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Pregnant and boyfriend flirting and messaging other women

  • 03-08-2014 12:49am
    #1
    Blueteddy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2 ✭


    I feel very lost and I've no one I can talk to. My boyfriend is in the army and is on a 6 month foreign posting. We broke up last year for 4 months and got back together in September last year.
    I fell pregnant in February and I thought we were both happy. He is home at the minute on his 2 weeks leave and my instincts told me that something wasn't right. He had his phone on silent, kept it hidden and had deleted all the history on his call log, messages, Facebook and emails on the iPad. Anyway he'd forgotten about his skype and nearly had heart failure when I asked him to put it on the smart tv to call his mam. I had a look at it and it turns out that he's been messaging and chatting with some girl from Miami fairly regularly since at least January sending dirty pictures, telling her she makes him smile, and that if he lived in the US he would date her and how beautiful she is. I know what I have to do, there's no going back from this...there was another girl on the skype as well which it looked like he'd been chatting to as well. I don't have any doubt that there's many more he's been messaging on FB etc but that he deleted all that before he came home. I feel like if he is this intimate with a stranger on the internet, then there is prob real life girls that he has been chasing or been with as well. When I met him in the airport in the UK he wasn't expecting to see me, my flight landed early, and I nearly got sick when I saw him hammered chatting up some random girl. It's like everytime I turn around it's something else and my head is spinning. I was married before and it ended when my husband cheated and here I am 5 years later in an even worse situation.
    I know I need to end it but I'm so scared. I'm 6.5 months pregnant with my first child and no family I can rely on. I feel devastated at the thoughts of having my little girl and everything she's going to miss out on coming from a broken home before she's even born. I feel like if I wasn't pregnant I'd never face the world again.


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  • #2
    Blueteddy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2 ✭Blueteddy


    Thanks Sunflower for your reply. Everything doesn't look as dark as before. I come from a horrible family so you are right that one good parent can be better than a horrible home. Being on my own and happy will make my life better than constantly looking over my shoulder checking and being hurt by someone who is supposed to be my partner.


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