What to do

Mrsaturdaynite · 13-11-2005 7:13pm #1

So hear it is. I meet this Canadian Girl. Last week. She works in a Bar near where I live. I ordered a couple of drinks early in the night last Saturday and dropped her a nice tip [E 25 for a e 50 round] at the end of the nite she came over to me, my mate and his new girlfriend. I should point out that I was more then likely langered at this stage. She rested her hand on my shoulder as I was sitting down, and joined in with our conversation. All the time my mates Girlfriend was nodding at me and speaking under her breath. When the waitress left, my mate’s new girlfriend said to me it was obvious that the girl liked me, I was kindda get the vibe as well. She then told me that and I should follow her back to the bar and ask her out. I told her Id does it this week? I was to shy to ask her incase she said no, especially with my mates with in ear shot. I was also a little worried that my mates GF was trying to get rid of me so she could have a little alone time with her BF. Also Canadian/American girls are notorious flirts an she a waitress so really its part of her job. So I didn’t think a whole let of it. But I did decide id go back and built it up in my head all week

So I returned Last night early in the evening. 7ish and had a look about for my little Canadian. I couldn’t see her so went to leave. When I accidentally bumped into her. At this point I dropped the ball. I thought she'd recognise me straight away. She didn’t or at least appeared not. Only when I had remained her about what we were talking about did she remember. She Spoke to me briefly for 2/3 minutes just about general thing how it was nice to se her etc. She still had a drink on her tray she had to deliver so I let her be and left the Bar.

I feel like a bit of a fool. I went against my better judgement and and went back. I didn’t no what to do when she didn’t recognise me, I hope is more to do with the fact that I don’t drink to regularly there then anything else. But I just don’t know what to do. Just I go back down. Get all liquored up and ask her out or should I just forget about it and carry on

Tusky · 13-11-2005 7:16pm

Its quite possible that she did like you the first time and then didnt recognise you. Im pretty crap with faces, I do it all the time.

Laguna · 13-11-2005 7:18pm

Man, this is just your 'American Woman' thread in Personal Issues again!, we all told you there was nothing in her resting her hand on your shoulder!, BARMAIDS ARE FLIRTY, let it go now!, the fact that she couldn't remember you is a clear indication that she's like this with a lot of guys, what more evidence do you need?