Women.....

Nuttzz

Really a question for the lads who have been going out with someone for quite a while.

Have you noticed when your GF/wife starts talking about friends, her friends become "our friends" while your friends remain "your friends"?

I have noticed this with my GF and a few friends GF's too. Anyone else?

Fudger

Women are nuts !

Kold

Vaginas are weird too.

Gurgle

lol
Not really in my case though. Some of 'our' best friends are people who used to be 'my' friends long before we became an us.
At a guess, you go out together with her friends and on 'lads nights' with your friends.
Why would she count your friends as hers if she doesn't tend to be around when you're with them ?

-edit- you think too much!

flogen

well, no....
My oldest group of friends is where I met my girlfriend (as in she was part of the group), so they have always been 'our friends'. We do the same college course, so again, our friends are the same (although there are some she would hang around with more than I would, and vice versa.)

Other friends I have that she wouldnt know except through me are seen the same by her as I would see her friends I met through her. I wouldn't go so far to call them our friends, but I know them well enough to have a chat with them if I bumped into them. And it works the other way too.
We've been going out for over 4 years now... so no problems so far.

Maybe you know her friends better than she knows yours... if not, just refer to your friends as 'ours' and her friends as hers.

flogen

Sarky

God forbid your girlfriend might actually become friends with your friends. God forbid. You had better pray your hobbies and interests don't become your(plural) hobbies and interests. If that happens, you're screwed.

Seeing as my girlfriend started off as one of my friends anyway, I don't see a problem.

Dave

I hate all her friends and prefer hanging around with my friends by myself.

impr0v

Dave wrote:

I hate all her friends and prefer hanging around with my friends by myself.

They whisper bad things in her ears about you.
They're trying to steal her from you.
They never liked you
They'd rather see her with him

Lisapeep

I think you'd be alot more freaked if she started adopting your friends as her own and ended up spending alot more time with them than with you! See, it could be worse!

seamus

Dave wrote:

I hate all her friends and prefer hanging around with my friends by myself.

Seems to be the norm. I tend to get bored hanging around with her mates, and she gets bored hanging around with my mates. She's less tolerant of my mates though. That would set alarm bells off, but most people are less tolerant of my mates

Sarky

Maybe you should both get better friends?

seamus

Sarky wrote:

Maybe you should both get better friends?

It suits us fine. Makes her unwilling to join me on a night out. I get to go out on the piss with the lads, she gets to go out on the piss with her mates. If we fancy going out on the piss together, we go out with my brothers. Everyone wins.

Dave

seamus wrote:

It suits us fine. Makes her unwilling to join me on a night out. I get to go out on the piss with the lads, she gets to go out on the piss with her mates. If we fancy going out on the piss together, we go out with my brothers. Everyone wins.

Here here, it's a good system and everyone's happy.

snoopish

Kold wrote:

Vaginas are weird too.

* blinks *

Twistedlilkitty

I've been going out with someone for 2 months, i've met loads of his friends who i think are all rather nice and funny people, he has only met one of mine, who is a guy, he thinks i have only one friend....
lil does he know that i paid the guy to say he was my friend....

Actually do you think it matters if your g/f or b/f get on with your friends?

I didnt but my experience with an ex is making me think differently....

and the most reason why women do that whole "your friends" and "our friends" thing is because they don't want to lay claim to something thats yours or freak you out incase you think you fancy one of them....

Töpher

Twistedlilkitty wrote:

he has only met one of mine, who is a guy, he thinks i have only one friend....
lil does he know that i paid the guy to say he was my friend....

Was that meant to make me laugh? :eek:

Twistedlilkitty

Einst&#252 wrote: »

Was that meant to make me laugh? :eek:

well considering i dont know you....then no...if i did know you then possibly still no... :rolleyes:
overall i was kinda hoping for pity....or sex...or pity sex...

Tusky

Twistedlilkitty wrote:

well considering i dont know you....then no...if i did know you then possibly still no... :rolleyes:
overall i was kinda hoping for pity....or sex...or pity sex...

*mounts Twistedlilkitty*

you have come to the right place.

Twistedlilkitty

Tusky wrote:

*mounts Twistedlilkitty*

you have come to the right place.

Shouldn't someone be here with a big assed WA-WA peddle right now?
and then some guy comes in to fix the photocopier....

funky penguin

Twistedlilkitty wrote:

Shouldn't someone be here with a big assed WA-WA peddle right now?
and then some guy comes in to fix the photocopier....

No, first he says hes gonna fix it, but then the saxaphone starts before he gets a chance to. This is a common signal for males everywhere to drop trou.

Bottle_of_Smoke

impr0v wrote:

They whisper bad things in her ears about you.
They're trying to steal her from you.
They never liked you
They'd rather see her with him

heheheehehe
you is gettin a reputation point!

Sleepy

What's more annoying is when an ex-girlfriend tries to make them "our friends" AFTER ye've split up...

whosurpaddy

impr0v wrote:

They whisper bad things in her ears about you.
They're trying to steal her from you.
They never liked you
They'd rather see her with him

why did i read that in a gollum voice?

they steals it, the preciousssssssss

Zulu

I saw a movie that started just like that.

ToxicPaddy

Twistedlilkitty wrote:

well considering i dont know you....then no...if i did know you then possibly still no... :rolleyes:
overall i was kinda hoping for pity....or sex...or pity sex...

So you paid a guy to say he was your mate and introduced him to the guy
you were seeing and hoped as a result that the guy you were seeing would
give you sex.. :eek:

A piece of advice:

About 99% of single guys are easy (and a lot of taken guys too).. if a girl
wants sex all she has to do is ask, they arent gonna say no.. alternatively if
you are too shy to ask, strip naked and jump on him.. that could work too..

Try it and see how it works..

Tox

Twistedlilkitty

ToxicPaddy wrote:

About 99% of single guys are easy (and a lot of taken guys too).. if a girl
wants sex all she has to do is ask, they arent gonna say no.. alternatively if
you are too shy to ask, strip naked and jump on him.. that could work too..

Try it and see how it works..

Tox

I didn't know that shy people found it easy to strip naked and jump on people......
Don't you go to prison for that...??

Sleepy

Not if you're a hot woman, no.

Zulu

Twistedlilkitty wrote:

I didn't know that shy people found it easy to strip naked and jump on people......
Don't you go to prison for that...??

Absoluty 100% completly acceptable behaviour, if, your an average to hot woman.
It's a crime against humanity if you're fat.

pickarooney

Has anyone ever manage to have an attractive female friend and successfully introduce her to your girlfriend without her hating her, you and herself?

seamus

pickarooney wrote:

Has anyone ever manage to have an attractive female friend and successfully introduce her to your girlfriend without her hating her, you and herself?

Nope. And if anyone knows the secret of this, let us know!

elivsvonchiaing

Kold wrote:

Vaginas are weird too.

Someone who lets their brain do their thinking perhaps? In my book there's nothing weird about vaginas!

Blitzkrieger

The last girl I was going out didn't seem to have any interest in my friends so for the brief time we were together we only hung around with her friends. She would always say things like "Let's meet my friend x and her boyfriend at the cinema tonight".

So I have no idea what you're talking about

Mind you, she was nuts. Worryingly that's the first line in my description of any woman I've gone out with.

Mercury_Tilt

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