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I cant fathom men

lazydaisy · 2005-11-13 03:00:17

Why are men so hard to read? We girls never know if you like us or just want us for sex. Do guys like being chased or is it true that men are hunters and women should just let them do all the chasing? And what are some signs that the guy really wants to be with you and not just into the chase? And what is the story with…

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Why are men so hard to read? We girls never know if you like us or just want us for sex.

Do guys like being chased or is it true that men are hunters and women should just let them do all the chasing? And what are some signs that the guy really wants to be with you and not just into the chase?

And what is the story with blowing hot and cold. Gees. You guys should come with a guidebook.

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#2 13-11-2005 3:01am

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is this thread for real

actually, this makes me laugh

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#3 13-11-2005 3:38am

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We just want you for sex. :v: :v: :v:

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#4 13-11-2005 4:03am

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yes we like you and yes we just want you for sex! its figuring out whether we want to stick around afterwards is the tricky thing:rolleyes:

Blowing hot and cold, well sometime im in need of a shag more than others:D

And a girl saying she cant figure US out is funny, we are simple its yous that are complicated.:v:

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#5 13-11-2005 4:24am

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yes girls are really complicated!although for some strange reason!im more romantic than my gf!its pissing me off!

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#6 13-11-2005 5:00am

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on behaf of all irish ladsi am sorry butthe irish men are the shyist in theworld... it's our only weak point....

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#7 13-11-2005 5:05am

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girls are only jealous coz well never love them as much as our mammys!:D

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#8 13-11-2005 5:11am

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Ok your first lesson is Men don't like to be measured in fathoms
Inches will do fine :eek:

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#9 13-11-2005 5:14am

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Guys are totally simple.

If it seems like we just want you for sex, we just want you for sex.

If we seem uninterested, we're uninterested.

If a mildly obese girl approaches us, we think ugh.

If a hot girl approaches us, we think, hmmm, this is odd, but I'll play along...

It's not complicated. Don't read into it.

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#10 13-11-2005 10:00am

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lazydaisy wrote:

And what is the story with blowing hot and cold.

We're just facinated by erect nipples.

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#11 13-11-2005 3:06pm

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I say you should have sex with them to see if they like you or not,
It always works

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#12 13-11-2005 3:10pm

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lazydaisy wrote:

Why are men so hard to read? We girls never know if you like us or just want us for sex.

Do guys like being chased or is it true that men are hunters and women should just let them do all the chasing? And what are some signs that the guy really wants to be with you and not just into the chase?

And what is the story with blowing hot and cold. Gees. You guys should come with a guidebook.

Don't fall for it lads! She's trying to mindphuck us!

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#13 13-11-2005 3:11pm

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lazydaisy wrote:

Why are men so hard to read?
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And what is the story with blowing hot and cold. Gees. You guys should come with a guidebook.

Actually, Ms Pot, you'll find that it is you that is black.

Signed Mr. Kettle.

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#14 13-11-2005 3:15pm

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lazydaisy wrote:

I cant fathom men

L/G/B forum for you!

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#15 13-11-2005 4:22pm

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I think it's just that men can't understand women and vice versa. So it's nothing to get upset over; people have been experiencing these problems years before we were and it will only continue... Just life!!

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#16 13-11-2005 4:29pm

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Women are a lot more complicated than men are!!!!

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#17 13-11-2005 4:39pm

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lazydaisy wrote:

Why are men so hard to read? We girls never know if you like us or just want us for sex.

Do guys like being chased or is it true that men are hunters and women should just let them do all the chasing? And what are some signs that the guy really wants to be with you and not just into the chase?

And what is the story with blowing hot and cold. Gees. You guys should come with a guidebook.

All men are the same, we all have the same personalities and therefore all think the same way. We're like Tamagotchi's, sometimes we respond the way you think we will, other times we'll just crap ourselves.

Come on now, get real!, you sound like you've had a bad experience/run with a couple of men, I'm sorry to hear that but maybe it's your selection of the type of men that has brought you into this predicament, maybe steer away from the types with the baseball caps perched on the back of the head with gold chains and sleazy smiles for a while.

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#18 13-11-2005 6:21pm

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i think its actually obvious if a man only wants you for sex. some women dont want to see that though.

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#19 13-11-2005 6:27pm

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its quite simple men want sex thats it and if they like who u are and u don't give them hassle we stick around...thats it really

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#20 13-11-2005 6:27pm

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oh, and just to add on, not that this applies to all men, but more often than not have i experienced the hot/cold behaviour

what the feck is up with that??
one day they're digging you, the next its total blow over. that just hurts

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#21 13-11-2005 6:28pm

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miss_gonzo wrote:

oh, and just to add on, not that this applies to all men, but more often than not have i experienced the hot/cold behaviour

what the feck is up with that??
one day they're digging you, the next its total blow over. that just hurts

Right, see, women never do that...

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#22 13-11-2005 6:30pm

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see one day we wanna be wit our gf or whatever and the next day we wanna watch football wit the lads or something along them lines

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#23 13-11-2005 6:31pm

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Nice thread. Wanna ****?

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#24 13-11-2005 6:31pm

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Sico wrote:

Right, see, women never do that...

right...er...caught me with that one. i'm just pissed at the mo. with this one guy whose doing that to me.

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#25 13-11-2005 6:33pm

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bloks will naturally do that tho miss gonzo...u could be comin on a bit strong we really on't like that

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#26 13-11-2005 6:36pm

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jcoote wrote:

bloks will naturally do that tho miss gonzo...u could be comin on a bit strong we really on't like that

ya this lad....i tell him i saw something that reminded me of him, which! was true....and since then, i dunno....he's being distant. me and my big mouth....i should be keeping quiet. but dont tell me i gotta be that mysterious hard to get girl, thats bull****, i dont want to play games.

