Guy's are saying I have to lose my virginity by the end of the month!

willfromcork

Well basically I am a guy and I will be turning 20 this year at I am still a virgin and to be honest I don't really care and I have had no contact with the opposite sex. This is for a few reasons.
I was sexually abused by a man when I was younger I never asked for this to happen to me but it makes me feel very uncomfortable when I get close to the opposite sex because I feel uncomfortable. So, sex isn't on mind at all really. I would never sleep with a random person from a night out because I believe that wrong and I would really have to trust someone before anything happened.
I also was really badly bullied during secondary school. I was made feel like dirt and this on top of the abuse made me isolate myself from the world and I had no friends.
I began college in September and it's going okay. I decided that this was my chance to make friends and change myself and I have actually got people that like me now. So, I enjoy this.
However I am in apartment which I hate I don't get on with the people I live with and spend most of the time in different people's apartments and not my own and I go out a lot.
In the last few weeks the people I live with and a few others have started onto to me about who I am riding and it's diving me made and now they are saying that there going to attack me if I don't lose it by the end of the month. I just don't want to have sex. I have a good few friends who are girls and all I want is to be friends with them. I feel really threatened by these guys and I don't spend much time in the apartment now at all I just want to stay away from the place because I am unhappy there. I also have another few issues with the people I live with but I kind of got of that.
Last week they came into my room when I forgot to lock it and started onto me about my penis and they grabbed it through my pants and said it's small. Then they said we have to show you how to put on a condom and I managed to push them off. They said that there going to beat me up and through me out of the apartment if I don't lose my virginity by the end of the month.
Now I am afraid because all I want to do is make friends and enjoy myself for the first time in my life.
So, what should I do?

Taltos

Op

as you have been assaulted and now threatened by your housemates this is now a matter for the gardai.

Please contact them immediately.