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Relationships

  • 25-02-2004 10:13am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Everyone around me seems to be in relationships, can just find girlfriend, if that doesn’t work find another one and another (or boyfriend after boyfriend). Some friends bitch about searching for “meaningful relationships, I just look for some kind of relationship yet can’t seem to find any. Always thought it was because I lived in a rural area but now I’ve been in college since September and still the same.


Comments

  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    stop looking and get on with your life
    that's when someone will likely pop up


  • #3
    hedgetrimmer
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,070 ✭✭✭hedgetrimmer


    Exactly as Beruthiel said - if you are looking actively, perhaps you are looking for the wrong reasons. Work on becoming happy with yourself, become stronger, and people will come to you. It always happens when you least expect it.


  • #4
    chill
    Closed Accounts Posts: 576 ✭✭✭chill


    Excellent advice above... stop 'looking' and get on with life in college.

    But you need to put yourself about... get involved in some clubs, society, groups etc. that will get you out of the library/lecture hall and mix you with people/women.

    Then it will just 'happen'.

    Couple of thing though, just in case ....

    - Make sure you're not putting out 'blocking' vibes, like looking unhappy all the time, looking unapproachable. When you get lonely it's easy to look like that and it DOES transmit itself to others.

    - If YOU look like you're enjoying life then THAT is one of the biggest magnets there is. I promise you.


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