammock sandwichs, made with real banana.

TerrorFirmer

The gibbon factory, where gibbons are made

Redhairedguy

Only one spoon Gertrude.... any more and it gives me gas!

TerrorFirmer

I'm afraid your dad is gone, timmy. Gone forever.

Redhairedguy

Never play with the children next door billy, they smell of fish fingers.

Whats the best way to keep children from your garden?

Molest them.

bada-bum-tish

Interceptor

How do you make your wife cry when you are having sex?

Phone her and tell her.....



'cptr

TerrorFirmer

Classy sig there, ceptor.

I like it. I like it alot.

Interceptor

Eyethanque. I aim to please.

Its actually best not to think about it, but since the SigPo got annoyed at my jiggly_booby.gif picture I have tried to make as many people go 'Eeeeeww' as possible.

Sorry for threadjacking this 'ole thing laluna - everyone was having so much fun I just wanted to join in. If you are in town (near NUIG) during the day and fancy meeting for coffee and a bun, accompanied with a wide range of interesting conversation (or not) then drop me a line. We can even tell my wife...

'cptr

Redhairedguy

Interceptor wrote:

If you are in town (near NUIG) during the day and fancy meeting for coffee and a bun, accompanied with a wide range of interesting conversation (or not) then drop me a line. We can even tell my wife...

Ewwww.. you're gay... hanging out with girls of your own free will... gee man! Girls have cooties!

Pimsler Quick Start... Russian... "A short course for beginners"

Interceptor

They only have cooties *after* they've had ahem, 'coffee' with me...

And I'm not gay, I just like bumming dudes

'cptr

Redhairedguy

Interceptor wrote:

And I'm not gay, I just like bumming dudes

Oh... since you put it that way... cool! Sign me up! Wait... is this the gay/lesbian/bisexual forum?

No?

Damn.. wrong place.. wrong time!


Ahem... please blatantly ignore this post!

MattKid

Didn't you know, as long as you're the giver it's ok

Redhairedguy

MattKid wrote:

Didn't you know, as long as you're the giver it's ok

Ah now! Where's the fun there?

Relationships/one night stands/random sex in male public toilets is all about sharing.. giving and taking.... Where's the love matt? Where's the love?

Robbo

Interceptor wrote:

And I'm not gay, I just like bumming dudes

'cptr

Sure it's only gay if you push back.