"I want her Back" Thread.

LegacyUser

2 days ago a girl i hooked up with only 2 days before who i had known for 3 years before that broke up with me.

When i was with her suddenly everything became awkward and thats why i think she decided to end it. I thought it was just something we had to get past because we knew eachother for so long and i still feel the same way. The one time the awkwardness was gone was on the walk home from the cinema on our first date - at the end of which i didnt kiss her either. All the awkwardness was really my fault and manifested itself in me not kissing her goodbye on the 2 occasions that i should have. Now i feel like that was a big turnoff for her.

I keep telling myself that i can get over it but i still can't help but feel that i blew an oppurtunity with someone who i thought i had really clicked with.

I am so close to texting her to let her no my feelings
but I am reluctant to do anything because how i feel is probably clouding my better judgement. Is it worth my while trying to give it a second go or should i do my best to "get over it" is really whats plagueing my thoughts.

uberwolf

any awkwardness in the future is not going to be made any worse by trying to explain to her whats going on in your head.

She hint she may feel rejected. Thats embarassing for her and will prove the greatest stumbling block for your friendship. So remove the embarassment and in the course of doing that you may get the oppurtunity to try again.

Sleepy

First thing that needs to be answered before anyone can guide you here is your age.

tman

Originally posted by 123456789
I am so close to texting her to let her no my feelings

yeah, that'll help:rolleyes:
as much as i love sending hard to say things via text... now would not be an appropriate time to do so.
arrange to meet her and tell her face to face.
or a phone call if you can't work up the courage to do that. texting your feelings shouldn't even be considered

LegacyUser

Well I texted her asking could we meet up for a chat, i still aint sure what i'm gonna say though. I run the risk of losing her friendship aswell.

LegacyUser

And she just replyed saying she'd meet up with me over the weekend.

This is a glimmer of hope at least, n ow to think of what to say and how to approach it.

LegacyUser

Originally posted by Sleepy
First thing that needs to be answered before anyone can guide you here is your age.

I'm 18

LegacyUser

ahoi, i be meeting her tomorrow, i still don't have it straight in my head what to say but sure hey, tis worth a shot!