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How long did you wait?

  • 20-05-2018 12:39pm
    #1
    Sigma Force
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,132 ✭✭✭


    Question: Once you were sober and on the mend and things had improved etc. How long did you wait before making any new plans or commitments? In AA I think they say two years? Is there a time frame or is it more individual thing? I know piling on too much pressure in early recover isn't ideal but what worked best for you?


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  • #2
    tinpib
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,508 ✭✭✭tinpib


    What do you mean by new plans and commitments?


  • #3
    dar100
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    Do what suits you and your individual life situation relative to how you deal with issues etc. Don't mind what they Do in the like of fellowships


  • #4
    aabarnes1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 295 ✭✭aabarnes1


    Hi Sigma
    2 years is a bit of bad advice I'm afraid, a bit like 90 meetings in 90 days- not part of the program and not documented in any official AA literature like the Big Book.It's rubbish that has been born out of treatment centres.
    Making decisions following a period of sobriety very much depends on what the decision is and how the resulting action will affect you/others.
    It is always wise to consult with your sponsor before making any 'big' decisions and also what is your gut telling you. Of course always ask Him(Higher Power) for guidance/inspiration.


  • #5
    Sigma Force
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,132 ✭✭✭Sigma Force


    tinpib wrote: »
    What do you mean by new plans and commitments?

    Anything from moving house, changing jobs, holidays away etc.


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