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Lack of motivation

  • 20-11-2005 12:12am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Basically I have no motivation to get with girls any more. I'm just don't feel interested in getting with anyone or trying to pull etc. I have no motivation. I don't even fancy girls any more. I havn't liked a girl in about three years. I'm not bi sexual or gay or anything. It's like I have become a straight kind of A-sexual. I'm not bothered with having good friends either. I seem to be able to cope fairly well on my own. I'm not very emotional most of the time. Sometimes I feel lonely etc. It's a real pain in the arse because I'm 19 now and every now and again it gets lonely. Maybe I'm just picky or something. I don't realy know what I'm doing posting this, I supose it's to get it off my chest. It would be reasuring to get a second opinion on what ever the hell is wrong. Am I just the ultimate lazy person?


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  • #2
    Sarah**
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 531 ✭✭✭Sarah**


    By being messed around a few years ago by guys i went like youself, just o motivation and i got fed up making an effort to go out, see my mates. just in general i was fed up but it does go away....one day i just wanted to be out on anight out and on the oull again.

    I dont really know what your going through but I know it does stop and you can help that! Your only 19. its so young so get out there and just try and have a laugh. Maybe your just doing to much thinking and not enough acting!

    you say you haventy liked i a girl in three years...since you were 16....girls only get better as they get older so get out there and have fun!!


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    last year, i pretty much went through what you've described except im a 21 yr old female, tbh i just thought i had depression or something, i just felt absolutely 'empty' i couldn't be bothered trying to befriend people because i felt pretty indifferent towards 99.9% of people on my college course and i didnt want friends i only had one person who i considered a friend and i felt that was enough, on one hand i was perfectly content to be on my own , but every now and then i'd realise just how alone i was and i'd cry myself to sleep it just didnt make sense. as for guys,i lost all interest ,i'd see/talk to guys who were goodlooking or whatever who normally i would fancy but i felt nothing..it alternated between days of feeling utterly alone, depressed, or absolute numbness which was the worst.

    i am beginning to overcome it though i think, mainly because i've started to fancy a guy again which i thought would never happen...so i understand where you're coming from it does get better.


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