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An Un-given gift for others?

  • 09-05-2004 12:51am
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 463 ✭✭


    i was rumaging around my room today and i found a boxed necklace i had bought for this girl i liked a while ago..

    things didnt go to plan and we fell out....

    i never got the chance to give it to her (long story)..im wondering if i should keep it or not. Like i think i would feel bad about giving it to some other girl if the oppertunity arises....Knowing that it orignally wasnt for her...

    Should i get rid of it?...i know i probably should...but it would be a good waste of money :(

    What you guys think? :confused:


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,983 ✭✭✭✭tuxy


    just give it to a friend explain the story so they dont think your comming on to them


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,154 ✭✭✭Oriel


    Give it to the girl you bought it for.
    No matter how old of a "girlfriend" / "girl friend" she was. Give it to her, and explain why you have it. Simple as that.

    S.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 463 ✭✭Teddi


    we never got to the g/f b/f stage....that in itself is a long story...

    she is currently with somone at the mo!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭spectacleinrock


    Dont give it to her if she's in a relationship with somebody else, you're just asking for trouble if you do that.

    You could sell it, keep it as a reminder of the girl or give to a charity shop or something. Dont give it to anyone you know, jewellery is only nice to receive when there is a meaning behind it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,136 ✭✭✭Superman


    spectacleinrock is right, you dont want to go openin a can of worms!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,309 ✭✭✭Kazu


    im wondering if i should keep it or not. Like i think i would feel bad about giving it to some other girl if the


    Wear it yourself :D:D:D:D:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,048 ✭✭✭Lainey


    def don't give it to her.. give it to friend or sister.. if they like it they won't really care if it wasn't originall for them..

    or you could give it to me.. and i promise no offence would be taken.. ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 463 ✭✭Teddi


    (says in my mind)----> ' alrite im in!!! '


    em...Lainey...em..care....to go to dinner sometime???

    :rolleyes:

    hehe......i know what your saying lainey....but it might make me feel bad...knowing who it was originally for....

    but a friend sounds like a good idea :)

    thanks ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,263 ✭✭✭Caesar_Bojangle


    give it to your sister/female friend/slightly camp male friend for her/his birthday or on some special occasion


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,512 ✭✭✭Sundy


    Originally posted by Teddi
    i was rumaging around my room today and i found a boxed necklace i had bought for this girl i liked a while ago..

    things didnt go to plan and we fell out....

    i never got the chance to give it to her (long story)..im wondering if i should keep it or not. Like i think i would feel bad about giving it to some other girl if the oppertunity arises....Knowing that it orignally wasnt for her...

    Should i get rid of it?...i know i probably should...but it would be a good waste of money :(

    What you guys think? :confused:

    Whats your problem man? Keep it for a rainy day, but keep it well hidden wouldnt want anybody thinkin it was yours!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    do NOT give it to her.
    it wud fluck everything up EVEN MORE between u and the girl, and u and the guy she's going out with now.
    hink of the cool friendship u had with this guy before everything was screwed up. you give her the necklace, no chance getting that friendship back again.

    just give it to a close friend as a thankyou pressie or something


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    you'll just scare her more than u already have!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,048 ✭✭✭Lainey


    if one of my male friends gave me a chain and said they had it for ex but never gave it to her i'd say thanks for giving it to me..

    free jewellery ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,437 ✭✭✭Crucifix


    Give it to the first girl you see, whoever that may be.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 414 ✭✭gsand


    i agree with above-give it to the first random girl you see-the consequences will be amusing-and who knows-could be an interesting way of meeting the girl of your dreams!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    I'd love to try that one. Walk down the street in the middle of the day, maybe go for a coffee or something and just hand it to the first beautiful woman you see...

    It'd be interesting to see how it went!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 463 ✭✭Teddi


    uhh...id wouldnt mind trying that guys but i dont think id have the balls....lol

    i do have an idea who i can give it to...thanks :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 414 ✭✭gsand


    'i do have an idea who i can give it to...thanks'

    is it me?ill do the above random donation and post the results


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,030 ✭✭✭smiaras


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,339 ✭✭✭✭tman


    sell it on ebay... claim it has 'majikal powahs'


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,487 ✭✭✭banquo


    give it to charity. or a mate. I'm a mate, give it to me!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,564 ✭✭✭Typedef


    Originally posted by Teddi
    Like i think i would feel bad about giving it to some other girl if the oppertunity arises....Knowing that it orignally wasnt for her...

    Ahh...

    Machiavelli would be proud.


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