Girl problems

LegacyUser

Hi,

I'm 13 years of age and I really like this girl.

I think she likes me because she is all the time flirting with me. The school year just finished (SEcondary) and I finally had the guts to announce that I like her.

I played a game of truth or dare but just truth because it was texting.

When I asked did she like me she said "No, sorry".

But I really think she likes me and her friends say she likes me too.

How do I get her to admit she likes me???

Bye & Thanks

LegacyUser

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passive

i'm inclined to say "beat it out of her" but i'd probably get a warning from the mods or something...

i think this should do:

When I asked did she like me she said "No, sorry".

i don't see much else to it? okay, maybe she's just shy but i don't think there's any simple solution that'll just make her admit it if she's in the game of saying "no, i don't like you"

umm... "hang in there" and "be yourself" and if that fails "there's plenty more fish in the sea"

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maybe this is part of the problem...did you say that to her after you asked? :dunno:

LegacyUser

maybe this is part of the problem...did you say that to her after you asked?


NO, LOL


But she really does like me, I just know it.

Sleepy

Originally posted by BOY
maybe this is part of the problem...did you say that to her after you asked?


NO, LOL


But she really does like me, I just know it.

Kid, you sound like a stalker. Let it go...

KlodaX

ignor her and pretend like you don't care if she likes you or not.

Asok

Don't take sweets from her because she's dirty!

LegacyUser

Please guys, I need help. I have her number and she has mine so I could text her something, any suggestions

KlodaX

My suggestion was serious. Ignor her and .. IF she does actually like you as you say ... let her come to you.

If she does like you ... if you ignor her for long enough she will text you.

LegacyUser

Well I wont be seeing her around, so he phone is the only way of contact, any suggestions for a text ????

LegacyUser

I'm sure some of you posted suggestions last night, but the were lost so please re-post your suggestions.

Thanks

Explain what you mean by "I really like this girl..."
Is it that you think about her night noon and morning and that you are head and heels in love with her?

Or is it just that you think she's cute and you'd like to be shifting her for a while?

I'm not ofay with the mindset of 13 year olds these days but, chillaxe, invite her to do some cool stuff even with your friends and maybe then with her on her own, some cool things that ye both like.
Keep talking and flirting.
Don't make like its the be all and end all that ye are together, if it happens it does, and if it doesn't go for some one else to be honest, it would be her loss.
You're very young and theres no way you'll realise this yet, but what you are concerned about now is only the start!
Couple of more years and you should have had many many more crushes, some of which you might get lucky with.

LegacyUser

Thanks Eathhman.

I really do like her (love), but I am looking for something to text her, no to invite her to anything, just something I could text her.

Sleepy

If you insist on going through with this and possibly traumatizing the girl I suppose we'd better help you out, more for her sake than anything else.

Don't text her anything about you liking her/her liking you etc. This will just scare her.

Send her something humourous, a funny bit of gossip about a mutual friend or something like that. Always send texts like this as questions: that way you're more likely to get a reply and if she doesn't reply, you know to back off.

LegacyUser

Last night there was a "schools out" disco, I was there and so was she, we didnt even talk, what can I do, ever since i've seen her last night I can stop thinking about her, IS THERE ANYTHING THAT I CAN TEXT HER ? please, please please reply, I need all the help i can get!


Thanks & Bye,
BOY

Repli

Dude its obvious shes not interested - get over it

LegacyUser

text her, whats the point?????
You had a chance to talk to her and you didnt--- why not??? (and dont say I dont know what to say-- you do know what to say -- its Hello, how are you,

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and bingo you are talking)
Personally its always better to talk then text, you had a perfect chance.

Major Fact you seem to be missing in your limited logic is " YOU CANT TEXT SOMEONE AND MAKE THEM LIKE YOU"

Play it cool, A hello at the disco would have done the job, next time you see her try hello, if she wants to talk back and is interested she will and take it from there.
Good luck (sounds like you need it)

LegacyUser

Originally posted by BOY
But she really does like me, I just know it.

