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got her father to speak to him

  • 05-10-2010 2:00pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026
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    A good mate of mine met a girl recently. He understood she is in a relationship. She proceeded to tell him over a few drinks while on a night out all about herself.

    He didn't do anything about asking her out, even though he says they got on really well. But due to her being involved with a guy, he kept well away.
    Fast forward a month later. He's in town meeting his brother. He's in the same bar as before and she walks in at 4pm. They meet, have coffe together. She tells him more about herself, apparently doesn't refer to her bf, but just tells him lots of stuff about herself, job, health the lot.
    His brother arrives and joins them. She is heading off and he asks her to meet for a coffee.

    She agrees. They texted one another that evening, he says it was harmless stuff. My own gf has seen the texts and reckons she was definately flirting with him. He texts her the following day to arrange to meet up and low and behold she cuts him off. Said she can't meet him. He calls her as he felt he had upset her in some way. She won't take his calls.
    Instead she emails him and tried to make out it was all his fault, chatting her. He said it was her who was doing the chatting. Anyway, that night her father rings him and tells him to leave his daughter alone. My mate is on the one hand laughing at this. Her owl man changed his tune toward him when he heard how much my mate knew about her and her family. Her bf was never mentioned. Father suggested he leave it a few months, to let things cool down!!


    My mate feels he has had a lucky escape, but that he never did anything except be friendly with this girl.
    Has a 30 year girl ever got her father to warn off a guy? What do you think of that?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,064 Distorted
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    My mate feels he has had a lucky escape, but that he never did anything except be friendly with this girl.
    Has a 30 year girl ever got her father to warn off a guy? What do you think of that?

    I do know of a few attention loving, spoilt brats! The fact that her father was prepared to act like this when she is 30 probably tells you the reason she behaves like this now...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 109 darad
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    Lucky escape I think, it all sounds a tad strange to say the least


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,723 Cheap Thrills!
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    Sounds like she used your friend as a fluffer to try to make her BF jealous.

    I'd guess she wanted attention and thought it would sound good to say '...oh my God that guy just persued me SO MUCH I had to get my Daddy to warn him off...oh boo hoo poor little irresistable me'

    Thing is the sucker BF will probably swallow it too.

    Anyway your mate should have words with the potentially reputation ruining little brat.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,416 Danniboo
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    Oh this annoys me its stupid bitches like this that give the rest of us a bad name. I want I want I want and when I can't have my cake and eat it i'll run crying to Daddy trust me I know girls that are 32 + and still behave like this, pathetic.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 LegacyUser
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    You've had a lucky escape there pal. What girl would ask her father to talk to a guy and she in her 30s?
    I've never heard of that before. Seems to me she has personality issues. Maybe she is spoiled I don't know, but it seems to me that she found herself falling for you, call it infatuation or whatever. Then she decided to involve her Dad so to make her out to be the victim.
    You must remember you did nothing wrong based on what you have posted here. She got involved, clearly liked you and probably still does. But she had to make out you were chasing her to save her relationship.
    She must feel very ashamed and embarrassed in hindsight. Her father should have kept out of it, although I suppose he would say he had to protect his darling daughter.
    Just remember she is a once off, no other girl in her 30s would behave like she did. She seems to crave attention and so has little or no self esteem.
    But I bet you will find that she has a lot of issues going on in her life that you are unaware of.
    Look on the positive side. For you, she fancied you. Simple as. But she knew she'd have to break up with her current bf and wasn't prepared to do that.
    Don't dwell on it. You had a lucky escape.


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