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like a guy-think he likes me? not sure what to do

  • 11-11-2005 03:37AM
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I was out with a gang of people I went to school with and ended up hanging out with one of them until 5:30 am. I hadnt seen him for many years but we always got along and had a great laugh together. It was all very innocent but there was defintely a vibe there. A lot of noticeable flirtation. He didnt try it on and I didnt either, probably because we've known each other for over 20 years but havent seen each other for about 8 years and it I think we both got shy about it. It was also partly because our friends would slag the hell out of us as we're so different. Also I was really tired and had been sick earlier in the evening. The thing is is that I think I may like this man, and I'm not sure if was something just born out of the evening or if its more.

    And also how do you know when a guy is really into you or if hes just trying to get down your pants?

    I guess my question is one that comes up a lot for girls, and that is, is it better to wait and see and let the guy to the running, or is it better to take an active role in things? Im in my early 30s and I cant believe I still havent a clue about these things.


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  • #2
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,044 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Get his number ring him and go for coffee and see if you still feel the same way.
    I am sure that you will have plenty to talk about gain.
    Coffee is not hugely comitting and it will let him know that you are intrested
    and you can sort out a date then.

    You have seen him in 8 years and your intrested and your going two waste
    8 days before seeing him again and having in you life as even just a friend?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    annec wrote:
    And also how do you know when a guy is really into you or if hes just trying to get down your pants?

    .

    the fact as u stated he never tried it on is an indication this guy may have good intentions. give it a shot sure


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