"want to get to know you much more"

LegacyUser

Ok, someone sends you an X-Mas card and writes that they "want to get to know you much more". What am I suppose to understand by that?

Beruthiel

Originally posted by Hmm2003
Ok, someone sends you an X-Mas card and writes that they "want to get to know you much more". What am I suppose to understand by that?

more information would help

are you a bloke, was it a girl who sent you the card?
or visa versa...

bugler

/me adopts Homer Simpson whisper: I THINK THEY LIKE YOU.

It means they want to spend time with you, and probably don't have a strictly platonic arrangement in mind. Now seeing as you gave a minimum of information you'll have to do the rest on your own...

Thorbar

That whoever sent you the card has a weak grasp of grammar.

moridin

Sounds like someone wants in your pants tbh

Lex_Diamonds

Yep, sounds like its on. And dont say it was from your Aunt, please?

LegacyUser

Original user here. Well I had a long topic-starter typed and then forgot to include a username so lost my message.

Yeah it was a girl. She also wrote lot of stuff about how she hoped I would be more confident in the future, that she thought I could offer a lot of good stuff to everyone (that particular bit had me confused)....

Lex, not my Aunt, sorry to dissapoint.

Beruthiel

in that case, it's as plain as the nose on your face, she's interested in you big time!

tba

Yes but is he interested?

Thats the real question.

mr_angry

Go with the flow. If you find you don't like it, back out at a later date. For now, see where it leads...

LegacyUser

I am interested. I dream about her. .
But nor do I want to mess up our friendship by misreading the card.
Couldn’t she just be one of those really touchy people who sends this kind of things to everyone?

yellum

When I say to someone "I want to get to know you more" it means I want to spend time with them and if we really start to click we'll get it on.

She stated "much more" so well it sounds to me like she'd initiating the whole courting ritual.

I dream about her

Tell her that, she'll probably love to hear that, unless the dreams of her are something out of debbie does dallas.

smiaras

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Kell

Originally posted by Hmm2003
What am I suppose to understand by that?

You're supposed to understand that she wants into your pants asap and that she doesnt mind giving head, hence the reference to you being more confident in future.

K-



There should be an icon on the list for mischevious grins. Pfft

Pffft...who cares what she wrote on your christmas card?

If you want to get with the girl then just make a move - and DONT tell her you have big soggy wet dreams about her or anything freaky like that, just make your move and find out whether she likes you or not.

If she doesn't, big deal..get over it - but if she does, great! It's not like posting here was going to change anything. Or was this one line on a christmas card some sort of decision making thing? ugh...

Kell

In hindsight, the confidence thing might refer to you being more confident in makin a move to get into her knickers.

K-

Mutant_Fruit

I tend to agree with kell. This girl seems to like you, and seems to be interested in getting to know you better.

Invite her to the cinema, and half way through, yawn, stretch up your arms, and then just happen to put it down again, around her neck/waist. Then lean closer to her and whisper in her ear.... I want to get in your knickers. Then see what happens...



EDIT: I'd probably advise just inviting her to the cinema, she might get freked out if you do the rest....

Originally posted by Mutant_Fruit
I tend to agree with kell. This girl seems to like you, and seems to be interested in getting to know you better.

Invite her to the cinema, and half way through, yawn, stretch up your arms, and then just happen to put it down again, around her neck/waist. Then lean closer to her and whisper in her ear.... I want to get in your knickers. Then see what happens...



EDIT: I'd probably advise just inviting her to the cinema, she might get freked out if you do the rest....

LOL

Beruthiel

utility
please try to refrain from making 'lol' comments only
B

hedgetrimmer

5 word solution


TALK TO HER ABOUT IT

DONT spill your guts though...FOR GOD SAKE DONT DO IT or you will repel this girl as though you have never repelled a girl before. Just make a move!

Thorbar

For what I'm sure is going to be a rare occasion I agree with utility_ here, go for it buddy.

Mutant_Fruit

Trust me, get yourselves to a secluded area (not too secluded, just in case you turn out to have gotten the wrong idea, but thats unlikely) and providing your not too shy (like me) make a few comments along the lines that i like her, and se how she responds.

If she kinda moves away, then its a bad sign, if she moves closer, or starts payig more attention, you're on a winner. Please remember, not all people kiss on the first "date". Just talk, if the moment occurs, give her a kiss.

For example, if you think its going well, you could try the following. Once you think she is interested in you, suddenly realise that you have to go visit your grannies or something (no need to tell her where), and as you get up to leave, give her a quick kiss (cheek would probably be safest). When thats done, just go. Then leave your phone on and wait.

Sleepy

Just ask her out, if you're too scared to do it face to face, send a text inviting her to something coupley like Salsa dancing or something. Believe me, it's a lot more fun to do those kinds of things than you'd think and you'll get your chance!

sceptre

Originally posted by Hmm2003
Ok, someone sends you an X-Mas card and writes that they "want to get to know you much more". What am I suppose to understand by that?

Assuming she doesn't work for the FBI or the infernal revenue...

Originally posted by hedgetrimmer
TALK TO HER ABOUT IT

^what he said

planck2

make a move, suggest going for a quiet drink, get my logic

LegacyUser

dude!?!?! SCORE!!! give her one from the lads

embraer170

Original user here again.
Well since getting back after the Christmas hols she's been totally distant

LegacyUser

Original poster here. Thanks for your replies everyone.