My girl see's other guys and stuff

LegacyUser

My girlfriend has two other guys who she sleeps with, both of whom don't know about me.

I feel the intensest feeling of lust for her and love that , anyone could imagine.
When we first got together it was all in secret and still is, as is her see-ing the other guys.
She tells more lies to cover us all up than I can keep track of, and I end up telling as many.

I'm sleeping around too a bit, but am carefull,and she says she is too. She makes me very horny and we both look out for each other.
Thing is though, she has no holes barred literally in what she gets up to, including experimenting with drugs.
Recently when out with one of the other lads, she ended up in hospital after overdo ing drink and drugs of some kind.
i'm very worried about her now , but know she will never change as i feel I know her better than anyone.
she'll tell me most of what she gets up to but not it all.

I should end this but I can't as I'd crack up if i ended things with her
what should i do , or does anyone have any advice thanks

xx

Kick dat beotch to the kerb....although you're nearly as bad as her. This thread reeks of troll though, for some reason!!!
Anyway, yeah, get rid of her. If she's doing drugs and the lord knows what with these other guys, you're risking your ass every time you sleep with her. Ditch her, then head to your local clap clinic and get yerself checked out.

Nevyn

not all realtionships are one on one things between two people.

If you really had a problem with this you could have called her on it long ago.

But it maybe time to sit and have a chat , let her know you know and that you are ( that is if you are ) ok with having an open realtionship with her as long as there are some rules to protect yourslef ( safe sex ect , know who the others are, no hard core drug use ) .



differnt people, differnt rules, doesnt mean that it isnt a realtionship

Zombrex

These types of relationships are fine as long as everyone is happy and everyone tells everyone else the truth

You are clearly not happy. Your "girlfriend" is not telling the other men the truth (and possible not telling you the truth either) To be honest it doesn't say much about her character that she has to lie to these men. I imagine they would be quite pissed off (hurt even) to find out the truth.

This has got bad news written all over it.

It sounds like you are living in the moment and not thinking about this as a relationship with a future.

Can you really see this lasting? You are unhappy, are you going to put up with being unhappy forever or until she dumps you?

You should never stay with someone you are unhappy with, just cause you are afraid too break up ... you will have other girlfriends (you seem to have no trouble picking women up) and in 2 months you will think back and say why did you let that last so long

eth0_

She sounds like nothing but a dirty s1ut to me. Be careful what you stick your dick into, as they say. God knows what she might have caught...

Who are you to tell her to stop when you're just as bad as her with sleeping around etc?

Face it, she's just a convenient hole. If you loved each other you wouldn't be in a relationship like this one, which is pretty unhealthy, emotionally and physically.

Johnny_the_fox

Some man once said "A woman is only a woman but a cigar is a smoke" so start smoking lad… enjoy life there is plenty of women out there … there is no sense in getting bogged down with this sort of relationship…

As eth0_ put it

If you loved each other you wouldn't be in a relationship like this one, which is pretty unhealthy, emotionally and physically.

MojoMaker

Another pathetic 'stuck-in-on-Friday-night-because-I'm-12' TROLL.

Beruthiel

Originally posted by MojoMaker
Another pathetic 'stuck-in-on-Friday-night-because-I'm-12' TROLL.

my feelings exactly
now if only there was such a thing as a virtual breathalyser....
:rolleyes:

Gordon

Sometimes a troll can be a help I believe.

Typedef

My girl see's other guys

Mutually exclusive concepts I'd have thought.

Hobbes

Originally posted by Wicknight
These types of relationships are fine as long as everyone is happy and everyone tells everyone else the truth

Exactly.

I know people in such relationships, and I had a girlfriend who was in one too (although she only tells me after we are dating a while).

Whatever floats your boat.. but make sure everyone else is also happy with it.

Walls

You are clearly not enough for your girlfriend sexually. You should therefore be glad that she still bothers to even see you. Her sleeping with other men is perfectly normal and is a sign of her having both a healthy body and a healthy mind. I suggest you congratulate yourself on finding such a woman and stop whining.

Heresy

God walls, if that's your definition of a great woman, good luck with the old steady relationship thing.
Her infidelity and lust for more than one man in the sack is more a sign of her possible mental health problems. When you mix drugs into that concoction you know there is something seriously wrong...
Give her a 'knock on the head'.

jEt|Dino

lol em why dont you be her pimp ?

nah serious off with her

DaithiSurfer

Sit her down and say.
'Oh honey i have to tell you something. I have Syphillis'

If she says thats ok darling i have too you're ****ed.

Trojan

Yo ****; this is why methinks "the whole monogamy thing" is not overrated...

Al.

Typedef

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ven0m

dump this chick like a hot coal in your hand man....... never share the wealth.... unless it's with her attractive female friend in a bed after a nite out & you get to party too

seriously though - give her an ultimatum - she's using you (yes I know what I just said!!!!!) - if you want a serious relationship with you - tell her to dump the other two or else grab your rod & go fishing my friend.......

joseph brand

I don't buy this thread, but anyway, anybody who sleeps round that much, from my experience, is a bit of a nutter.

These people have serious issues ,which are contagious if you fall for this person, so steer clear, my dear.

Put it this way, she sucks his ****, then you kiss her, yuuuuccckkkk.

joseph brand

I don't buy this thread, but anyway, anybody who sleeps round that much, from my experience, is a bit of a nutter.

These people have serious issues ,which are contagious if you fall for this person, so steer clear, my dear.

Put it this way, she sucks his ****, then you kiss her, yuuuuccckkkk.

The Corinthian

Originally posted by Trojan
this is why methinks "the whole monogamy thing" is not overrated...

Oh no, not overrated but it does leave a lot to be desired, as it were

Initial poster, despite the objections of the morality police here, I wouldn’t think that a polygamous relationship would necessarily be a bad thing. In practice and in your situation, given her recent overdose, I would hazard a guess that she’s not being very careful - not just with precautions, but potentially with the sexual company she keeps also. It’s one thing to sleep around, but who you sleep with is equally important.

So Drop her. She’s well on her way to the high-risk category (if not there already), given that drug/alcohol abuse is highly likely to be affecting her use of precautions and who she chooses to have sex with.

bloggs

Ahh when i read things like this, my reminds me how lucky i am to have a g/f i fully trust and know whould never two time me

Sorry some advice, kick the bitch to the kerb, she sounds like a dirty slag or a dirty skanger

Mac daddy

So you like getting sloppy seconds or thirds even.
slapper :rolleyes:

derrie

Well - I'd say bye-bye in your situation. That is if you love her. If it's just a bit of fun and she's great in bed - cool have fun
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But do it safely - get yourself checked for the old STI's - they can be nasty. One of my friends from the old college days contracted chladymia and gave to this girl he was with at the time - she then
tried to give to the rest of us!

Some people are quite happy in polygamous relationships - as long as EVERYONE involved knows have fun

(Not for me though - I'm a one woman lover)