Major pyscho women freaking me out

Draupnir

The story starts in October, I broke up with someone after 3 years so I was rather hurt and had an enjoyable rebound period which led me to sleep with this girl from college and work a few times, which was fun. The thing is she has turned into a pyscho.

All her friends are convinced that Im her boyfriend, even though I havent seen her in two months and they keep coming over to me in college and telling me she was saying stuff bout me and how great I am to her??Shes mad.

All my mates love this and whenever they see her friends and Im not around they talk to them and try to build up this crazy story!!! Final point is, she is texting me daily, demanding to know why I dont call her enough, why I wont call up to her enough, why I dont text her and the worst of all, she reckons her friend saw me with "another" girl last weekend in town!!!

Im gettin a bit freaked out here and yes I have told her that I aint interested and that we never were involved. Ive told her friends that too but they seem to think Im joking.

Lafortezza

Meet up with her, sit her down, explain how it was a once off "bit of fun", that you are not going out with her, that you don't want to go out with her, and that she has the wrong ideaa baout you, as do her friends.

Tell your own mates to cop on and stop stirring the shit, as you're slightly worried about the whole situation.

No pleasant but better than current situation, btw was she worth it?

Draupnir

Indeed she was, about the only reason why I havent had a public shouting match with her, just in case I wanna go back there ya know

Bicky

This happens to everyone at some stage. Just ignore her and her friends.
Only thing you need to worry about is if she actually goes pyscho and cuts your limbs off with a chainsaw or something. I would say thats unlikely though.

Draupnir

I hope thats unlikely, think it is. Im just glad I dont have a rabbit, for its sake!

ando

Originally posted by Bicky
she actually goes pyscho and cuts your limbs off with a chainsaw or something. I would say thats unlikely though.

ya think
:eek:

The Corinthian

rymus

ahh nuts.. I was just gonna make a bunny boiler remark

Yes, weve all had our bunny boilers to deal with; some more than others. My advice would be.. start wearing a false moustache & glasses set to college.

Victor

Originally posted by Draupnir
Indeed she was, about the only reason why I havent had a public shouting match with her, just in case I wanna go back there ya know

Well I think you need to make that decision sooner rather than later.

I also think you need to admit to yourself that she was the rebound girl and **perhaps** tell her you might have led her on.

Draupnir

Yeah, I know, youre like the good angel on my shoulder man, but the thing is, she was good in bed and is kinda useful after stuff like Rag Balls and Xmas Balls ya know what I mean.

However, I cant get any other women at all around college cos her mates keep coming over and spoiling my chances.

Ronaldo7

Originally posted by lafortezza
Meet up with her, sit her down, explain how it was a once off "bit of fun", that you are not going out with her, that you don't want to go out with her, and that she has the wrong ideaa baout you, as do her friends.

Tell your own mates to cop on and stop stirring the shit, as you're slightly worried about the whole situation.

No pleasant but better than current situation, btw was she worth it?

Im sorry but F U C K THAT!!!!!!

Call her up and tell her to **** off. What a stupid bitch...i cant believe this is bothering you.

Victor

Originally posted by Draupnir
, she was good in bed and is kinda useful after stuff like Rag Balls and Xmas Balls ya know what I mean.

Hang on, you are still "using" her? And you thing this makes her the psycho one?

Mocking Burd

Are you sure that it's her - and not her mates and yours just stirring things up for a laugh?

androphobic

if you slept with her once, i doubt she'd have thought much more of it (okay she might have hoped for more but that's about all...)

but sleeping with a girl on several different occasions over a period of time would make most girls thing you care about her. sorry but it would. because...(this is me trying to get into her mind here )... if you didn't like her, why would you bother going back to her... you could just go score someone else instead... going back time and time again indicates there's something there, so whether you like it or not, that's obviously the impression she took from it and ya can hardly blame her.

like personally i try not to sleep with the same guy twice unless he's my boyfriend!! because i'd be afraid he'd get the wrong impression and think i was coming back for a reason other than an easy lay.
(disclaimer: i realise she may well be a psycho and there might be other factors to consider here, just commenting on how i think her mind might be working... )

- andro

the_syco

[edit] Must remember not to post when I'm drunk [/edit]

Doodee

Originally posted by Draupnir
Yeah, I know, youre like the good angel on my shoulder man, but the thing is, she was good in bed and is kinda useful after stuff like Rag Balls and Xmas Balls ya know what I mean.

However, I cant get any other women at all around college cos her mates keep coming over and spoiling my chances.

Your stringing her along so no wonder she thinks that theres something.

not only that, but maybe the fact that you cant get any other women in college is the reason u keep going back to her and not because "her mates keep coming over and spoiling my chances.".

Jesus, she is a person and not just some play thing.

Draupnir

Hey folks, thanks for the advice, I rang her last night and explained the situation to her. She gets the picture now, think she didnt realise it was just a rebound thing.

TacT

Are there many more of these psycho women around?
They could all be psycho? Or you could just put your cards out on the table the way you want to play them beforehand; I predict your psycho woman/women problem will be no more then.