Its over

coco

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aidan_walsh

"At that particular time love encouraged me to leave
At that particular moment I knew staying with you meant deserting me
That particular month was harder than you'd believe but I still left
At that particular time"
- Alanis Morissette

I'm sorry things couldn't work out for you, I hope you find someone again soon...

CathyMoran

Hi Coco,

sorry to hear that it did not work out - my ex cheated on me after almost 6 years. If you feel like you need someone to talk to feel free to PM me. There is life after this and you will learn to trust again. It just takes time. I would not be in a hurry to start dating again - I did, and it was not the best idea. Best wishes.

DrColossus

Hi
first of all you did what you felt was right, i know what its like to not be able to trust someone. my ex gf cheated on me and I couldn't trust her after that. (you not alone here). All you need is a wee bit of time to get round things, CathyMorgan gives good advice there! dont be in a hurry to start dating again. but when ya do The world is the mollusc of your choice!

coco

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azezil

To lesbainia!

*jumps on his rocking horse and rides off into the sunset*

Paladin

How silly. Did you not learn?

If a guy with a girlfriend is eyeing you up then why would you trust him if he was your boyfriend? How do you know he wouldnt be eyeing up another girl? Course he would be. That said, eyeing up isnt cheating, but if he was willing to be with you then expect the same from him again when youre the girlfriend.

Some girls just subconsciously look for jerks...

Zulu

Am I missing something?

bandraoi

Paladin wrote:

How silly. Did you not learn?

Some girls just subconsciously look for jerks...

and some girls do it consciously