what is normal for guys?

LegacyUser · 30-11-2003 11:59pm #1

OK, my question is for guys. This is a serious question, so please only post relevant/truthful answers, thanks.

What is normal amount for a guy to orgasm (as in amount of times per day)? I just want to know if my performance is normal.

Been with my girlfriend for a good while and I enjoy sex with her very much, both of us are fairly horny (because we only see each other on weekends). Even so I usually only orgasm about once per day? Is that normal?

Would like other guys comments, in particular people with steady partners appose too one night stands.

mr_angry · 01-12-2003 12:10am

Depends what you're into. If its tantric sex, then once is more than enough (literally). More than 10 is probably bad, whatever your preference.

pigeonbutler · 01-12-2003 12:16am

I went to see spin the bottle the other day with a girl who'd be my girlfriend if we didn't live 80 miles apart. But anyway I came twice during that 90 mins. But then i hadn't been with her, or anyone else for that matter, in ages. Everybody's different i suppose.

tman · 01-12-2003 12:23am

really?
i'm not 100% convinced. tbh tbh

/edit
ah for facks sake, i was trying to reply to a threaqd in AA:rolleyes:
boards + achymehole don't mix:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

anyway, once is plenty as long as you're hitting the right buttons.

Lex_Diamonds · 01-12-2003 1:45am

Originally posted by pigeonbutler
I went to see spin the bottle the other day with a girl who'd be my girlfriend if we didn't live 80 miles apart. But anyway I came twice during that 90 mins. But then i hadn't been with her, or anyone else for that matter, in ages. Everybody's different i suppose.

LOL, tell me the cinema, screen, aisle number etc. I really dont want a nasty surprise.

Robbo · 01-12-2003 8:25am

Originally posted by pigeonbutler
I went to see spin the bottle the other day with a girl who'd be my girlfriend if we didn't live 80 miles apart. But anyway I came twice during that 90 mins. But then i hadn't been with her, or anyone else for that matter, in ages. Everybody's different i suppose.

The sight of Rats in full stage getup is that "persuasive"? Blimey.

Kell · 01-12-2003 12:47pm

Hmmn. You might be horny, but does your GF really really turn you on? I've been with people in the past where once was enough, then fall asleep and others were its been a case of "ah FFS. Will ya switch it off down there. I want some sleep".

Lots of things inc. state of mind, health, nerves and everything else can affect how many times you're up for it. If you're GF is up for experimenting and doing her best to turn you on you may go more often than once a day/night.

K-

uberwolf · 01-12-2003 3:39pm

even if i was tired once in the evening, once in the morning would be standard. When the oppurtunity arises (i.e dirty wknd) 4 or 5 times would be closer to it. But I've wondered that as well sometimes, up allnight shagging etc...

Emboss · 01-12-2003 3:54pm

whatever suits yourself....

the most i did in 1 session was 9...but it was over about 15 hour period...

(yes my arm was knackered har har)

Wolf · 02-12-2003 11:45am

At the end of the day if your happy coming once a day thats fine. For a girl as long as shes getting enough tmie I dont think she really cares.

However, if you are say you can't cum more than once a day I personally would go to the Doc and get it check out, might be a prostate problem.

chill · 03-12-2003 2:25am

Originally posted by curious_orange
Been with my girlfriend for a good while and I enjoy sex with her very much, both of us are fairly horny (because we only see each other on weekends). Even so I usually only orgasm about once per day? Is that normal?

Sounds bloddy normal to me !

We can't be rutting animals all the time, especially when we are in steady relationships.

My advice: Please don't start off on a very wrong foot by measuring yourself or the relationship by this yardstick (no pun intended ..)
If you are happy together, enjoy each other's company and sexual company, and if you don't suffer any major erection issues then it sounds like you are in a damned cool situation.

Be happy.

chill · 03-12-2003 2:26am

Originally posted by Wolf
However, if you are say you can't cum more than once a day I personally would go to the Doc and get it check out, might be a prostate problem.

I could be wrong but it sounded more like once in a 'session' .. ?

oneweb · 03-12-2003 11:11am

Um, cumming and having an orgasm are not one and the same. The guy asked about orgasms.

patch · 03-12-2003 2:55pm

Originally posted by oneweb
Um, cumming and having an orgasm are not one and the same. The guy asked about orgasms.

Sting? Is that you?

Stark · 03-12-2003 3:03pm

2 a day is my average over a long period of time. If I go without for a while I'll have several no bother in a day though.

