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holding a grudge

  • 04-07-2003 9:41am
    #1
    namuras
    Closed Accounts Posts: 61 ✭✭


    hold a grudge. For a long time.

    It'd be nice not to, to forgive, move on, etc etc.

    If the begrudged person hasn't changed, isn't sorry and would do the same again, can you really 'forgive' as such?

    And if you can't forgive, is the only way to shake a grudge to give up caring, which requires not caring about the person either?

    Thoughts?


Comments

  • #2
    Tyrrial
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,105 ✭✭✭Tyrrial


    i'm thinkin' Monty's job is getting more and more work. i also think this is not on the right board. try personal Issues


  • #3
    Monty - the one and only
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,274 ✭✭✭Monty - the one and only


    indeed moved...


  • #4
    The Sweeper
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,658 ✭✭✭✭The Sweeper


    nice sig

    "Love is not found but grows as it is given"

    Long story short, you cannot forgive someone who is not sorry

    Some things in this life are so personal, so deep, so hurtful, so unreasonable, so outrageous and so involved that you can never 'forgive' them.

    You must just perfect the art of the shoddy painter decorator

    And wallpaper over the cracks.


  • #5
    Mewzel
    Closed Accounts Posts: 943 ✭✭✭Mewzel


    there is no way you can forgive someone who isnt sorry and would do it again. just think how stupid you'd feel if they did do it again and you'd forgiven them.
    for your own self respesct you cant allow yourself to be walked over like that.
    all you can really try to do is forget about it/them, though this can be quite difficult if you're in the same group of friends- trust me.


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