Do all break up's feel this bad?

angelofdeath

jack daniels and wrist-slitting music don't help, what does everyone else do to make the misery go away?:(

ShriekingSheet

Drinking but NOT GOING OUT to find the suppos-ed other fishes in the sea!!!

THAT NEVER WORKS!!!

ven0m

ATT MODS: this really should be in Personal Issues.


AS a side note to this, breakup's suck - because being with someone like that means opening yourself to them & possible hurt.... but drinking to get over it creates a whole other series of problems, & 'wrist slitting music' is just music...... up to you what way you act out on it, but bad feelings don't help..... I'd say go out with mates, try enjoy yourself (hard I know at this stage) - but staying in wallowing in pity or bad feelings won't make it go away & will cause it to spiral....... best to stay active, go out & just enjoy hanging out with buddies......

CareBear

Originally posted by TheSilverSurfer
ATT MODS: this really should be in Personal Issues.


AS a side note to this, breakup's suck - because being with someone like that means opening yourself to them & possible hurt.... but drinking to get over it creates a whole other series of problems, & 'wrist slitting music' is just music...... up to you what way you act out on it, but bad feelings don't help..... I'd say go out with mates, try enjoy yourself (hard I know at this stage) - but staying in wallowing in pity or bad feelings won't make it go away & will cause it to spiral....... best to stay active, go out & just enjoy hanging out with buddies......

Have to agree SS there. Have friends around you and just go out and have fun. It's better to be around other people at this time

pork99

How about a nice holiday in Bangkok to make you forget your troubles?

beware of the chickboys though

Johnny Versace

Break ups always suck, but in 6 months you won't care about the ex, so try not to worry too much.

Keep yourself busy and do NOT start thinking about how "wonderful" your ex was.

My technique is to sleep with someone else. It always helps take my mind off the ex.

Good luck.

rymus

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
My technique is to sleep with someone else. It always helps take my mind off the ex.

The man's got a point.. that's a time proven method!

As for the JD, make sure it's free of ice and not diluted with something like coke and you'll be grand.

Try not to dwell on the breakup too much, it'll only make you depressed and that aint the right way to go. Do something to take your mind off it. Being around friends is a good way of cheering yourself up.

And yeah, should be in PI

woosaysdan

Originally posted by pork99
How about a nice holiday in Bangkok to make you forget your troubles?

beware of the chickboys though

they'll definately bang your cock!!!

rymus

fifteen dolla... they love you long time

Kastro

seems to me that every1 is breaking up over the last 2 weeks..

myself and herself broke up 2 weeks ago after a year...
my heads wrecked. so i went on the missing list for a while.
travelled a bit..
ok i was drinking at a fest in wexford.. i woke up in belfast.
its all fun tho.
still recovering.


Kas.

Slutmonkey57b

Quick! It's not in PI - post as much abusive spam as you can before it gets moved!

woosaysdan

now thats my kinda session!!!

Johnny Versace

Originally posted by Kastro
seems to me that every1 is breaking up over the last 2 weeks..

myself and herself broke up 2 weeks ago after a year...
my heads wrecked. so i went on the missing list for a while.
travelled a bit..
ok i was drinking at a fest in wexford.. i woke up in belfast.
its all fun tho.
still recovering.


Kas.

Funny, I broke up 2 weeks ago as well.

Not good.

...

Ah well, at least my French flatmate has been keeping my mind off things...!! :cool:

pclancy

jesus i nearly broke up last night as well! WTF is going on?

aidan_dunne

Slap bang in the middle of a broken hearted kind of place myself at the minute. Though, last Friday it was a bottle of Southern Comfort instead of J.D. and wrist-slitting music for me. Feel like hitting the f**king bottle again right now, to be honest.

Actually, where did I put all those paracetemol tablets now, come to think of it?

Don't know what it is, must just be the season for breakups and us fellas getting our hearts broken at the moment, or something.

daveathome_16

nearly broke up myself too
in the last week


weird............................

ShriekingSheet

Originally posted by Kastro
.
travelled a bit..
ok i was drinking at a fest in wexford.. i woke up in belfast.
its all fun tho.

brilliant

Mutz

My Theory:

winter = Time For Couples.

Summer = Peoples minds are on different things -

snoopish

go find someone else , the attention will take your mind off it...

aidan_dunne

Easy for you to say, snoopish. I bet you're not an ugly bastard like myself!

snoopish

:rolleyes: who doesn't think they're ugly???

Dustaz

Cool, loads of new single women. Time to get busy.

snoopish

confident little fella aren't ya:p

Nala

Yeah I'm single 3 weeks now.
It appears to be an epidemic!!!!!!!!!! :eek:

Kastro

i woke up in cavan today how am i gonna get home?

snoopish

hitch hike...you know it's the right thing to do:p

Barbie_666

Originally posted by neev
Yeah I'm single 3 weeks now.
It appears to be an epidemic!!!!!!!!!! :eek:

same as...weird!!!!

Evil_Bilbo

All you have to do is go f*ck one or 2 birds to get you over it.

It may take a bit of time - might not though - if you lay the old "i've just been dumped" wounded animal line on them. Worked for me a coupla times. Good for getting over the sleasy lunatic I went out with and all.

Come to think of it, I've never got so much poon-tang as the first few weeks after I found out my bird had done the dirt. Good cure.

Kastro

ended up goin to a party there.. im home now.. turns out one of my neigbours was there.. sound