so is it pamela anderson, or a real women?

snorlax

do men go for big tits/ teeny waist/ flat stomach, people like jordan/ pamela anderson, or do they go for real women?

how about the age old question,is personality or body more important for a fella? for me it's definetly personality .

vibrant

Of course! Which is why every single woman who does not fit into this category is doomed to be single for all eternity... :rolleyes:

*Sassy*

To be fair, they are all real women too. Just surgically enhanced!! And they wouldn't be world famous if men didn't find them attractive. So I think we all already know the answer to this question!! Although, if blokes actually got into a relationship with that type of girl, they'd probably get sick of it quite quickly, as they are bound to be extremely high maintenance, since their career does, for the most part, depend on their appearance. At the end of the day, its different strokes for different folks.

Edited just to add.... For me, I have to be physically AND mentally attracted to someone if anything big is gonna happen. In saying that I do have an ex who wasn't drop dead gorgeous but I found him more physically attractive as the relationship went on, and was with him for 2 years.

Jim

Pam might be a lovely woman....as well as a large chest.

Tbh it depends on the situation. If your physically attracted to a stranger your more likely to approch them and try and talk to them. But if your introduced to them I'd be more likely to go for a girl with personality.

Saying that I don't really find Pam Anderson attractive.

snorlax

how could a fella be attracted to a girl if her tits are 90%silcon, also iv heard implants can explode if your on a plane crash, dangerous to be near someone like that?!

i guess the guy would kinda get bored if he was in a relationship with implants, there's no substance!

*Sassy*

Well if they're done right they can look really good! Most blokes probably prefer real ones of course, but some like that artificial look. For instance, I think Jordan's fake boobs look much better than Jodie Marsh's real ones for some reason... Probs cos Jodie Marsh is a total dog! But they do look a bit saggy or something....

climaxer

*Sassy* wrote:

Well if they're done right they can look really good! Most blokes probably prefer real ones of course, but some like that artificial look. For instance, I think Jordan's fake boobs look much better than Jodie Marsh's real ones for some reason... Probs cos Jodie Marsh is a total dog! But they do look a bit saggy or something....

I never knew Jodie Marsh's ones were real - guess you learn something new everyday!

loz_the_boz

snorlax wrote:

how could a fella be attracted to a girl if her tits are 90%silcon, also iv heard implants can explode if your on a plane crash, dangerous to be near someone like that?!

As dangerous as being in the crash itself ?

*Sassy*

climaxer wrote:

I never knew Jodie Marsh's ones were real - guess you learn something new everyday!

Yes, I am mind (mine? never actually wrote that down) of useless information.....

Sarky

Pamela Anderson, everyone, anyone...

Fysh

*Sassy* wrote:

To be fair, they are all real women too. Just surgically enhanced!! And they wouldn't be world famous if men didn't find them attractive. So I think we all already know the answer to this question!! Although, if blokes actually got into a relationship with that type of girl, they'd probably get sick of it quite quickly, as they are bound to be extremely high maintenance, since their career does, for the most part, depend on their appearance. At the end of the day, its different strokes for different folks.

Edited just to add.... For me, I have to be physically AND mentally attracted to someone if anything big is gonna happen. In saying that I do have an ex who wasn't drop dead gorgeous but I found him more physically attractive as the relationship went on, and was with him for 2 years.

To a certain type of guy, they might well be. Personally I find Jordan, Pamela Anderson, Jodie Marsh and most of the surgically "improved" models to be unattractive both physically (despite all the surgery, they still somehow have an unhealthy sheen, especially Jordan) and even more so by the parts of their personality that can be construed from their on-screen or interview behaviour.

Different strokes and all that, but I've never seen the appeal of someone who looks like they're made of plastic, and speaks like they have a brain to match. But then again I could hardly be described as a good sounding board for the opinions of the man-in-the-street.

*Sassy*

Don't get me wrong, I don't find that look particularly attractive, and most of those girls just come across as cheap tarts because of the way they act or whatnot. I mean look at Jennifer Ellison, she's "all real", but she's just as cheap as any of those plastic girls. But there is obviously a huge demand for that look, in magazines and newspapers anyway. You'll find that 99% of those girls look fairly average in the flesh, apart from their oversized boobs!! Amazing what good make up and strategic lighting can do these days....

Fysh

*Sassy* wrote:

...You'll find that 99% of those girls look fairly average in the flesh, apart from their oversized boobs!! Amazing what good make up and strategic lighting can do these days....

...or, more often than not, a hell of a lot of airbrushing.

snorlax

so what is it men actually want then, pam or normal person? maybe we should have a poll!

Ste-

snorlax wrote:

so what is it men actually want then, pam or normal person? maybe we should have a poll!

