I Was dumped ! But It wasnt by the girl who i have always loved!

LegacyUser

I Was dumped a few weeks ago and it still hurts badly really a lot when i see couples together but ive always been in love with a friend of mine for 2 years now but ive never had the guts to tell her as i feel she"ll reject me and not want to be my friend anymore and i couldnt live anymore if that happened i was thinking of telling at my 21st if i have one i cant hold in any longer.

tinkerbell

Good grief, what was that post about???

Sentences, full stops, paragraphs, commas, etc. are your friend.

Has your friend ever given you a sign that she likes you in that way? If not, you're probably heading for trouble. Does she have a boyfriend?

Heyes

amiba wrote:

I Was dumped a few weeks ago and it still hurts badly really a lot when i see couples together but ive always been in love with a friend of mine for 2 years now but ive never had the guts to tell her as i feel she"ll reject me and not want to be my friend anymore and i couldnt live anymore if that happened i was thinking of telling at my 21st if i have one i cant hold in any longer.

DONT say it at your 21st !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Id maybe suss the situation out first before you tell her everything... do any of your mates know how you feel for her, maybe they could suss it out aswell indirectly. Its important that you are carefull, because as you said you dont want to loose the great friendship you have.

radioman

Have a few drinks and then maybe broach the old 'have you ever seen us as more than just friends' subject, if the response is negative just take it on the chin and don't ever bring it up again. It won't hurt your friendship, and if it's brought up again you can laugh it off by blaming the drink

If the response is positive, then it'll be worth it

LegacyUser

I honesty dont know if she has a boyfriend it hurts to think about it but when she gets to much drink she does be all over the place i want to tell her but just cant , i have told a few friends but there are differences as i talked to male and female friends about this

WhiteWashMan

amiba wrote:

I Was dumped a few weeks ago and it still hurts badly really a lot when i see couples together but ive always been in love with a friend of mine for 2 years now but ive never had the guts to tell her as i feel she"ll reject me and not want to be my friend anymore and i couldnt live anymore if that happened i was thinking of telling at my 21st if i have one i cant hold in any longer.

punctuation is your friend.
dont post like a 12 year old.

why dont you just tell her today. or tomorrow. why havent you told her? what is she says no?
but what if she says yes?

LegacyUser

I dont know if she has a boyfriend and it only hurts to think about that but she does be all over the place when she drinks.

Miss Fluff

does you really be nearly 21

REDZ

amiba wrote:

I dont know if she has a boyfriend.

You've known her for 2 years and you don't know that!

The_Goose

Miss Fluff wrote:

does you really be nearly 21

Ah ok, this is simple enough, you've liked this girl for two years, shes a friend, but you dont know whether she likes you back??

Resort to primary school tactics,
First send in a mutual friend to recon the situation.
If they cannot get any good info from her.
Text her and just talk.
If she replies and holds a conversation, just keep talking.
Ask hows the love life, are ya heading out bla bla bla.
Trust me you ll soon know weather shes interested or not.

Zulu

What the hell has the English language ever done to you?

Nevyn

people this is not prose and grammar 101
yes a certain level of clarity and understanding is required to make peoples posts
readible and understandible bandwagoning about this issue is not welcome.
Thaedydal

Zulu

Thaedydal wrote:

bandwagoning about this issue is not welcome.
Thaedydal

My apologies. (it's just so bloody infuriating!)