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#27 13-11-2005 6:37pm

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lazydaisy wrote:

Why are men so hard to read? We girls never know if you like us or just want us for sex.

Do guys like being chased or is it true that men are hunters and women should just let them do all the chasing? And what are some signs that the guy really wants to be with you and not just into the chase?

And what is the story with blowing hot and cold. Gees. You guys should come with a guidebook.

you cannot be serious???To this day in all my years going out with various different birds i cannot
understand just what goes through your seriously complicated minds...you say "fine" real meaning = "far from it",etc,etc i could go on and on and on but im sure people know where im coming from:v:

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#28 13-11-2005 6:38pm

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this is gonna turn into a PI thread but feck it..it could be that u are showing a lot of interest and thinkin about him all the time and he's not up for tht at the minute...it is puzzlin i know but just be straight and happy days will cometh

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#29 13-11-2005 6:40pm

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we shouldn't be both classified in the same species we are that different ...its a mystery that nobody will ever solve...it'd be too easy bein all the same and too much fun...nothing would get done except drinkin and partyin

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#30 13-11-2005 6:41pm

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And another thing please don't ask us to choose between you and the Football as there's always gonna be only 1 winner (for me anyway)The Football:D

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#31 13-11-2005 6:42pm

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jcoote wrote:

this is gonna turn into a PI thread but feck it..it could be that u are showing a lot of interest and thinkin about him all the time and he's not up for tht at the minute...it is puzzlin i know but just be straight and happy days will cometh

he's not worth my thought processes! i do think of him, but feck i shouldnt.

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#32 13-11-2005 6:44pm

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In my experience, and for some reason I can't really understand, the worse you treat guys the more they like you. Or maybe thats just the ones that I know...

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#33 13-11-2005 6:45pm

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I think it's something along the lines of, if a guy wants you for sex one day he's gonna want you for sex any other day. But if he likes you for you one day he might see you at the 'wrong time of month' the other day and change his mind.

Also, girls are notorious for the "lets just be friends" routine when guys come on too strong - not necessarily my experience but I've heard it a lot.

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#34 13-11-2005 6:45pm

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EvilPixieOne wrote:

In my experience, and for some reason I can't really understand, the worse you treat guys the more they like you. Or maybe thats just the ones that I know...

hit the nail on the head.

ive experienced the same.

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#35 13-11-2005 6:46pm

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EvilPixieOne wrote:

In my experience, and for some reason I can't really understand, the worse you treat guys the more they like you. Or maybe thats just the ones that I know...

True to an extent but vice versa is definitely true as most women love a man who's a bit of a bast*rd

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#36 13-11-2005 6:46pm

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EvilPixieOne wrote:

In my experience, and for some reason I can't really understand, the worse you treat guys the more they like you. Or maybe thats just the ones that I know...

Yeah but thats universal .

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#37 13-11-2005 6:47pm

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i used to be like that i loved gettin treated bad and what not its a weird psyhco thing...i had to go thru numerous counsellin sessions to sort it out:p..

miss gonzo u have every right to think about him it maybe that he just isn't right for u at the minute

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#38 13-11-2005 6:48pm

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Why are(most) birds so picky and choosy when it comes to shagging?Would save all the hassle if birds just put out more and stop this cr*p

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#39 13-11-2005 6:50pm

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its not just a shag to most women its a very emotional experience

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#40 13-11-2005 6:50pm

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jcoote wrote:

its not just a shag to most women its a very emotional experience

Not to some of the slags ive shagged in the past it hasnt

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#41 13-11-2005 6:51pm

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me too but thats why they are called slags innit

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#42 13-11-2005 6:59pm

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jcoote wrote:

its not just a shag to most women its a very emotional experience

haha

er....right...emotional....

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#43 13-11-2005 7:19pm

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or maybe they just want to be sure that you don't have herpes...?

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#44 13-11-2005 7:22pm

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You know they main problem here is that you're assuming that "men" act the same, as if there are two personality types in the world...

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#45 13-11-2005 7:26pm

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No assumptions but it is true that lots of men share similiar characteristics

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#46 13-11-2005 11:41pm

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Us women are complicated and men are simple. Thats all there is to it really. If you want to know what a guy is thinking, just let your brain go blank!;)

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#47 13-11-2005 11:48pm

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Finally.. someones making sense hre ^ :v: :v:

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#48 14-11-2005 3:51am

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miss_gonzo wrote:

i think its actually obvious if a man only wants you for sex. some women dont want to see that though.

That is too true. I agree that women make a lot of excuses for men so they don't have to feel used. I don't think its ALWAYS that obvious though. Men will say anything to get you naked.

Its easy to tell when they want a woman just for sex but its not always easy tell if and how much they respect/care about you.

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miss_gonzo wrote:

ya this lad....i tell him i saw something that reminded me of him, which! was true....and since then, i dunno....he's being distant.

Was the thing you saw any of the following?

baby clothes
mortgage advtisement
wedding dress
and so on...

Oh and FYI we like to do the chasing, otherwise its just not fun any more

And please dont bombard us with 20 phone calls the day after we have met you for lunch for the first time.

Or try and find out our home phone number, home address and think about coming round to our house to tell us how much we mean to you after a few emails.

Not that either of these things have happened to me...;)

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jonny68 wrote:

Not to some of the slags ive shagged in the past it hasnt

You're charming the pants off me.

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