Confusion over girl

LegacyUser

Ive been in contact with a girl over the last couple of weeks,literally sendin 20 texts a day or something!she replys to all my txts and reguarly intiates the textin but whenever i try to meet up with her,she cant make it.
This messin around is really breaking me down
Any advice

dundalk cailin

well if she's textin u back, and iniating the messages, id say she's interested, she might genuinly not be able to make it. or she could be shy, im a bit like that, its all right textin, but when it comes to meeting up, im sometimes scared!! dont pressure her, just see how the land lies. she knows ur interested, right?

Dave

Give her a ring and ask her does she want to meet up maybe.

Femelade

ok this is gonna sound mean but i had a guy who used to txt me and i used to txt back out of bordem, i mean he was a really nice guy but i didnt want to be in a relationship wit him, or meet him and think we were "going out" or something. and yes, sometimes i iniated the txts.

i wouldnt take much notice of this girl unless she decides to meet up wit u. she's not interested in you if she doesnt even want to meet you.

LegacyUser

Yeh i think femmy has it right!thats the general vibes im gettin off her!anyway theres plenty more fish in the sea
now where is my fishing rod!

EvilPixieOne

It sounds like she's interested to me. If I were you I'd just ask her when is she free so you can meet up, giving her the chance to arrange it, and if that doesn't work then just take it that she doesn't like you. After all there are plenty more fish in the sea and all that jazz

vibrant

Sounds like she might already have a boyfriend. Perhaps things haven't been going well and she can justify flirty texts with someone else, but can't justify meeting up as she knows where it'll go.

Best advice I can give you is to move on, as things like this are rarely worth the effort.

ratboy

she could just enjoy the fact that you're interested in her, ego boost and all but no other interest.

Drazhar

she could just be a text-buddy (ha ha ha, see what i did there, eh, ah never mind)

If she lives locally, tell her your headed for a few with the lads, and if she wants to join, grand, if not, bye bye. Just make sure you are going for a few with the lads, no need to be crying into a pint on your own!!!

bp

i had a similar thing with a guy once years ago. Met in the Palace (before it was the Picture House) anyways he asked for my number, texted me five minutes later asking to go to something with him etc. so we arranged to meet a few times but he always cancelled in the end. i just gave up. he started texting me a few months later but i just told him there was no point!
well that was my story make of it what you will!

ask her straight out or give up!

Lex Luthor

SHE'S MARRIED..........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:rolleyes:

Kell

Confusedman wrote:

but whenever i try to meet up with her,she cant make it.
This messin around is really breaking me down

She is messing with your head. Take the hint, appreciate there are some nasty people in the world and move on.

K-

ando

If I was you I'd ask her to meet up one more time, if she cant make it as she says, NEXT Plz

Drazhar wrote:

she could just be a text-buddy (ha ha ha, see what i did there

ba dum' tish