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Another ex question.

  • 07-11-2005 2:46am
    #1
    Exon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 181 ✭✭


    I started my own thread as I didn't want to interfere with the other persons thread. I've been seeing a girl for about 3 months and we get on well never fight etc. Well anyway in the last month I made loads of false promises and never carried any of them trough the only contact we had was via phone/text and I rang her on the weekend and asked her what she done today and she said she was in her BF's house. (LOL) she then txted me and said I had my chance with her and she told me she'd get sick of all talk no action etc. Anyway i'm feeling it a little bit now, tbh I couldn't care less if she's with someone else, but I love her as a friend and when I replyed to the msg asking her if we could still be friends she didn't reply. She's a very sound girl and deep down I know she'd prefer to be with me, but can't take all the false promises, but it's hurting me cause I don't know if she wants to be friends. It's been wrecking my head ever since, I don't know wether I want to be with her or not. We've never fought and i'd hate to loose her as a friend, what should I do? I was thinking about txting her and if she doesn't reply, forget about it. I also suspect I have caught an STI from her. (little red spots spreading accross my knob). This isn't a pleasant situation. I'm having 100 toughts all at once. Can anyone give me advice please? I'm 18 and she's 17 years old.

    edit: about the STI I know only a doctor can sort that out but I just wanted to get it off my chest while am I at it!


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  • #2
    Jesper
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 817 ✭✭✭Jesper


    Give her space and time. Keep only occassional contact with her and in a few weeks reiterate that you want to stay friends. Even ask her questions on her new fella to show you care.
    GET the STI checked out asap. Don't accuse her of it until your sure. In future give more thought to what outcomes there will be from sleeping around. Cut down on the lies even though you might of meant them you will only get a name as a bull shi**er and no one wants that.


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