When to go for the kizz!?

tte

Been out on three 'dates' with a woman, went well she suggested the second i originally asked her out and were due to go out on Monday.
Point bein, even though shes accepting me asking her out she aint at all flirty with me...it cant be good?
Had this conversation with a friend today, she reckons that she may really like me and explain whats has or hasnt been happening..i dunno it seems a bit odd.
Think she's waiting me to make a move, to the female members if you like a guy and you want him to kiss you surely you'll flirt with him?
Think i should go for it even if she doesnt give me the signs?
Whats the worse thing that can happen?
Tips needed lads

annabegins

I say go for it..........either two things will happen
1) she'll be glad you made the move, maybe she's a bit shy and has gone on the defensive.
2) She'll act all awkward and not take it too well.

Either way you'll find out what she thinks of you and it'll stop wrecking your head so much. Also, if she's not that keen and shows as much when you kiss her, it means that you'll have wasted less time wrecking your head, less money and less stress over a girl that's not worth it.

Ang

tinkerbell

Go for it and kiss her. It may be that she's ultra shy and really likes you, and so will not make the first move coz she may be afraid of rejection.

Anyways, tiz pretty obvious she wants to go out with you, she asked to go out with you the second time, so ya must've been doin somethin good there

tte

Think ill go for it lads....just if i go for it and i get the cheek what do i do then....drop €40 and say thats for my half of the meal?!

Agent Smith

thats what i would do anyway

Töpher

Will teach that bítch some respect!

Or you could just take it in your stride and get on with the meal. Food good!

Kell

Originally posted by tte
i get the cheek what do i do then....

In the immortal words of Colm Meaney in The Snapper, something like "I suppose a rides out of the question" might be appropriate.

K-

The Corinthian

Irish girls will tend not to initiate first kisses unless drunk. They will however try to make it blatantly obvious that they want to be kissed by positioning their faces right in front of you in a “come and get it” kind of way.

Chucky

JUST DO IT MAN. You shouldn't have to post that type of question up here. if she found out about this your dates with that woman would end. Stop procrastinating and just do it. Take a shot of whiskey beforehand if it will get you in the mood

Originally posted by The Corinthian
Irish girls will tend not to initiate first kisses unless drunks.

all the girls I've been with have initiated the first kiss. I don't really find irish girls to be shy when it comes to these type of things

Sarky

My ex, before we became an item, took to wearing a "kiss me!" badge.

I completely failed to pick up on this.

Lesson- Stop being even that subtle, girls.

Beruthiel

Originally posted by Sarky
I completely failed to pick up on this.

Lesson- Stop being even that subtle, girls.

perhaps you just need glasses sarky...

Sarky

Originally posted by Beruthiel
perhaps you just need glasses sarky...

Kharn, just because you're ten feet tall doesn't mean you can tell me what to do...

Sleepy

Negotiate your way into place and make the move. That simple really..

Doodee

When the moment arises just ask or go in slowly (and to the left). The signs are there, but that doesn't always means they are right.

Samson

Originally posted by Sarky
Kharn, just because you're ten feet tall doesn't mean you can tell me what to do...

Huh?


Is there something you are not telling us Anna?

Typedef

Originally posted by tte
When to go for the kizz!?

Preferably when the two of you have consumed drink (lots of), so a) it's more likely to suceed and b) if the two of you decide it was a bad idea, you can blame it on being drunk!


Otherwise... you could always take her for a walk in the park... and 'suggest' going on a ... hedgerow wildelife scouting session.

/grin\

Caesar_Bojangle

Honestly, I'd be very reluctant to go on a third date with a girl if I hadn’t kissed her at least once on the previous dates. The longer you leave it, the more awkward it'll become.

blondie83

Go for it! Go out to a club, go to the couches where everyone is just sitting down being with each other (ah fond memories of the palace!), and then make the move. I've never initiated the first kiss, alwayss waited for the guy to do it, I think most girls are like that and do leave it up to the guy!

Mossy Monk

Originally posted by blondie83
I think most girls are like that and do leave it up to the guy!

my downfall on many an occasion. why dont women do as they please?

blondie83

my downfall on many an occasion. why dont women do as they please?

because we're all very shy when it comes to stuff like that! (I mean "he likes me, he likes me not" stuff)

uberwolf

Originally posted by blondie83
(ah fond memories of the palace!), and then make the move.

I was back in the palace on fri evening,.

Bring her there!! teh karma of teh place even if its changes superficially will gaurantee success!!!

btw. give her the tongue, no point messing around.

loismustdie

if you have to ask the question 'when to kiss him/her' then the time hasn't came yet - if it's right it will happen naturally otherwise