There's no deinite answer, each and every person has different likes/dislikes.
Some will like pam and some will not.

krattapopov

i love pam anderson, she is the best

Flukey

I prefer a real women. You want someone who is at peace with herself. If a woman feels the need to adjust herself, it is more a problem with her self-confidence than her body. We may be initially attracted to an attractive looking woman - and that does not mean large tits as some of these women are not attractive at all - but it is the personality in the long run that keeps us interested. We don't want someone whose personality is as plastic as her body! So definitely a real woman, anytime.

cormie

Well there are such things as "real" attractive women. I've know women more attractive than Pam and Jordan in real life. For me it's all in the face, I don't really care for the big chest. If I knew a gal had implants I would be turned off straight away, it just says something about their personality that doesn't appeal to me. Something quite shallow. I can totally understand breast reduction as this would attract bad attention to girls who may not like it. But I can't stand women who think they are great just because their chest is large. And they show it off and their face is just an eyesore. Jordan would be way better without the silicone. She has a nice front view face and a nice slim body. That's what I tend to go for, face and slim, tall body and of course a nice personality. I hate all these stupid women you see on tv who think they are going to be the next big thing just because they are getting impants. What most of these women need is a full body restructure and a face change and a personality change also. Why try be something your not? Be yourself and live with it.

quad_red

what you've sad Cormie. The 'fake plastic' look says alot about a girls personality. And I just don't find that attractive.

Do all women think Vin Diesel is gorgeous? Yes, some do. With his bulging biceps and oiled up torso he is a dream for some women! But alot of women would go wild thinking about someone like John Cusack!??!

Why? Because there is a genuine beauty to the guy. Its something you can relate to AND fancy the pants off. Thats why Scarlett Johansson is unbelievably sexy.

Civilian_Target

Simply said, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with Pam/Jordan/etc. but give me one night and I'll be happy.

gom

Attractiveness is a very important impulse but has more to do with sex than a relationship.
If I see Jordan walking along down the street. I'm going to look. Hell I might even go up and see what happens. If I see Jo Brand I'll leg it even though she is probably one of the funniest women on TV.

I'm a man of high standards and find that you have to have an physical and mental attraction to be in a long term relationship with them. If you just want sex personality is the last thing that is important(unless its phone sex). A friend of mine said he would not sleep with Jordan. I was shocked. He sited her brain as the reason.

The point is its just sex. A one nighter. Its all about the physical. If you are in a relationship the physical is important in bed but the mentality is the fundementally important element.

As for Pam Anderson. keep away. Too old and far too like my dad's girl friend for my liking

quad_red

but jordan is grotesque!!

having seen in the flesh i can honestly say she is mutton dressed up as lamb.

and a complete muppet.

climaxer

quad_red wrote:

but jordan is grotesque!!

having seen in the flesh i can honestly say she is mutton dressed up as lamb.

and a complete muppet.

Where did you see Jordan in the flesh - just asking out of nosiness!

ionapaul

Ugh. Both Jordan and Pam are ugly skanks. Now if we were given a choice between Jessica Alba and a 'real woman', I would have to go celebrity on that one. Maybe force-feed her for a week first though. Ah, life
I notice beautiful 'real women' every day in town or on Baggot Street or wherever. Women are much more attractive wearing smart business clothes I think! Dress suit or nice work skirts...mmmm.

SantaHoe

ionapaul wrote:

Ugh. Both Jordan and Pam are ugly skanks.

Agreed, they don't look human.
Actually I think "Jordan" looked more attractive before she had all that work done. (I saw some before and after pics in NOW magazine.)
Less really is more tbh.

chizzle dizzle

snorlax wrote:

do men go for big tits/ teeny waist/ flat stomach, people like jordan/ pamela anderson, or do they go for real women?

how about the age old question,is personality or body more important for a fella? for me it's definetly personality .

I believe that when u first see a person physical appearance is important,i mean u wudnt approach a person if u didnt find them attractive!! but if u are looking for a relationship and a person u cud bring home to your parents pesonality is definately overruled by looks!!the whole saga about implants,i believe makes the woman seem like an attention seeker,she wants those luks from men,she wants to be noticed,she wants heads to turn as she walks down the street.But at the end of the day if thats what she wants to do well then no one can stop her!

It portrays an image to men that she is easy to get and men would only want her for that purpose, not for a real relatioship.

Seanie M

Chizzles quite right. I've had this chat with my fiancée, and it is agreed, a relationship is built upon physycal attraction at first. It is expected of us all to consider leaving the physical attraction behind as life moves on, and you are more sensually, and mentally attracted to your partner. But I don't agree with that. I don't plan on becoming a fat overweight man in my 40's and 50's, and unfortunately if we have kids, I would expect my future wife to try and help by pulling her part of at least trying to get back into shape.

If I became fat and overweight in my middle-to-old age, I would not expect her to find me attractive, even though she would say she loves me regardless. I don't think its a valid argument. Don't get me wrong, I will never leave her if she got overweight after having kids, or for any other reason (unless it could be deliberate). I'll accept change, but even after many years in a relationship, I believe an effort should still be made to keep the other half interested.

After all, we all get attached to some one because of the sex - its in our human nature!

Lafortezza

Flukey wrote:

You want someone who is at peace with herself. If a woman feels the need to adjust herself, it is more a problem with her self-confidence than her body.

Show me a woman who is "at peace" and happy with her appearance and I'll gladly show you the chocolate teapot I own.