Pregnancy

LegacyUser

This a strange question but here it goes. I am new to the whole sex game and have not yet started taking the pill. I had sex last night and asked the guy to wear a condom but the thing is after he came in the condom he spread the contents over my vagina and proceeded to finger me. Yes I should have stopped him but I was lost in the moment and didn't think about it. Strange thing to do I would think. Now today I feel a little more moist than normally after sex and I'm worried that some of the cum may be lingering. I had the idea to cronically masterbate hoping my own juices would wash it out. Daft idea. I was going to start on the pill in 3 weeks time, I took one of them today just incase. My question is what do you think my chances are of getting pregnant? I know he has a child already and his cum was very white which I think means a higher sperm count. Am I worrying for nothing?

keu

*sigh*

if you are genuinely concerned go to your gp, explain the situation.....and request the morning after pill.
dont forget to mention the fact that you have already taken a pill (if you were to start in three weeks time, what are you doing with them?..where did you get them?- confusing)

as far as I am aware, the morning after pill is only valid over 72 hours, so you would have until monday morning to get yourself sorted.

and then go kick your BF in the nuts.
[edit] and may the knobs of all the men reading this and who find it erotic..fall off.

Explosive_Cornflake

Get a morning after pill, it'll save you a lot of worry at the very least. And then try in the future to be a bit more responsible. Sorry to sound condescending but i've had friends who weren't responsible and are paying for it now.

Victor

No offence, but your (both of you) weren't very bright were you? Like what is the condom for in the first place? You should also consider the risk of STIs.

Now depending on how deep he was "fingering" you, I suspect the risk of pregnancy is low - if you had problems getting pregnant and wanted to get pregnant, this isn't the way to go about it. That said, there is some risk.

LegacyUser

I was going to visit my GP today but knew I wouldn't get an appointment.
I'll try on monday. That should be still within the 72 hours. Thanks for that advice I didn't realise it was 72 hours.
I normally am responsible. It was the drinks fault. I blame beer.

do you think there is a chance I'd get pregnant from it?

keu

Now depending on how deep he was "fingering" you, I suspect the risk of pregnancy is low

unfortunately this isn't true. (they travel) one of those little baxtaards might just get lucky. Also depends on her ovulation cycle. If you were late mid-month risk is high, if you are start of your cycle, risk is lower. (up to three/four days after your last period)
(this is natural brith control method-how your parents did it!)

LegacyUser

(if you were to start in three weeks time, what are you doing with them?..where did you get them?- confusing)

period is due in 3 weeks, start taking the pill on the first day

smoke.me.a.kipper

Originally posted by sexNewbie
It was the drinks fault. I blame beer.

that is no excuse.

keu

period is due in 3 weeks, start taking the pill on the first day

in which case you are at the beginning of the cycle, so risk should be low.
but still go and see your gp on monday, i'm sure they will be able to advise you better anyway.
- and try not to worry.

Explosive_Cornflake

Is there not some way to get it before monday, i.e. tomorrow, i remember a friend of mine having to this,and i think his girlfriend had to go to dublin and got one on a sunday. If it was me i'd be jumpiong on the bus. Sooner the better ?

Cake Fiend

If this isn't a troll (yeah, right) then also get yourself a normal boyfriend. As in one who doesn't have some weird cum-spreading fetish. WTF was he doing this for, did he want another kid??

Originally posted by smoke-me-a-kipper
that is no excuse.

That's crap, we've all done stupid things drunk, its very very easy to think 'ah, sure it'll be grand' when you're having fun. This kind of 'advice' doesn't help anyone.

Typedef

I had sex last night and asked the guy to wear a condom but the thing is after he came in the condom he spread the contents over my vagina and proceeded to finger me. Yes I should have stopped him but I was lost in the moment and didn't think about it. Strange thing to do I would think. Now today I feel a little more moist than normally after sex and I'm worried that some of the cum may be lingering. I had the idea to cronically masterbate hoping my own juices would wash it out. Daft idea.

bwhahahahaaaaaaaaa..

haha...

wait a sec...


haha.

Be gone troll... the sun is shining.

ha ha.

Victor

Originally posted by Sico
That's crap, we've all done stupid things drunk, its very very easy to think 'ah, sure it'll be grand' when you're having fun. This kind of 'advice' doesn't help anyone.

No it isn't. While alcohol is a de-inhibitor, it doesn't do so to such an extent that you have no control over yourself. If you do lose control to such an extent, you shouldn't be drinking.

smoke.me.a.kipper

Originally posted by Sico
That's crap, we've all done stupid things drunk, its very very easy to think 'ah, sure it'll be grand' when you're having fun. This kind of 'advice' doesn't help anyone.

yes, everyone does stupid things when drunk. i dont see the point in blaming the drink tho. and it wasnt meant to be 'advice'. it was just a statement. at least the girl in question (and her bf) used a condom in the first place. the part with him rubbing his man juice in her box:eek:, shouldnt have been allowed if she was worried about getting pregnant or an sti (presumably the reason for using the condom in the first place), no matter how drunk you are. thats just probably a very clouded opinion tho.

