Just offered a one night stand..

LegacyUser

So I was out in the local tonight and a girl came up to me and told me her friend wanted a one night stand with me... I hesitated and just said no in the end. Her friend was quite attractive but I feel the reason I said no is because of a slightly embaressing feature I have.

I have an underactive thryoid and have had for quite some time. Unfortunately because of this I now have quite a large chest. Basically flabby small breasts. They sag and are not like womens, they direct to the left and right. My nipples are also quite large for a guy.

My torso is not skinny but not fat either.

Unfortunately if I lose more weight they will become more noticeable.

The specialist said Liposuction is an option.

Just a few questions:

For the girls out there, how would you feel if you were having a passionate moment and the guy took off his top and his chest was slightly abnormal?

Would it really turn you off immensely?

How would you feel if you were having a passionate moment and you went to take his top off but he refused?

Would you ask him or wonder why?

Would you be offended?

Supposidly they will shrink and be normal when I am about 23. I'm 20 now. I would like to enjoy opportunities like tonight.

What do you think of the liposuction idea?

Stark

I don't think it would have been that much of a turnoff for the girl, especially if she's already attracted to you. Jasus an actor with the same problem was showing off with his top off on Coronation Street the other night. It would be a problem though if you were fixated on it yourself, try to remain confident despite your worries.

LegacyUser

Hi again,
Could some females please give me their oppinions.

Beruthiel

nobodies perfect
we all have lumps of fat hanging off us somewhere that we'd like to get rid of!
honestly, I wouldn't worry about it, when the right person comes along she won't care

Nuttzz

seriously you said no???? you not the only man with saggy man breasts, go to any gym!

Sleepy

You could have just kept your t-shirt on

LegacyUser

unfortunately, if I lose weight they will become more obvious. the flab starts to stick out under my arms and then curves its way to my pecs so my nipples are to the left and right of my pecs and lower than they should be.

I could have kept my shirt on, and would have, but how would women feel if I refused to take it off in a moment of passion and how would they feel if they saw my breasts in a moment of passion?

mad m

If your going back to yours take out some of the light bulbs where you think it will happen...and hope for the best....

goodluck...

Sleepy

How about just doing a lot of pressups? They target just the upper body and so should tone up your chest muscles making your condidion less obvious?

emertoff

Nobody's perfect.
I agree go to the gym. It will make a difference and you will feel less self-conscious. Besides, one night-stands usually occur after both parties have had a few, so she would probably not even notice.

malico

and you'd never have seen her again. You shall look back on this in many years time, saying to yout kids "Son, dont let oppertunity slip by, nor let man boobs get in your way"

(Edit, She was prolly pissed anyway and wouln't have noticed.. Ahh beer goggles)

Jim

I have something similar. Its a depressed Sternam (sp?). Basicly my breast bone (bone that joins your ribs are the front of your chest) is very indented, starting normally at the top and then curving dramtically toward my back. Makes it look like I have a bowl in my chest.

Some girls are completly freaked out about it and can't even look at it, most don't say anything and I've actually been complimented on it by some. If anyone says anything to me though I don't really care, if they are freaked out by it theres nothing I can do about it. There is an operation I can have to correct it but I cbatbh. It doesn't bother me.

If your thing bothers you, get the lyposuction or whatever to fix it. I wouldn't be bothered though.

LegacyUser

Please, to all the females who read this, please comment.

Fair Enough

theyRreal wrote:

The specialist said Liposuction is an option.

theyRreal wrote:

Supposidly they will shrink and be normal when I am about 23. I'm 20 now. I would like to enjoy opportunities like tonight.

What do you think of the liposuction idea?

Well, if they will shrink back, don't get lyposuction. What's the point!
Maybe if when you're 24 and there's no change, think about it.

C'mon. We're not all shallow.

Me, personally. It wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If I liked you, I'd like YOU, simple as that.

Dun

There is actually a condition in males called Gynecomastia that produces that effect.