Am I gay?

boo lamb

Hello,
I am a 17 year old male, I have had many girfriends since I was 14 and while they were not serious they were indeed quite fun. However, recently when I had a very uncomfortable wedgie I accidently slipped a finger up there while trying to pull my underwear out. I was quite shocked by how much I enjoyed it and a little ashamed. I would have never thought of doing this before but now it's all I think about.

Does this mean I am gay? Or is there something wrong with me?

Optikus

No your not... when you start to fantasize about a fella giving it to you up there.. then you might have some cause for concern.. TBH some women seem to enjoy it, so you finding pleasure from it is ...well Ok, i suppose.

moridin

Sounds kinda trollish to me...

If you don't fancy guys you're not gay.

Optikus

moridin wrote:

Sounds kinda trollish to me...

If you don't fancy guys you're not gay.

Funny how people with "these" kinda probs always have less that 10 posts.

ixoy

Taking it at face value (I'm gullible)....no you're not. It's a pretty erogenous zone, so it's not surprising you found a small buzz by stimulating it - a lot of decidely hetrosexual men would as well. Don't fret for even a moment over it when ya liked it and it caused harm to nobody.

Optikus

ixoy wrote:

Taking it at face value (I'm gullible)....no you're not. It's a pretty erogenous zone, so it's not surprising you found a small buzz by stimulating it - a lot of decidely hetrosexual men would as well. Don't fret for even a moment over it when ya liked it and it caused harm to nobody.

No harm unless you shake somes hand afterwards..or poke some one in the eye.

Beruthiel

moridin wrote:

Sounds kinda trollish to me...

whither it is or not - lets leave it to myself or one of my fellow mods to decide

as ioxy said
take it at face value, even if it is a troll, someone else might find help in reading it

Optikus
if you haven't anything helpful to add to this thread please refrain from commenting at all.
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simu

You're gay if you're sexually attacted to other men. The sensations you experience when you touch your ásshole have nothing whatsoever to do with it.

logic1

As a famous ad once said:

Suck it and see.

.logic.

Beruthiel

logic
did you miss my previous post above?

logic1

Beruthiel wrote:

logic
did you miss my previous post above?

Are you tring to lead a witness? No I didn't miss your previous post.. am I eligible for a good PI berating now? Oh please!

I gave good advice, if he thinks he's gay try it and he'll soon know, why agonize over it for hours. If you can't read the advice through the humour maybe you have a personal issue which I'm sure I could help you with in the very same manner.

.logic.

cajun_tiger

no but its ok to question your sexuality

Sleepy

boo lamb - no, enjoying the sensation of a finger in your ass doesn't mean you have gay leanings. The prostrate gland is pretty much regarded as the male g-spot.

Another thing worth remembering is that gay and straight are merely labels. Try to think of sexuality as being more like a rainbow. Every individual's sexuality is a different shade between the two extremes of fancying only men or fancying only women. While society has influenced so many people to be at extreme ends of the scale, remember nothing in sex, or human sexuality is black and white. What turns me on might make you feel ill, or vice versa.

As with all things in life, if it doesn't hurt anyone else and you enjoy it, have fun and tell society to go fúck itself.

chump

I would say, yes, it does mean you're gay...

damien

Nah, being attracted to guys only would probably mean you're gay.

As has been stated the prostate gland in men is something that when stimulated gives a lot of pleasure. Anal sex for some stimulates this gland and will give pleasure.

There are in fact straight men who like to be fcked because of the pleasure they get from it yet they are not gay. It'd be interesting to research how many people might think they are gay and force themselves into this lable just because of anal sex.

Beruthiel

logic1 wrote:

Are you tring to lead a witness? No I didn't miss your previous post.. am I eligible for a good PI berating now? Oh please!

If I didn't know you'd enjoy it so much, I probably would berate you
and sending me karma hugs will not help you either young man

/on topic

no it does not mean you are gay
and there is nothing wrong with you whatsoever

Evil Phil

No you're not gay, get your girlfriend (or one of them ) to do this for you.

L5

I think you must be gay to go sticking your finger up your hóle !

ferdi

boo lamb wrote:

Does this mean I am gay?

very.

Sniipe

sean william scott in road trip
E.L. : "Did I say two fingers? Better make that three. "
There u go, all better now, if they do then its ok

DRakE

yeah, your gay.

unlucky.

NotMe

I don't think sticking your finger up your hole makes you gay but I think it would be practically impossible for you to accidently stick it up there. :rolleyes:

Lafortezza

boo lamb wrote:

Hello,
Does this mean I am gay?

I would classify you as "turbo-gay".

ven0m

boo lamb wrote:

Hello,
I am a 17 year old male, I have had many girfriends since I was 14 and while they were not serious they were indeed quite fun. However, recently when I had a very uncomfortable wedgie I accidently slipped a finger up there while trying to pull my underwear out. I was quite shocked by how much I enjoyed it and a little ashamed. I would have never thought of doing this before but now it's all I think about.

Does this mean I am gay? Or is there something wrong with me?

Mate - alot of straight guys whether they will admit it or not, like having their arseholes played with or even fingered by a woman & it doesn't mean you're gay - even if you 'were' gay, there'd still be nothing wrong with it.... alot of nerve endings back there & also the 'male' G-spot is back there too!

So - have fun, lube up, make sure not to wear sharp rings & make sure your nails aren't sharp, have a fiddle, have some fun & remember one thing; WASH YOUR HANDS AFTER!!!!!


::: ven0mous :::

Memnoch

ven0m wrote:

So - have fun, lube up, make sure not to wear sharp rings & make sure your nails aren't sharp, have a fiddle, have some fun & remember one thing; WASH YOUR HANDS AFTER!!!!!


::: ven0mous :::

speaking from experience?

on a serious note, don't ask people in here to tell you if you're gay. Thats up to you to decide. I suspect the fact that you're asking this question indicates that perhaps you have "considered" the idea, or at least consider yourself open to the idea. In which case as logic suggested, go give it a try. If you find its not to your tastes (you can stop at any time), then you will know that you're not gay. (or are as that may be)

Phil_321

Yes, you do seem gay. Better get yourself to a shrink and nip this in the bud, I heard it's untreatable after a couple of months.

azezil

ugh no, i'm gay and i don't like it, you're clearly straight :rolleyes:

Beruthiel

well I think this thread has clearly served whatever purpose it had

the thread starter has not come back with any comments,
I am closing this thread and if he wishes me to re open it he can send me a PM
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