Suaimhneach

A friend of mine got the morning after pill for 30 euros from a family planning centre. Just go to the nearest one to you. They're generally in every town.

seamus

On the very slim chance that this isn't a troll - your wording suggests that this guy was a one night thing. If you're going to be having one night things, have him wear a condom in addition to the pill. You never know what you'll pick up. Women are far more at risk from STIs than men are.

Could it not wait 3 weeks? If you have that little control over yourself when you're drunk (you obviously can't have been that drunk, since a) You remember exactly what he did, and b) could feel enough to get "lost in the moment" - most people have the desire, but can't feel a thing after 5 or 6 pints), I'd suggest taking stock now.

It's more difficult to get pregnant than people suggest, but this is one area where I approve wholly of scare tactics and overinflated statistics. All you need is to **** up just once, and your entire life gets turned around.

Kêrmêttê

I have to agree with Keu. Get yourself the morning after pill. You MUST take it within 72 hours or it's useless. Also taking it the sooner the better... ie. if you wait until the 70th hour you might just be out of luck depending on your metabolism.
You should be given 2 pills. You take one pill initially and then you take a second one 12 hours later. So make sure you set your alarm clock to wake you up if time for the second pill is gonna be in the middle of the night. Also, this morning after pill WILL make you feel ill. I have had experience of it and its not nice. If you vomit up either of the pills its a waste and definately will not work, so try not to puke.

Taking one single pill from a monthly pack is totally useless. You might as well have eaten a smartie. The pill contains more or less the same combination of hormones that a womans body has when pregnant. So by taking 3 weeks worth of the pill (your regular pack) you are fooling your body into thinking its pregnant. This means your body wont release an egg, therefore no chance of getting pregnant. The 7 day break from pill taking is to allow you to have a regular period but you are still protected because the hormones will remain in ur body for these 7 days. You just have to remember to take the pill again after the 7th "break" day.

Sorry if this sounds a bit lecturey, but I found this out from a very helpful doctor who wasnt even my GP. Some GP's are useless and never give the full info, they seem to just like writing prescriptions and sending you out of their surgery

LegacyUser

First of all this isn't a troll. Secondly my memory is a bit blury and I'm not 100% sure that is what happened, I didn't think that is what he was doing at the time, it is now that I look back on it where the hell did he get all that fluid from straight after he came? I am assuming that is what happened. Although I could be just paranoid. Another thing is that he isn't my boyfriend. I should stop drinking before I get myself killed. 30 euros for the morning after pill? This isn't good. i don't have 30 euros.

I am going to try to forget about it. This could be just my paranoia getting the better of me.

seamus

Originally posted by sexNewbie
I am going to try to forget about it. This could be just my paranoia getting the better of me.

Yeah, just forget about it, and the sperm will say "Ah lads, she doesn't want one just yet, let's head off to the pub instead" :rolleyes:

Good plan

The Corinthian

Originally posted by sexNewbie
Another thing is that he isn't my boyfriend. I should stop drinking before I get myself killed. 30 euros for the morning after pill? This isn't good. i don't have 30 euros.

Try and pretend you’re a responsible adult for a minute. If your only objection to morning after pill is not moral but the €30, then I suggest you beg for or borrow the money. You’ll find it’s cheaper than raising a child.

Of course this advice is not really for your sake, but because I just don’t feel comfortable with someone like you reproducing.

LegacyUser

Of course this advice is not really for your sake, but because I just don’t feel comfortable with someone like you reproducing.

LMAO ok point taken

keu

would be nice to leave the judgments out of this kind of stuff.

LegacyUser

Thanks Keu, you have been very helpfull and reasuring

OLDYELLAR

my frend was in a similar situation , well she coulnt remember anything , but she actually was so worried she went to accident and emergncy at hospital and they gave her the morning after pill only poblem was the hospita bill came to her house because she had to give her details . you could go o A&E and if you have a mate not living at home ask to borow there addess , tthat way your within the 72 hour and have a wile to find 30e.it`l be a little embaressing but jesus like be worth it

simu

30 euros for the morning after pill in this country? Seriously?

seamus

Originally posted by OLDYELLAR
my frend was in a similar situation , well she coulnt remember anything , but she actually was so worried she went to accident and emergncy at hospital and they gave her the morning after pill only poblem was the hospita bill came to her house because she had to give her details . you could go o A&E and if you have a mate not living at home ask to borow there addess , tthat way your within the 72 hour and have a wile to find 30e.it`l be a little embaressing but jesus like be worth it

Jesus.

Embarassment = !worse then your parents finding out. What is a week of slight uncomfortableness(?) compared to an entire lifetime of looking after a child you don't want? Honestly, owning up on anything to your parents is horrible, but every single time I've found that it's easier and more relaxing than trying to hide it from them.

Do it once, and they'll respect you forever more, particularly with something as important as this.

Gordon

Originally posted by Victor
No offence, but your (both of you) weren't very bright were you?

That wasn't very clever was it.

This is NOT a medical board.