When I was at school, this guy was saying that about me for 3 years.

banquo

make her jealous. if you see her and her less-pretty friend around together, and no-one else, run up and flirt with the less-pretty friend. let her know what she's missing.

just a suggestion. if all else fails, forget about her completely and concerntrate on becoming a) fit, and b) popular. when hte pendulum swings back around in a year or so, the ball's in your court.

cormie

It's all very false these days. People see emotions as a game to play with. Unfortunately, you may just have to play along with the game.

This usually consists of you acting un-interested because if you text her twice in a row, you're obviously a "stalker" in her oppinion. Take it cool, if you see her, say hello, don't ignore her. Don't make it look like you are really interested if that's the way she wants to play. But do let it be known you like her (that's already been done) if it wasn't you could just give the odd bit of eye contact.

If she is the centre of attention with guys and at a club they are all trying to dance with her, stay away! If she see's that your not interested in dancing with her she will wonder why.

If she thinks she is too good for you, make her think that she is not good enough for you.

It's pathetic.

You could always try the old fashioned approach. Forget the phone and leave it to chance. When you see her next, talk to her, ask her to meet again. Do something nice, go for a walk or what not.

It's not just teenagers either. People of all ages carry on with these stupid games. Good luck with them!


You are only 13, you are more than likely not in love. This is a good thing as if you were actually in love, it would be much more of a hurt than if your not. It's part of growing up, you're hormones are going crazy, take it easy son!

snoopish

um pretending to be uninterested is all very well and good in small doses...us girls get sick of it quickly and move on, so be careful if you feel you must go down that road. NOTE: MIND GAMES SUCK...JUST DON'T!

LegacyUser

OKAY IT TOOK ME A LONG LONG TIME BUT HERES THE FULL REAL STORY:







Hi,

I really really like this girl (love), she's beautiful, I liked her all year.

i live in Ireland and I go to secondary school (1st year), we got our holidays on the 2nd June. We had tests for the last three days of school. On Monday, she was sitting in front of me and she kept on turning around to me when we had time to study, and tallking to me, a siging my pencil case and my bag, on it she said:

******(her name)
waz
ere
(heart)in
S.V.S (someone very special)

also on the Monday, I said some joke to this weird girl in my class, when she said "I think I'm going insane" and I said "I know", the girl that I like started bursting laughing and kept on smiling at me.
That evening I came home and I was sure she liked me, so I texted her (for the first time, she didnt know I had her number), I asked her

"when *****(her friend) said 2day dat u liked me, was she tellin da truth?"

She replied with:
"no sorry"

I was gutted, but I still thought she liked me. I sat in front of her for the Tuesday and the Wednesday and she hardly said anything to me, apart from me and her having an odd word about a test.

Also the last class on the Friday before the tests me, my friend, the girl I like and her friend all played a game of truth or dare together. She was given the dare to grap some-one by the cheeks and say "cuttie, cuttie,cuttie" when she was about to do it to the boy she was suppose to do it to, the bell rang andshe said "crap!" and she said " look I'll do it to ***** (me)" and she did.

A week into our holidays I texted her "wanna play truth or dare" and we played it she told me her top 5, and I wasnt in it.


And just this week there was a "schools out" disco in our town and me and her were at it and she didnt go near me apart from when one of my friends
"****** (her name) will you go with *****(me)" and she said "no".

I have her mobile phone number so is there anything that I can text her?

Does she really like me?

What should I say to her if I see her in person?

Thanks & Bye,
BOY

babyhack

TBH she sees you as a friend and thats about it and the way you are acting is making her run a mile you are scaring her away by pushing the "do you like me thing" just be frineds with her and see if anything comes of that

as for wanting something to TEXT to her as people have said before me just say "HELLO how are you" just be her FRIEND

i had the same thing when i was your age and now she is one of my best friends and i hope always will be and i would never want that to change

13 them where the days wait till you get to 18+ its a big bad world out there and having a close female FRIEND will be a big help

billy the squid

you could ask her friend why she said this girl liked you when she didn't

you need to also find out what she likes and doesnt like that way you might be able to do something that will give her a good impression of you. it might work then again it mightnt. but it is worth a try.