a poll for the women!

lili · 08-12-2003 3:04pm #1

well, i noticed polls on the girls appareance, but us the women, don't have the same criterias for the men.
so, what is the first quality a man should have to be attractive in your opinion?

red vex · 08-12-2003 3:23pm

2 liars already

women only like to think that they prefer intellegence and humour over muscles and charm

BigDaddyKone · 08-12-2003 3:32pm

indeed. i only care about personality- farkin lies

Trojan · 08-12-2003 3:44pm

Yet Another Pointless Poll. Which type of attraction and when? And it's gotta be "all of the above". And also, more important: which type of physique do they prefer - built or "skinny-muscular"?

ixoy · 08-12-2003 3:48pm

Impossible to pick one. I want an intelligent guy but if he's been hit with the ugly stick then he's not gonna attract me. And vice versa. And some of us men might wanna vote in this poll too y'know you bleedin' exclusionist. I'm suing.

jesus_thats_gre · 08-12-2003 3:50pm

Originally posted by ixoy
Impossible to pick one. I want an intelligent guy but if he's been hit with the ugly stick then he's not gonna attract me. And vice versa. And some of us men might wanna vote in this poll too y'know you bleedin' exclusionist. I'm suing.

Would it be fair to call you a feminist?

catspring · 08-12-2003 4:56pm

really can't choose only one.
he would ideally be a combination of all options ('cept am not a big fan of obviously muscular men...)

giggles · 08-12-2003 5:28pm

Luckily my (ideal) man has a mix of these qualites, but if I had to pick an order it would be:

1. humor
2. charm
3. intelligence
4. muscles and appareance

quank · 08-12-2003 5:36pm

if i was a woman, i would pick humour

tba · 08-12-2003 5:38pm

Originally posted by quank
if i was a woman, i would pick humour

Why? are you an ugo?

Kalina · 08-12-2003 6:04pm

All of the options rolled into one man would be nice. Looks, a good body, a decent sense of humour and even a moderate amount of intelligence are all important, though not in that order.

skittishkitten · 08-12-2003 6:29pm

The FIRST thing to get my attention is a nice ass .... I like a well built man .... tall , nicely muscled but not body builder type , I'd go for a slightly overweight man before I would a thin man. A self confident attitude will hold my attention better than one that unsure and hesitant .

However after first glance if they don't have intellegence and a sense of humor then it's not worth my time. Charm is nice but it can be severly decieving and dishonest . I would be extremely suspicious of a man trying to charm me .

I LOVE long hair on a man if it is clean and well kept , but I'd go for a short haired or bald man just as easily .

But at first glance .....gotta be a nice ass

sceptre · 08-12-2003 6:52pm

I have a really nice ass - girlies tell me that all the time.

Just thought I'd mention and all that

hey - I may not get another opportunity to mention it

Lump · 08-12-2003 6:54pm

I'm ugly.... or so I'm told all the time.

John

lili · 08-12-2003 7:13pm

Originally posted by Lump
I'm ugly.... or so I'm told all the time.

John

it's not that importante.:)

for my part, my eyes can be attracted by a good looking guy but i doubt my heart could be caught just for a question of appareance.
i'm more sensitive to the charm or the intelligence.

The Second · 08-12-2003 7:29pm

I'm a sucker for a charmer ... but thats only on first appearance ...

the keeper is humour ... without humour you're nothing.

.. and intelligence is what keeps me interested.

muscles is an added bonus.

The Second · 08-12-2003 7:32pm

intelligence is intriguing

.. but I can't stress humour enough.

ferdi · 08-12-2003 7:35pm

Originally posted by ixoy
Impossible to pick one. I want an intelligent guy but if he's been hit with the ugly stick then he's not gonna attract me. And vice versa. And some of us men might wanna vote in this poll too y'know you bleedin' exclusionist.

no. the original poster is looking for womens opinions on what women find attractive in men. what men find attractive in men is another thread.

ferdi · 08-12-2003 7:39pm

Originally posted by The Second
intelligence is intriguing

.. but I can't stress humour enough.

most of the girls i come accross have a stupid inane "phobie from Friends" sense of humour which i refuse to adopt for the sake of trying to get with chicks. and its not like i'm hang out with 14 year olds, i'm in 1st year college.

The Beer Baron · 08-12-2003 9:07pm

Intelligence is bottom of the pile I see.
Is that because you all want somebody thick?
Or you just want someone not as intelligent as you to feel better than?

I'm going to assume also, that a lot of you already have boyfriends-
are they a bit...eeeh...dim?

skipn_easy · 09-12-2003 12:33am

I'd definitely be looking for someone intelligent first, sense of humour next, looks and finally charm. If the guy has nothing to say to me then I'm just not interested. But nice eyes are a must.

Karl Hungus · 09-12-2003 2:28am

Poft...

They say sense of humour is a turn on, abd this poll might agree, but you dont see crowds of women lining up to date Ken Dodd, now do you?

Puck · 09-12-2003 2:33am

Isn't he dead?

