Bit of a problem

Tippex

I think my wife is stalking me she is logging onto websites that I frequent to wreck my head

feylya

www.midgetfetishporn.com tbh

Or else you could just say it to her. Ask her is she following your online activities. She is your wife, you should be honest with each other.

blueeyes

well i do have to have in the back of my with you!

blueeyes

i need eyes in the back of my head with you!

Typedef

Divorce her.

Who does she think she is, making sure you aren't using her credit card to buy more of those *exotic* pictures of animals?

Wimmen's lib huh?

Exit

She can't seem to string a sentence together either.

Seraphina

thats freaky tbh....

The Sweeper

Two options:

1. She's interested in everything you do, and there's nothing sinister.

2. She's an paranoid controlling bitch on wheels who doesn't trust you as far as she could throw you and needs to know absolutely everything you're doing lest you talk to people who aren't on the list of "people who I've approved for Tippex to talk to". She's also doing dodgy stuff herself and wants to see if you know.

Many, many moons ago, my ex-boyfriend used to stalk me on this very bulletin board. He was unemployed (oh, so frequently) and he used to spend hours a day online - the boy ran up £120 - £180 phonebills (IEP kids, not Yoyos, which I then paid) allegedly "surfing jobsites". He then went out and bought a webcam.

I posted a thread on these boards about webcams, disguising my suspicions about his reasoning as one of those "found a mate with a webcam what do you think he's doing with it" sort of threads. Half the boards said webcams were for sexual recreational use only, the other half, thinking me just an interfering friend, told me to get off his case.

The man himself discovered the thread in the process of stalking me and all hell broke loose. I was an untrustworthy blah blah blah blah blah (God I'm bored even thinking about it).

Incidentally, the next time I had sufficient time off work to actually use my own computer, I was searching for a random work file. I decided to click "show hidden files" because I couldn't find the file. And man was THAT an interesting discovery. Pages, upon pages, upon pages, of porn. Women having sex with dogs. Underage bondage. My face photoshopped onto various bodies. The guy had even sat on one of those little fold-out wooden chairs, taken pictures of his genitals, photoshopped his cock so his erection extended past his bellybutton, and traded this MARVELLOUS pic to his webcam friends.

So hey - maybe she's stalking you on the net because she's paranoid about her own use coming to light...

Boston

Originally posted by Minesajackdaniels
Many, many moons ago, my ex-boyfriend used to stalk me on this very bulletin board. He was unemployed (oh, so frequently) and he used to spend hours a day online - the boy ran up £120 - £180 phonebills (IEP kids, not Yoyos, which I then paid) allegedly "surfing jobsites". He then went out and bought a webcam.

I posted a thread on these boards about webcams, disguising my suspicions about his reasoning as one of those "found a mate with a webcam what do you think he's doing with it" sort of threads. Half the boards said webcams were for sexual recreational use only, the other half, thinking me just an interfering friend, told me to get off his case.

The man himself discovered the thread in the process of stalking me and all hell broke loose. I was an untrustworthy blah blah blah blah blah (God I'm bored even thinking about it).

Incidentally, the next time I had sufficient time off work to actually use my own computer, I was searching for a random work file. I decided to click "show hidden files" because I couldn't find the file. And man was THAT an interesting discovery. Pages, upon pages, upon pages, of porn. Women having sex with dogs. Underage bondage. My face photoshopped onto various bodies. The guy had even sat on one of those little fold-out wooden chairs, taken pictures of his genitals, photoshopped his cock so his erection extended past his bellybutton, and traded this MARVELLOUS pic to his webcam friends.

Thats pretty ****ed up, how long where you with that guy before you realised he was insane.

The Sweeper

Hahahahahahaha too long.

Typedef

You just made that up though.

Err, I have pictures of Roswell Aliens for interested parties. Genuine article, reasonable prices.

PM me off list for discount.





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Gordon

Am I right in assuming that blueeyes is your wife Tippex? Or was that a troll.

The Sweeper

Originally posted by Typedef
You just made that up though.

If that was directed at me, the REALLY sad thing is: no, no I didn't.

Boston

In fairnes typedef it hardly protrays majd in a good light.

The Sweeper

Yeah, to be fair I was going through a "stupid and blind" phase. I don't need to make up things about my ex. I mean, why supplement the already unbelievable?

