Safety order against family member

LegacyUser

I have a family member that has turned on me. They are narcissistic and thinks the world revolves around them and men. They only value themselves through men but that's not the issue.

They turned on me. I never done anything on them. I eventually got mad with them and they have used my reaction against me.

All I ever wanted was a sibling relationship but I have been shot down time and time again, blaming me for the issues and my reaction They have refused to talk, refused to attend therapy but had no issue ringing my place of work and sending my place of work Facebook messages. So I done the same thing back to them and they never liked it, but yet continue on about what I have done and contacting their employer. Yet, they refuse to see they have done the same thing to me and refuse to acknowledge any of it.

There has been way more things that has happened but they think the way to get to me is intimidating me in my job. When we weren't estranged, this person has split my head open. But family, eh?

This is a very dangerous person I am dealing with. I have tried with them, tried to be nice but I'm so tired of it all. They once again contacted my place of work instead of talking. Unfortunately I don't know what else they can do, so I went to the guards and I have applied for a safety order at the court.

What happens now that I have applied for a safety order.

Steviewinger

huydey wrote: »

I have a family member that has turned on me. They are narcissistic and thinks the world revolves around them and men. They only value themselves through men but that's not the issue.

They turned on me. I never done anything on them. I eventually got mad with them and they have used my reaction against me.

All I ever wanted was a sibling relationship but I have been shot down time and time again, blaming me for the issues and my reaction They have refused to talk, refused to attend therapy but had no issue ringing my place of work and sending my place of work Facebook messages. So I done the same thing back to them and they never liked it, but yet continue on about what I have done and contacting their employer. Yet, they refuse to see they have done the same thing to me and refuse to acknowledge any of it.

There has been way more things that has happened but they think the way to get to me is intimidating me in my job. When we weren't estranged, this person has split my head open. But family, eh?

This is a very dangerous person I am dealing with. I have tried with them, tried to be nice but I'm so tired of it all. They once again contacted my place of work instead of talking. Unfortunately I don't know what else they can do, so I went to the guards and I have applied for a safety order at the court.

What happens now that I have applied for a safety order.

You will have to go to local district court. Just you and the judge and your soiicitor if you have one. The judge will hear the facts and will grant a protection order if needs be. This is a safety order until both parties attend closed court whereby the protection order will be lifted or a safety order will be granted. Best of luck

LegacyUser

You're trying to force a sibling relationship that your sibling doesn't want. What reaction did you have to your sibling fall out? Did you slash tyres? Key a car? Poison a dog? How do expect boards.ie to help you when you have been vague in your op. They value themselves through men but that's not the issue - so why did you put it in your opening paragraph? Its probably time you accept a failed relationship instead of pushing it. Don't go anywhere near a judge without a solicitor and barrister especially if you are engaging.