You left out money by the way, or as the gold-diggers like to call it "ambition". :rolleyes:

skittishkitten · 09-12-2003 3:31am

Originally posted by The Beer Baron
Intelligence is bottom of the pile I see.
Is that because you all want somebody thick?

No No ...Intellegence was second ..... ass , intellegence , humor, then charm .... as for "thick" *drool* yea "thick" is delicously nice ....... Or was that refering back to intellegence instead of size

][cEMAN** · 09-12-2003 8:11am

Oooooh definately a great six pack. Gotta love that. And maybe a cute butt, oooh oooh and can fill out his jeans. No wait - looks like Brad Pitt, NO! Johnny Depp, NO, george clooney (I like them old and peppery).....oh wait I can't decide.......

.....but I do know Humour masks true emotion, intelligence is relative and often accounted to people who don't have it, and charm is an age old misconception of what a guy uses to get you in the sack ie. It's lies wrapped up in shiney paper with a bow on top!!

<edit> Noticed something you *AHEM* women left out -- Honesty and/or integrity. That would be nice wouldn't it now?</edit>

The Second · 09-12-2003 10:33am

Honesty and/or integrity

that wasn't on the list of things to pick from

Pinkchick03 · 09-12-2003 1:32pm

I like intelligence and humour but most of all i like a nice ass and nice cosy huggy man! (Just like my own;) )

lili · 09-12-2003 1:57pm

oops!
i forgot the kindness!
a man, a true one, must be gentle. personately i can't stand the macho type.

woosaysdan · 09-12-2003 3:38pm

Originally posted by The Beer Baron
Intelligence is bottom of the pile I see.
Is that because you all want somebody thick?
Or you just want someone not as intelligent as you to feel better than?

I'm going to assume also, that a lot of you already have boyfriends-
are they a bit...eeeh...dim?

they dont want us men been intelligent so when thet say they are right all the time the dumb men will believe them:)

skittishkitten · 09-12-2003 4:01pm

Originally posted by woosaysdan
they dont want us men been intelligent so when thet say they are right all the time the dumb men will believe them:)

Really ?? I've heard it said " the more you screw men the stupider they get .".......... you'd think men would enjoy being stupid

lili · 09-12-2003 4:05pm

Originally posted by skittishkitten
Really ?? I've heard it said " the more you screw men the stupider they get .".......... you'd think men would enjoy being stupid

hehe:p

Peace · 09-12-2003 4:16pm

Alas - i saw it was for women and yet i clicked on it and read it....

lili · 09-12-2003 4:19pm

Originally posted by Peace
Alas - i saw it was for women and yet i clicked on it and read it....

did i make an error in the title?

Cake Fiend · 09-12-2003 9:52pm

Finally, women blatanly admit what it is they're all really looking for.

tba · 10-12-2003 1:07pm

isnt that abuse of power?

Hagar · 10-12-2003 1:18pm

Women are very fickle.

I recently swapped my six pack for a beer belly and they all f**cked off.

woosaysdan · 10-12-2003 1:59pm

Originally posted by skittishkitten
Really ?? I've heard it said " the more you screw men the stupider they get .".......... you'd think men would enjoy being stupid

i never heard of that before but i wouldnt mind been stupid if that was the case!:)

Sarky · 10-12-2003 2:08pm

I wondered why I felt so intelligent...

lili · 10-12-2003 3:20pm

gentlemen,
i would like you stop to considere women darker than they are:)

Trojan · 10-12-2003 3:40pm

Originally posted by lili
gentlemen,
i would like you stop to considere women darker than they are:)

Women are just as dark as men are (only more open about it when they think we can't hear).

Al.

lili · 10-12-2003 3:49pm

hmm...
me think you judge us in a wrong way. in fact, we are angels:)

Trojan · 10-12-2003 3:52pm

Originally posted by lili
hmm...
me think you judge us in a wrong way. in fact, we are angels:)

lol sure, now we know for a fact you're just plain lying

lili · 10-12-2003 3:55pm

dooh!
i never lie:mad:

][cEMAN** · 10-12-2003 4:22pm

The thing about angels is that they tend to fall, and when they fall, you REALLY don't want to be anywhere near them!! They are evil!

<Insert equation to prove women are evil> hehehe

Yes men are too, but it's not like we're intentionally evil, it just happens to work out nicely that way through our own clumbsy stupidity

lili · 10-12-2003 4:29pm

Originally posted by ][cEMAN**
The thing about angels is that they tend to fall, and when they fall, you REALLY don't want to be anywhere near them!! They are evil!

<Insert equation to prove women are evil> hehehe

Yes men are too, but it's not like we're intentionally evil, it just happens to work out nicely that way through our own clumbsy stupidity

ah!
maybe you have the answer.
actually, us, women, are evil intentionally (for the fun) but you, the men, are evil by nature.

skittishkitten · 10-12-2003 5:00pm

I'm not evil , I'm female and I'm a total angel , men worship the ground I walk on , crawling after me whimpering for attention . And if they don't I simply beat them until they see things my way

Absolute Angel , yes sir , that's me

Amz · 11-12-2003 1:37am

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