If you want to know for yourself, try searching old posts on this board under "Jockey Spollix" or "Daftbeggar" to see if he was a likeable human being.

sceptre

Originally posted by Minesajackdaniels
If you want to know for yourself, try searching old posts on this board under "Jockey Spollix" or "Daftbeggar" to see if he was a likeable human being.

Oooh, that's a bit weird. Not good weird either.

<pedant>And TC got the movie wrong - the one with Baldwin acting the weirdo with the cameras isn't Flatliners - it's Sliver, which was even crappier than Flatliners. I had an exGF who once went to see it with an ex. He thought it was great. She dumped him. Less for enjoying the stalking idea and more for having crap taste I suspect.</pedant>

senordingdong

Originally posted by Tippex
I think my wife is stalking me she is logging onto websites that I frequent to wreck my head

I'd give her a roundhouse kick and dislocate her hip to put her back in her place.

Not that im promoting spousal abuse...its just that sometimes they deserve it.

Gordon

Originally posted by senordingdong
I'd give her a roundhouse kick and dislocate her hip to put her back in her place.

Not that im promoting spousal abuse...its just that sometimes they deserve it.

And does that philosophy tend to work for you dingdong?

senordingdong

Originally posted by Gordon
And does that philosophy tend to work for you dingdong?

No...not yet.
But when it does....HELLO!

Chinafoot

Originally posted by Minesajackdaniels
Yeah, to be fair I was going through a "stupid and blind" phase. I don't need to make up things about my ex. I mean, why supplement the already unbelievable?

If you want to know for yourself, try searching old posts on this board under "Jockey Spollix" or "Daftbeggar" to see if he was a likeable human being.

i can back up the psychotic tendencies of daftbeggar, and i only knew him for a short while.

as for the stalking wife, i'd confront her. and i'd say dont buy any puppies if u live in an upstairs apartment.

Mercury_Tilt

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TwoShedsJackson

I look forward to hearing more on Friday majd

uberwolf

Originally posted by Mercury_Tilt
Now thats some fuked up sh1t right there.

....... disturbing.....

nah I reckon she should be flattered, all the choice in the world and still wants ur face...
love IMO.

Beruthiel

Originally posted by uberwolf
nah I reckon she should be flattered, all the choice in the world and still wants ur face...
love IMO.

uberwolf
think before you post please
B

The Sweeper

But to whip the sorry carcass of this thread back towards being on topic...

I think that if someone is stalking you in such a way that they trail you around the internet, there's something very control-freak about it.

Original poster, did you ever discuss this with your missus after your first post?

LegacyUser

Originally posted by Minesajackdaniels
...She's also doing dodgy stuff herself and wants to see if you know.

This sounds more like it, from what ive seen with ex's and stuff in the past, the ones
who act suspicious and start stalking ya seem to be the ones who are up to
something themselves and will try and find out if their other half is doing the same
so they can justify it..

An ex of mine used to always check my mobile to see who I had been calling when
she wasnt around.. one day she needed to send an e-mail so I logged her onto
my e-mail account as she didnt have one herself.. i left the room to get a cuppa and
when I came back there she was reading all my mails.. I asked her what she was
doing, she said deadly serious that she was just making sure..

Turned out that about a year later I found out that she had be shagging half the
town behind my back, married guys, the works.. whoever it was she had done them
or another, if she had been charging, she would have made a fortune..

Anyway, back on topic..

Confront her with it and see what she says.. the usual reaction is to get all
defensive and try to walk away, then you know there is more than likely something going on... or else you could try setting up some sort trap for her to see what she
gets up to.. im sure one of the more technical guys could suggest something such
as a key logger, etc to see what she does when youre not around..

Walls

Have a conversation with the misses. If she is indeed stalking you it will be a point of mortification with her and there should be an opportunity for some straight talking. Maybe she's right to, who knows? But either way neither of your "sunflowers is stretching towards truth's light", so to speak. :rolleyes:

And Missy Jackdaniels, so sorry you had to go through that. But sadly not a bit surprised; the more you underestimate the perversity of folk, the more they pay you back for your error.....:(

Gordon

What a nice phrase Walls.

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Originally posted by .......
... or else you could try setting up some sort trap for her to see what she
gets up to.. im sure one of the more technical guys could suggest something such
as a key logger, etc to see what she does when youre not around..

erm I wouldn't advise that here tbh.