TheWolf · 03-12-2003 8:14pm

Originally posted by patch
Sting? Is that you?

lol

Peace · 05-12-2003 4:25pm

Depends whether i have beer on me or not.....If beer is involved once i shoot my load i'm out like a light. If no beer then it depends...after a while i might go for round 2, or maybe not.

][cEMAN** · 05-12-2003 5:25pm

*In fight commentator voice* In the red corner - Peace, and in the blue corner - where he shot off to!

Sorry couldn't resist. TBH there is no normal in this case i'd say. Some people can/want to go a few times. Some don't. If you find that you don't want to at all any of those days (as you're saying you're seeing her only at weekends) then that might b a problem with your sex drive. If you're under emotional stress this could be a fault - but tbh man don't work yourself up so much. The more you work yourself up, the more chance you'll end up with a problem...

Wolf · 08-12-2003 2:19pm

Originally posted by oneweb
Um, cumming and having an orgasm are not one and the same. The guy asked about orgasms.

I thought tho that to some extent you would have to orgasim even a little to actaully ejactulate?

Any soz off topic but its just a question really.

milltown · 08-12-2003 2:30pm

When only air comes out you're done for the day.

Pffft

Victor · 08-12-2003 2:33pm

Originally posted by Wolf
I thought tho that to some extent you would have to orgasim even a little to actaully ejactulate?

In relatively rare circumstances (e.g. medication) you can have one without the other. More common is partial ejacualtion with orgasm or ejaculation with partial orgasm or some varient there of.

uberwolf · 08-12-2003 2:40pm

there is some eastern (it always them) practice of being able to orgasm with no ejaculation and no loss of, erm, stature... Multiple orgasms come,no pun, into play here. Prostate control is the key.

As one of the replies already says, teh more you worry about it the more of aprob it becomes. Everyone is diff, if the two of you are satisfied no problem.

Victor · 08-12-2003 2:52pm

Originally posted by uberwolf
there is some eastern (it always them) practice of being able to orgasm with no ejaculation and no loss of, erm, stature... Multiple orgasms come,no pun, into play here. Prostate control is the key.

The word is tantric. See the film "Go".

LegacyUser · 12-12-2003 11:37pm

Originally posted by uberwolf
there is some eastern (it always them) practice of being able to orgasm with no ejaculation and no loss of, erm, stature... Multiple orgasms come,no pun, into play here. Prostate control is the key.

Just tense your PC muscle (the muscle you'd use to stop the flow of urine) when you're about to pop your load. This takes a fair bit of practise, but once you get there, orgasm / climax are possible, with no ejaculate coming out.
Clenching your arse cheeks tight helps too

uberwolf · 15-12-2003 7:40pm

Originally posted by Victor
The word is tantric. See the film "Go".

I was pretty sure tantric was where you delay ejac for hours(possibly) at a time. Which prompted Stings wife to once say, "sometimes i wish he'd just hurry up".

this "eastern" yoke allows orgasm but not ejac. or something

"but once you get there, orgasm / climax are possible, with no ejaculate coming out."
- can you then continue or do you lose your vigour? curious

wild_eyed · 15-12-2003 9:57pm

Originally posted by mr_angry
Depends what you're into. If its tantric sex, then once is more than enough (literally). More than 10 is probably bad, whatever your preference.

how does that stuff work? tantric i mean, can i get a cream for it, does it clear up?

Morpheus · 16-12-2003 2:59pm

TBH I can at times find it pretty boring and sometimes dont want to have it at all, but were together a while so i can perform to keep her happy but sometimes i feel like saying... please.... just get off me, i want sleep!!

never thought it was a problem,

but sometimes i feel like given a choice of cinema or sex.... im buying the popcorn, i never really feel horny anymore either.... maybe i need medical advice? i just didnt consider it a problem!

LegacyUser · 16-12-2003 11:18pm

Thanks to everyone who posted. I'll stop worrying about it and just try enjoy her company more. Never heard about guys having multiple orgasms before, think I'll check it out. Thanks for all the suggestions.

po0k · 17-12-2003 6:09am

Tantric love.

Morpheus · 17-12-2003 8:34am

LADS!!! IVE BEEN CURED!!!

I saw this FINE lookin cailn on the train last night, holding on to the railing beside me... she had some ass too!!! and i thought... damn i sure wouldnt mind hitting that from the back!!! my HORNINESS has been returned by the evil lord of uninterest.... now if only i can get my gf to wear her nurses uniform all will be well!!

what is normal for guys?

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